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So na vaccines dey cause adhd, autism and other mental illness, no wonder autism is on the rsie since the beginning of the 21st century

HOLY CR*P 🚨 Robert F Kennedy Jr reveals that CDC Chiefs have been ordering scientists to DESTROY DATA for decades showing vaccines cause autism, then publish false findings

READ THAT AGAIN

RFK Jr. “I'll just tell you one example, and I could sit here and give you THOUSANDS.… pic.twitter.com/UV7PqZSRDX

— Deep Leaks (@DeepLeaksHQ) October 14, 2026

BlueRayDick:
According to StatiSense, only 2.4% of Nigerians earn N200k & above monthly. That 2.4% comprises of men and women o, married & single.

It's safe to say an average single lady from a struggling background hoping to get married to a legit guy will marry from that pool except she's extremely lucky or she decides to go the other way by marrying Yahoo boy, drug mule, NURTW,etc

How they don't see this reality dey always Muse me.

I got this same stat from a guy who is a CEO of a Nigerian company. Every girl is going for those 1%. Last last na aspiration, the reality is that majority will end up marrying for the bulk of men available

Core Income Statistics & Tiers of Nigeria
* Average Income: The typical monthly income sits between ₦80,000 and ₦120,000, though this is heavily skewed by high earners in banking and oil.
* Low Income (40–50% of population): Earns below ₦100,000 per month.
* Lower-Middle Income (20–25% of population): Earns between ₦100,000 and ₦250,000 per month.
* Middle Income (15–20% of population): Earns between ₦250,000 and ₦1,000,000 per month.
* Upper-Middle & Top Earners (5–8%): Earns ₦1,000,000 to ₦3,000,000+ per month, with the top 1% earning upwards of ₦2.5 million to ₦3 million monthly.
* The Wage Gap: Only about 2.4% of the population earns more than ₦200,000 monthly, showing how few jobs pay above a basic survival threshold.

raumdeuter:
I got this same stat from a guy who is a CEO of a Nigerian company. Every girl is going for those 1%. Last last na aspiration, the reality is that majority will end up marrying for the bulk of men available

I guess everyone is allowed to dream, but the reality is only few dreams come true.

There are quite a handful of ladies I know personally who are in their early to mid 30s actively looking to settle down. The problem is most of the men that have been coming their way have one or more "comma" that makes them unsuitable for marriage. The guy may have a decent job with a roof over his head, but turn out to be AS genotype while the lady is also AS. There are those who are unsuitable for marriage due to religious differences, tribal differences, etc.

Imagine having all of those factors stacked against you, only to see a decent guy who tries to plan ur future with u and u call him stingy because he's not spendthrift .

BlueRayDick:
I guess everyone is allowed to dream, but the reality is only few dreams come true.

There are quite a handful of ladies I know personally who are in their early to mid 30s actively looking to settle down. The problem is most of the men that have been coming their way have one or more "comma" that makes them unsuitable for marriage. The guy may have a decent job with a roof over his head, but turn out to be AS genotype while the lady is also AS. There are those who are unsuitable for marriage due to religious differences, tribal differences, etc.

Imagine having all of those factors stacked against you, only to see a decent guy who tries to plan ur future with u and u call him stingy because he's not spendthrift .

In a related story that I posted also. See where it will end. iamoyindamola you wont have a choice but do polygamy.

"He is a 10, but he is married."

Nobody gree comot. These are the issues. pic.twitter.com/HLscLmMlmw

— Sir Dickson (@Wizarab10) October 10, 2026

raumdeuter:
In a related story that I posted also. See where it will end. iamoyindamola you wont have a choice but do polygamy.

"He is a 10, but he is married."

Nobody gree comot. These are the issues. pic.twitter.com/HLscLmMlmw

— Sir Dickson (@Wizarab10) October 10, 2026

This one below did not even bother dreaming, she just date two armed robbers with her full chest

“I’ve never followed them to any r0bbery operation before, the guy I was dating gave me one of the phones that they stole. I knew he was an armed r0bber. My first boyfriend is inside pris0n for robbery too and that’s when I started dating this new one that’s also an armed r0bber”… pic.twitter.com/Z9Dk08aiD2

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) October 14, 2026

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raumdeuter:
I like as she jabo the guy, The guy does not deserve a deadbeat GF like that

Young men of today if you are doing well, Options plenty. You also need to be selective. Nowadays nack even plenty for street so no rush. If you see the numbers of single women into their late 30s nowadays, All those dating services even by Social Media clowns like Lege and co, Na women full there

If you finished secondary school lets say 20yrs ago, so your age group is between 34 to 37, Go and see the number of girls in your set who are still single never married

Don't let anyone use unnecessary pressure to kill you, Buy me this buy me that. Give me this and give me that. If you marry that kain person, you don get wetin you go dey serve and worship for life be that cos the demands and appetite do not get better

Very solid advice Egbon🫡

I'm also happy for that guy cause Na wetin him for dey nurse for the rest of him life be that and even end up frustrating the guy after ruining the business

I think social media also contributed to these girls delusion, came across some that say some things and I ask if they include Nigerian factor in these their delusion, their replies are not so far from these Ladies in pastor Bolaji church

Anytime they want to start their delusional talks, they'll start with a "Real Man should"

iamoyindamola:
They will end up with a deadbeat and later become single mother, the frustration of fending for the child will make them bitter and emergency feminists
See American version, she wasn'teven asking for money or material things, she just want some night out dates which the judges criticise her for

see the american version here https://t.co/CPlXxymOkW pic.twitter.com/FyyJYRdd1r

— ibk (@ibukvnoluwa) October 15, 2026

Most of them don't even know what they want

BlueRayDick:
This one below did not even bother dreaming, she just date two armed robbers with her full chest

https://x.com110391872627622075/video/1?s=46

A regular guy earning normal income will now be competing and trying to satisfy a girl wey don run package with armed robbers

raumdeuter:
In a related story that I posted also. See where it will end. iamoyin.damola you wont have a choice but do polygamy.

"He is a 10, but he is married."

Nobody gree comot. These are the issues. pic.twitter.com/HLscLmMlmw

— Sir Dickson (@Wizarab10) October 10, 2026

Poly wetin, it's not worth it at all

ajumma:
*"Corruption is itself central to the spread of poverty."*
-RIPP Umaru Musa Yar’Adua

*“Nigeria's problem is not money, but how to spend it.”*
-Gen. Yakubu Gowon

*"Our problem is not the absence of resources, but the presence of too many resourceful thieves."*
-RIP Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe

Once again, are we really poor or poor at managing our resources, even our OGs believe the latter.

https://www.nairaland.com/8766342/which-these-nigerias-leader-speech

BlueRayDick:
I guess everyone is allowed to dream, but the reality is only few dreams come true.

There are quite a handful of ladies I know personally who are in their early to mid 30s actively looking to settle down. The problem is most of the men that have been coming their way have one or more "comma" that makes them unsuitable for marriage. The guy may have a decent job with a roof over his head, but turn out to be AS genotype while the lady is also AS. There are those who are unsuitable for marriage due to religious differences, tribal differences, etc.

Imagine having all of those factors stacked against you, only to see a decent guy who tries to plan ur future with u and u call him stingy because he's not spendthrift .

Must be something in the air in Lagos and Abuja that makes those ladies delusional.

I generally think ladies in other cities are more realistic in their marital expectations.

Around here, man wey be lecturer, health worker or get federal job na hotcake. Many colleagues married fellow staff. Those who married "outsiders", collect cooperative loans to establish their wives in business, and when the opportunity presented itself, got their spouses into the system. Na the general format be that. Husband & wife levels plenty for my institution.

When I see all those "can you marry a man that earns 500k videos" and the lady says NO, I just shake my head and laugh cos most of dem na Shiloh, NSPPD, Hallelujah challenge etc dem go end up last last.

semid4lyfe:
Must be something in the air in Lagos and Abuja that makes those ladies delusional.
I generally think ladies in other cities are more realistic in their marital expectations.
Around here, man wey be lecturer, health worker or get federal job na hotcake. Many colleagues married fellow staff. Those who married "outsiders", collect cooperative loans to establish their wives in business, and when the opportunity presented itself, got their spouses into the system. Na the general format be that. Husband &:wife levels plenty for my institution.

Some organizations do not encourage dating or marrying from the same organization, A policy which I dont agree with

semid4lyfe:
When I see all those "can you marry a man that earns 500k videos" and the lady says NO, I just shake my head and laugh cos most of dem na Shiloh, NSPPD, Hallelujah challenge etc dem go end up last last.

Most of it na just SM posing. Many of them never see 1m at once before. I will say even among the girl doing runs only a very small minority of them on collect 1m at once before, No be bank release stat say over 95% of bank accounts do not have 500K in it. When anyone see camera they start talking out of their assss

semid4lyfe:
Must be something in the air in Lagos and Abuja that makes those ladies delusional.

I generally think ladies in other cities are more realistic in their marital expectations.

Around here, man wey be lecturer, health worker or get federal job na hotcake. Many colleagues married fellow staff. Those who married "outsiders", collect cooperative loans to establish their wives in business, and when the opportunity presented itself, got their spouses into the system. Na the general format be that. Husband &:wife levels plenty for my institution.

When I see all those "can you marry a man that earns 500k videos" and the lady says NO, I just shake my head and laugh cos most of dem na Shiloh, NSPPD, Hallelujah challenge etc dem go end up last last.

It is not Lagos /Abuja ladies imho. It is twitter ladies performing for an audience /outrage merchants performing for clicks.

GloriousGbola:
It is not Lagos /Abuja ladies imho. It is twitter ladies performing for an audience /outrage merchants performing for clicks.

The part in bold is true, Its just a performance, In their real life dem dey hustle for daily 2K

I'm surprised people haven't clock democrats strategy,there's a reason they support almost anything,blm, Palestinians,anti-ice,lgbtq etc.

Now they're shifting to Islam while dumping blacks and jews

Their goal is to have enough voters on their side ,it going to get a lot worse for you America and European countries.

Jesus is coming.

raumdeuter:
Some organizations do not encourage dating or marrying from the same organization, A policy which I dont agree with

Hmm, generally e dey good but e get disadvantage too

You remember that time in 2020 when the university-based unions were on strike for 6 - 8 months, and FG instituted no work, no pay?

Married couples in my institution see shege for that period .

In this 2026, people are still scooping petrol in fallen tankers

There was a conversation about confra in Rivers state sometime in the past

This one na new dimension. Confra dey renovate police station

Cultists Renovated a Police Station in Rivers State. pic.twitter.com/KZAJ0jjRTf

— Nigeria Stories (@NigeriaStories) October 15, 2026

pocohantas:
Shebi na una tell them say men do not care about money? 😂

Social media na scam. In reality, many men are still marrying women with zero kobo to their name.

TemporaryHansel:
Social media na scam. In reality, many men are still marrying women with zero kobo to their name.

Normal thing na. If I were a broke girl, online talk no fit make me repent. Naija men would marry me😂. Even those babes claiming they want 5m monthly earners, they just wan put person for talk because we all know the reality and availability of such men.

raumdeuter:
There was a conversation about confra in Rivers state sometime in the past

This one na new dimension. Confra dey renovate police station

Cultists Renovated a Police Station in Rivers State. pic.twitter.com/KZAJ0jjRTf

— Nigeria Stories (@NigeriaStories) October 15, 2026

Technically, they aren't cultists but a philanthropic group. DNKI or so. But in reality...

Ibime:
More likely that Bayo is not interested in celebrity to submit data to Forbes

GIP valuation can be calculated within a decent margin of error and it won't be as powderpuff as Jay Z or Rihanna valuation which is based on vague brand valuations mixed with a bit of EBITDA multiples

GIP valuation would be on physical assets and tangible cash flows and not far from what BlackRock paid in consideration (usually within ~ 20% mark up on fair value).

It would have been based on:

(a.) Actual physical assets owned by the company such as shares in Ports and Airports

(b.) Multiples of EBITDA derived from Management fees for fund management of which GIP was collecting $750m in fees per year, plus their small share of ownership in portfolio companies (outside of the funds ownership). Companies in their portfolio generated $75 bln annual revenue. I don't know what percentage of their portfolio constitutes fund ownership and what percentage constitutes direct ownership but direct ownership is part of the mix.

That guy is a troll and does that rubbish for fun.I remember reading one of his silly nonsense on NBA and some other threads. I wouldnt have indulged him if I were you.

Any normal (finance) person knows that Private Equity by virtue of its nature/asset class is in itself illiquid. So his insipid point didnt even have any basis in the first place. PE firms deal with commitments and know how to generate significant cash events if and when they need it. Look at him comparing it to dem Jay z and co. Probably googled some AI shit to come argue here

So I was at a bar this evening for normal evening cruise and an issue happened. Something we discussed here recently.

I was just waiting to get home first before I post it here, since there are others around me and will probably see what I'm typing.

All of us at the bar, all of them are married, except me. I'm at that stage where everyone around me is married, so I always seem like an outlier.

Now what caused issue is this, one of the men's wife got fvcked outside.

The matter was really serious. Some men were pressuring him to go and destroy the business place of the individual that "fvcked" his wife.

So much anger in the air. People wey no get wife come dey para pass who get wife wey them lash sef.


Now, what brought about my confusion is that every single one of these men cheat. Serious big time cheaters that have probably lost count of the number of women they've bedded this year alone.

How does it make sense that other women fvck you outside but you don't want your wife to be fvcked by another man.

It just seems like Nigerian women exist to be play toys for men, and it's unfortunate the women just accept it like that. It's really weird.


I don't know if I'm the weird one. I don't cheat when I'm in a serious relationship because it pains me when I get cheated on. So I just feel like, why do you something that I won't like if you do it to me? I try to consider the feelings of my partner before making decisions, but it seems the wider percentage of men don't? You're a human with feelings, don't you think the other person has feelings that should be taken into consideration too?

raumdeuter:
There was a conversation about confra in Rivers state sometime in the past

This one na new dimension. Confra dey renovate police station

Cultists Renovated a Police Station in Rivers State. pic.twitter.com/KZAJ0jjRTf

— Nigeria Stories (@NigeriaStories) October 15, 2026

This is in my hometown. Confraternities are mostly peaceful these days as they have been integrated into the economy since Amnesty through pipeline contracts etc. The biggest confra man Ateke is also the biggest peacekeeper. If you cause ruckus in my town, you will hear from Ateke.

semid4lyfe:
Hmm, generally e dey good but e get disadvantage too

You remember that time in 2020 when the university-based unions were on strike for 6 - 8 months, and FG instituted no work, no pay?

Married couples in my institution see shege for that period .

Actually contrary to what raumdeuter and yourself are saying, it's actually not advisable for economic reasons and one of the rationale is what you just highlighted. Infact, financial advisors/planners advise against it, some even going as far as saying both couples should not work in the same sector - for diversification reasons.

A good example is what happened in the oil sector during the 2014/15 oil crisis and covid era. Imagine both couples working in oil companies then, or maybe both you guys work in the tech sector and exposed to the recurrent layoffs which happens a lot more frequently now. Infact, if both couples have investments, companies from that sector will completely be ruled out by the advisor (even if its a top performer), and more risk play will be suggested - heavy unemployment/disability insurance etc

Of course, this is in developed economies, in naija - as long as you have an ok to well paying job, all of these becomes secondary. People have to survive first

TemporaryHansel:
So I was at a bar this evening for normal evening cruise and an issue happened. Something we discussed here recently.

I was just waiting to get home first before I post it here, since there are others around me and will probably see what I'm typing.

All of us at the bar, all of them are married, except me. I'm at that stage where everyone around me is married, so I always seem like an outlier.

Now what caused issue is this, one of the men's wife got fvcked outside.

The matter was really serious. Some men were pressuring him to go and destroy the business place of the individual that "fvcked" his wife.

So much anger in the air. People wey no get wife come dey para pass who get wife wey them lash sef.


Now, what brought about my confusion is that every single one of these men cheat. Serious big time cheaters that have probably lost count of the number of women they've bedded this year alone.

How does it make sense that other women fvck you outside but you don't want your wife to be fvcked by another man.

It just seems like Nigerian women exist to be play toys for men, and it's unfortunate the women just accept it like that. It's really weird.


I don't know if I'm the weird one. I don't cheat when I'm in a serious relationship because it pains me when I get cheated on. So I just feel like, why do you something that I won't like if you do it to me? I try to consider the feelings of my partner before making decisions, but it seems the wider percentage of men don't? You're a human with feelings, don't you think the other person has feelings that should be taken into consideration too?

How did they all find out that someone fvked his wife. Don't tell me he is the one who told them

User09:
Actually contrary to what raumdeuter and yourself are saying, it's actually not advisable and one of the reasons is what you just highlighted. Infact, financial planners and advisors advise against it, some even going as far as saying both couples should not work in the same sector - for diversification reasons.

A good example is what happened in the oil sector during the 2014/15 oil crisis and covid era. Imagine both couples working in oil companies then, or maybe both you guys work in the tech sector and exposed to the recurrent layoffs which happens a lot more frequently now. Infact, if both couples have investments, companies from that sector will completely be ruled out by the advisor (even if its a top performer), and more risk play will be suggested - heavy unemployment/disability insurance etc

Of course, this is in developed economies, in naija - as long as you have an ok to well paying job, all of these becomes secondary. People have to survive first

One private sector, one Government sector is the best combination

Private worker provides the upside while Government worker provides the foundation

Dem no dey sack Government worker

In the words of one ninja, good women outnumber good men handsomely

Therefore there will be many good women who will never know the love of a good man

Therefore men are the prize.

Those women in the congregation shouting "Men dey" must be planning to share the same man. Men dey but good men no dey.

pocohantas:
Normal thing na. If I were a broke girl, online talk no fit make me repent. Naija men would marry me😂. Even those babes claiming they want 5m monthly earners, they just wan put person for talk because we all know the reality and availability of such men.

I don't know what they're complaining for. Every single "bad character" "delusion" or "entitlement mentality" these babes are exhibiting today was enabled by men.

You cannot start something and say you won't finish it.

Ibime:
How did they all find out that someone fvked his wife. Don't tell me he is the one who told them

Yes he did.

Some men no get shame sha, even if someone fvcks my partner, I don't think I can open my mouth and tell my guy that look "someone banged my partner".

Tufiakwa. It just seems crass to me.

TemporaryHansel:
The matter was really serious. Some men were pressuring him to go and destroy the business place of the individual that "fvcked" his wife.

So much anger in the air. People wey no get wife come dey para pass who get wife wey them lash sef.


Now, what brought about my confusion is that every single one of these men cheat. Serious big time cheaters that have probably lost count of the number of women they've bedded this year alone.

How does it make sense that other women fvck you outside but you don't want your wife to be fvcked by another man.

It just seems like Nigerian women exist to be play toys for men, and it's unfortunate the women just accept it like that. It's really weird.


I don't know if I'm the weird one. I don't cheat when I'm in a serious relationship because it pains me when I get cheated on. So I just feel like, why do you something that I won't like if you do it to me? I try to consider the feelings of my partner before making decisions, but it seems the wider percentage of men don't? You're a human with feelings, don't you think the other person has feelings that should be taken into consideration too?

Bro, abeg take am easy.