₦airaland Forum

We4all:
OP, keep your advice to yourself! But if you want to advice anyone, start with your fellow men and tell them to stop killing women unnecessarily.

Also, start by training your sons, and preaching to your brothers to be morally upright, and never take a life they cannot give.

Did she force the boy to spend on her? Was he not getting sex in return? Would he have spent on her if there was no sex involved?

I'm sure he could have ended things with her if he got tired of the relationship, and the girl could have moved on peacefully, despite all the abortions he must have subjected her body to.

That boy killed the girl because he is probably a cultist who kills at will. Instead of preaching to your fellow men to become better humans, you are spewing trash and blaming the victim.

You obviously learnt nothing from the story ...

If u be chop and clean mouth kinda girl ... becareful .. Men no dey smile nowadays unlike in the olden Day where Matter they left for God to Judge ...!!

Ntor Sha becareful ... wetin u no go chop, no bring am smell ur Nose !

Both Couple Gain Nothing ... One dead and One is gonna be atleast Life Imprisonment because of How Much

GloriousGbola:
is there any link or is this another made up story to absolve the guy of blame?

you may as well add more spice to the story - he bought her a range rover

does this guy look like someone who has millions just sitting around like that?

why don't you show us evidence of his liquidity? every other day people like you say they knacked a fish head girl for price of indomie. your story is not adding up,

also, since as nigerians we celebrate transactional relationships, does this mean if a woman killed a guy who jilted her - we should also open threads warning men about the consequences of having sex with woman with no plans to marry them?

perpetual baddie fumbler geng unwilling to take responsibility

How do people who have millions sitting around look like?

Hmmm. All the greedy girls will never learn. Not every guys that forgives.

Greattom:
when we tell okolo to follow redpill ,okolo think say we are mad. Now okoko don land himself for prison ,there are still so many of them on this forum,they call redpill movement association of "broke boys'.


Okoko must learn new things

Both Okolo and Redpill na Same ...

One is a Mumu ...
One is a Weyrey ...

Just Be a Man Simple and the rest Follows!

ajalawole:
Hmmm. My cousin did introduction all the way from Kwara to Kano October last year..
January this year, the lady say she isn't doing again. She gets married 3months later after breakup with my cousin.
I don't blame the lady, but most parents. Imaging Kwara to Kano state and her parents shamelessly accept another man from hir within 5month.

..the lady and her parents were after his wealth, assets, riches

Stop dating broke girls from poor families

Sadly most women from this part of this world don't learn from each other mistakes, it's like a default settings for most of them to keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again.

And for the men, most of us need to understand the implications of sunk cost fallacy and not over extend or invest too much in any relationship, truth is many isn't worth it again just body count accumulators and beggars.

ManknowThyself:
Even when the guy did heaven on earth for her does not give him the right to end her life.


Not supporting the late girl but killing her is wrong step to take.

Never give what you are not ready to lose in relationships cos not all end in marriage.


The guy need to do the maximum time and penalty for his actions.

Ogagetout go do am too I pity you .. people react differently ... People can go any length if you take them for fool , stop it if you are doing cus you don't know extents some can go. She triggered him. Why must she collect if she won't marry him too , her parents no dey too to help her open shop ni

Never take what u can't refund. Both parties are wrong but taking a life sucks... I just hope we all learn from all this things. Some people are just the devils incarnate

ManknowThyself:
Even when the guy did heaven on earth for her does not give him the right to end her life.


Not supporting the late girl but killing her is wrong step to take.

Never give what you are not ready to lose in relationships cos not all end in marriage.


The guy need to do the maximum time and penalty for his actions.

Leemzyy:
No matter the millions he invested in her, he has no little right to do what he did, I hope he rot in jail and spend the rest of his miserable life there

No matter what she did bah ... Same faith awaits your sons in folds.

No doubt ... women should take note. I uspected this as th case based on her photo posted... looked very materialistic ... and it reminded me of a similar case yearsss ago. The man spent a whole lot on his babe for yearss.. it was a long term relationship. .. similar to this case ... but she secretly planned to marry another man. Her family knew about it . She even slept with her long time man the night before she off to marry another man the following day unknown to him.. The man learned about the wedding and showed up... then all hell broke loose

Jennyclay:
then you unstable emotional broke Men should stop gifting what you can’t let go to a woman.

If you gift me anything in the relationship and you want to collect them back after breakup, I will just report you to the police.

It’s a gift and it belongs to me forever

You go end inside sack like that girl

Even the Bible said owe no man nothing. She probably thought she was wise but her wisdom ended her. Some people may just forget what they have spent on you and others will say if they can't get you, then nobody will.
We are living in evil times. If you know in your heart you do NOT love a man, then don't collect anything from him to avoid situations like this especially if you know the man was dreaming about a future with you but I know our girls will never learn. Some are destined to be lessons for others.
As for the young man, Otilo.

Two adults made their choices. She chose to play him, he chose to kill her. One goes to the afterlife, the other goes to Jail: Action and consequence.
If you don't want to find out, don't f around. Case closed

Gbadugbakun:
The average Nigerian girl is extremely greedy, wicked and heartless.

seriously,u will be doing something for them cus u love them..they go see you as maga..why collecting from someone u dont see a future with..for the girl mind she smart

ajalawole:
my ex left me after 2020 lockdown, we never have any issues just that her parents don't want her to get married then. She is married now, I even send her son first year birthday cake.. you women don't actually know what you want, na sweet things dey kpai Una last last.

Why is heartbreaks abound in ur family like this. Hope no be curse. Why girls dey live una gan? Ur cousin,then you again. Go for deliverance o

Leemzyy:
No matter the millions he invested in her, he has no little right to do what he did, I hope he rot in jail and spend the rest of his miserable life there

We shouldn't put people in situations where they will lose their minds or do something horrific. Everybody can't restrain themselves in such situations. You better play safe and mind the way you treat people.

Jennyclay:
then you unstable emotional broke Men should stop gifting what you can’t let go to a woman.

If you gift me anything in the relationship and you want to collect them back after breakup, I will just report you to the police.

It’s a gift and it belongs to me forever

Stop collecting the gifts when you know he wants something from you which you can't deliver.

Some Naija ladies will make even the devil blush with embarrassment.

How on earth do you keep collecting stuff from a man even when you know you have no feelings for him? It's callous!

In this economy that money is hard to come by. A struggling guy rented a shop and an apartment for you, only for you to be planning to wed another man. That lady was a callous soul with no ounce of morality or empathy.

That's not to say I support what was done to her, but let's be honest, she had it coming.

As for the guy, there's no need to wish him hell because he's already there.

PS- Any feminist wey no want wahala should stay away from my mention, body dey pepper me this afternoon gan ni. I'm having a headache in my stomach please.

femi4:
That gender will always be a prey ..they get carried away easily

And that gender will always be killers, they kill easily does that make sense. There is no justification for killing a human being that you cannot create.

NO WASTE YOUR ENERGY.

THESE WEREYs NO GO EVER HEAR.

SIZE OF DEEK AND MONEY DON CLOUD THEIR BRAIN.

Nigeria men, especially my Igbo brothers are mostly fools when it comes to dating and relationships. They always have that impression that it’s when you spend profusely on a girl that would make a her solely theirs.
When you bring that hand of money and spending to a girl in a relationship, it becomes a transactional relationship, no love. To the girl, she would think she’s in love, not knowing her feelings stems from the man’s money… she’s unconscious of this until another man comes in with a higher bid, then suddenly, her feelings shift towards the other man.

My advice, don’t begin a relationship by spending money just after saying hi or hello…

If she was my sister, I won't allow them bury her in any part of our compound. Because she's a disgrace and disappointment to morality and honesty. I will still go to her grave and speat on it.

Rapmoney, I don't agree with a lot of the things you write on this forum, but on this one, I wholeheartedly concur.

ManknowThyself:
Even when the guy did heaven on earth for her does not give him the right to end her life.


Not supporting the late girl but killing her is wrong step to take.

[b][/b]Never give what you are not ready to lose in relationships [b][/b]cos not all end in marriage.


The guy need to do the maximum time and penalty for his actions.

Just like betting companies will say, bet with what you can lose. Gamble responsibly.