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| He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Lovelink1991(op): 10:41am On Oct 15 |
A lady got emotional after seeing her late brother's payslip and realizing he had been struggling silently while still putting on a strong face. Despite his low income, he was helping others and raising two children in the university without complaining. Her story has left many people in tears online, with many saying we need to check on our strong friends and family. May his soul rest in peace. What do you think about this? Share your thoughts in the comment section. #TouchingStory #EmotionalStory #ViralStory #NigeriaStories #LifeLesson https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QPz3vANDw
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| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by T0BY(m): 11:04am On Oct 15 |
As I always say.. take care of yourself first before attending to other things. As em don kpai, the world moves on, including the people he was helping. Learning the hardway, isn't ideal. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by TheNonexisting(m): 1:22pm On Oct 15 |
He knew no one would help a man so he carried his cross with dignity. Now flip it to the other side. If it was a woman, she would refuse to take responsibility and blame everyone else around her, family and friends included for not coming to her aid. To be man is not easy, rip to the gentleman. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by gerizzim: 1:29pm On Oct 15 |
He probably had oda sources of income he was urgumenting wit his pay. The one the sister saw may be the pay frm his main job. likely a monthly salary pay job. Let's assume his pay is 100k. no parent can comfortable sponsor 2 children in todays present day university with a salary of 100k. couple wit expenses at the home front. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by BigYash: 2:15pm On Oct 15 |
To be a man is not a day's job. Nobody really care about men. It's always women ,and children. Girl child this ,girl child that. Male children are left to suffer.. It starts right from the early years of the boy child. The world doesn't care .. Someone once said that the word value dog more than the boy child. It's always girl child.. Women's day 10x a year |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Chinkem123: 2:44pm On Oct 15 |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by franchasng: 3:20pm On Oct 15 |
If Nigerians know the gloomy future ahead of Nigeria should Tinubu and his assembly of evil, heartless, corrupt criminal gang get reelected in 2027, they will stop playing or thinking its a tribal supremacy fight or online salaye contest, and will do everything within their power to ensure Tinubu does not succeed in rigging himself into office in 2027 ![]() |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Leemzyy(f): 3:38pm On Oct 15 |
BigYash:Ahhh God, must you have to attack women again? |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by motymop: 4:39pm On Oct 15 |
many men go through this but the only question i have is why is that the dependents are not working...like are they cripple or do they have disability if their brother dies today, will they die also, apparently they will continue living and life continues |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by hakeemhakeem(m): 5:21pm On Oct 15 |
As a man please don't do more than yourself interm of the school you enrolled kids and families responsibilities. They can't kill you highest is abuse you and after some while everyone dey their dey |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Lovelink1991(op): 5:39pm On Oct 15 |
franchasng:What has he done in the pass three years or that is not part of the years for him to built the future? Name one thing that the price has reduced since becoming the president of Nigeria? |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Fekumzi123: 6:45pm On Oct 15 |
T0BY:No matter how you take care of yourself now you have maximum of 80 yrs left if you can understand this. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Bluntguy: 6:46pm On Oct 15 |
May God bless all men's legit hustles. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Gotocourt: 6:52pm On Oct 15 |
E no easy ooooooo Men sacrifice for the family, it's draining 😪. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by oshkoach: 7:26pm On Oct 15 |
This is where this admin has brought us. Everyday I switch on my phone, I get messages of people asking for money. The irony is that am also begging for money where possible. Please let’s change this government, I beg you fellow Nigerians. If we elect Obi or Atiku and they don’t do well, we vote them out again until we get a true leader who is passionate about the welfare of its people. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Pootle: 7:26pm On Oct 15 |
crocodile tears, people only show sympathy when people are about to die or dead |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by SmartMaster001: 7:28pm On Oct 15 |
You can never know what we men pass through |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by jimi4us: 7:28pm On Oct 15 |
APC have destroyed more life than Satan |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by bluefilm: 7:29pm On Oct 15 |
How people will set up camera and start crying for others to notice them is what I can never fully understand |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Rootprof(m): 7:29pm On Oct 15 |
Have being seeing this news on twitter for a while. Many said he should have speak out for help. Well like we men know no one is coming to help us, some of us hate been rejected or turned down by so called friends during hard times. Due to insecurity in my area farming which is my main hustle become so hard, this affected me financially coupled with some loans I'm paying which I took last year hoping the farming season will favour but sadly I could not get upto half of what I expected. My landlord was on my neck. At some point I was let me approach my friend for 100k assist. My friend blocked me on WhatsApp after reading my message. I just discovered my messages was not delivering after the first one. I was disappointed because I never asked him for such before and this is someone we grew up together eat sleep play together. I just dust the carton of my phone carry am enter shop sell am using the money pay my rent and face feint. Better days ahead. May God bless all hard working mens |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by femi4: 7:29pm On Oct 15 |
Why rely on a source of income in this time n age |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Kingpele(m): 7:30pm On Oct 15 |
Well probably she wasn't paying attention enough...u can't hide brokenness, it's evidence in appearance and the way a man carried himself....his family disappointed him |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by HacheNoire: 7:30pm On Oct 15 |
Let me use this medium to share a true life story of why you need to count yourself first! My late friend was a son of a single father. In poverty, he knew he was poor and NEVER envisaged or dreamt of greatness. He tried to live that life but never could keep up with it He got drained and lost at some point. The father that raised him died and Hommie lost his cool. That was the last man he knew on Earth. Months later, the company his father worked with came in with an insurance insurance agent to announce to him the father had a life insurance. A man living in a self contain. The pain left my guy and he had hope. I don’t want to say too much and make it longer. The same money left for him led to his death. Father and son now in heaven. May their souls continue to rest in peace. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by bigpicture001: 7:31pm On Oct 15 |
This is occasioned by the nonsense naija society..who emphasizes that men must suffer ND never complain... He was only being compliant |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by tpain121: 7:32pm On Oct 15 |
Lovelink1991:Did you understand his post at all ? |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by gigabyte13: 7:35pm On Oct 15 |
Hmmmmmmm Na kind and compassionate people dey give no be rich people. I fit give you my last #5k to survive but you go still dey think say l foolish. But the day l go do you shege Na the day wey you go actually need that #5k to survive, l no go give you Na that day you go no say that #5k wey l dey give you Na part of my life l dey hustle give you so |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by judewrites: 7:39pm On Oct 15 |
BigYash:Yes, true.... That's why some lazy men try to become women through transgender.... They feel life is easier for women than with men. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by lawlex(m): 7:40pm On Oct 15 |
Any cry, cried in front of a camera isn't a cry.. deepest condolences to the family stay strong sister Lovelink1991: |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Eba50: 7:40pm On Oct 15*. Modified: 10:00pm On Oct 15 |
My guy dey japa go Italy from lybia in 2007 using the sea. He completed his mortal act when his boat capsized. Till today them no see his body. Only 4 survivors. His sister abroad later bring all the family by air. They are all made with 2 upstairs that are empty here.they are all in Europe, their brother died for noffin |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by Sleekfingers: 7:41pm On Oct 15 |
😏😏😏😏😏Any little thing. They will bring it online. |
| Re: He Was Suffering In Silence! Lady Cries After Seeing Late Brother's Payslip by SmartyPants(m): 7:42pm On Oct 15 |
gerizzim:Some comments are not necessary. How can you say he probably had a side income as if you knew him personally? Then you even ascribed an imaginary figure of 100k to support your unreasonable evercise in speculation. Are you more or better informed than the family that has gotten to see even his payslip? Stop this bad behavior. |
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