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BlueRayDick:
You seem not to understand my post.

I know there's a subsidiary of NNPC that markets/distribute gas. I'm basically saying NGML is nothing to write home about when compared to Gazprom. Successive years of corruption has turned NNPC and it's many subsidiaries to be yet another government parastatal where few lucky people draw good salaries, enjoy bumper bonuses and enjoy premium staff welfare benefits while no real value is added to Nigeria as a country.

NNPC has failed to run and maintain a single refinery for over 30 years. NLNG + NGML o, what has that really done for us in gas production and distribution?

If NNPC function like dem Gazprom , Saudi Aramco , etc, things supposed really better for this country to a certain extent.

hopefully Ojulari will make some changes but lets see

i hear they are introducing private sector type targets /controls and they are now giving people who are not down with this VOLEX [voluntary exit package] . My personal experience with NNPC is that unless a director pushes for something it will never be done. We have a project that has been on hold for over 11 months now. no one answers any emails. but let a director wake up on the case and suddenly everyone will be hustling you to move as if the world will end

afrodoc2:
I like how Trump wrecked his party on the way out. Every action has a reaction.

Na the tears of all his supporters and well wishers dey sweet me pass. The next time they have a go at the Presidency they will choose more wisely.

na how pesin can look at what trump is doing and call it leadership wey dey muzz me

take away the fact that uganda was a third world country and what is the effective difference between trump and idi amin ?

GloriousGbola:
hopefully Ojulari will make some changes but lets see

i hear they are introducing private sector type targets /controls and they are now giving people who are not down with this VOLEX [voluntary exit package] . My personal experience with NNPC is that unless a director pushes for something it will never be done. We have a project that has been on hold for over 11 months now. no one answers any emails. but let a director wake up on the case and suddenly everyone will be hustling you to move as if the world will end

Now you get what I'm saying.

NNPC is such that even if u are coming from a fast-paced private sector, when you get there, you just have to slow down, blend in and work at the pace of everyone you met there. They run it like a typical government parastatal, just that the workforce are well taken care of compared to other MDAs . They get above industry standard welfare package, but they don't deliver above industry standard results.

Corruption is a major problem in this country that has robbed of so many good things over time. I just wonder why anybody would say otherwise.

GloriousGbola:
na how pesin can look at what trump is doing and call it leadership wey dey muzz me

take away the fact that uganda was a third world country and what is the effective difference between trump and idi amin ?

Now they are planning to pin everything on Hegseth and make him the fall guy. I am now hearing that he is incompetent and misled Trump. When people were saying that he was underqualified for the job and that Trump was appointing too many people with dubious CV, Trumpeters refused to listen.

Trump named someone who is, for all intents and purposes an anti-vaccine advocate, the Secretary of Health.

I think one of the principles a man must live by is to never move into a house owned by or paid for by his wife under any circumstance whatsoever.

BlueRayDick:
I think one of the principles a man must live by is to never move into a house owned by or paid for by his wife under any circumstance whatsoever.

story likely made up

however - would the man have accepted it if his wife had said her own divorced sister should move in with them?

if he had the money to rent outside, he should have rented a place for his sister

having family of either side sharing a house with you is imho a very fast way to fk up your marriage

all the fight that should be private would now be family knowledge with everyone adding their own pepper

🚨 What Is Happening in Ede, Osun State?

Reports circulating on WhatsApp show operatives of the Nigeria Police Force Cybercrime Unit carrying out an operation at a student hostel in broad daylight, allegedly intimidating and harassing students.

The incident has sparked concerns… pic.twitter.com/gndfJWKPwb

— Star Potter (@Starpotternews) November 4, 2026

Nigeria police this Is Absolutely Rubbish

🔺 JUST IN: 🇳🇬

Unidentified policemen dressed in mufti were seen assaulting students during an alleged police operation at a student hostel in Ede, Osun State.

The operatives, reportedly attached to the Nigeria Police Force Cybercrime… pic.twitter.com/JPoaj4Oosh

— Nononsense (@NoNonsensezone) November 4, 2026

daughter is in unilag for jupeb

finding hostel is wahala

it is because of the above i am not keen on off campus hostel

GloriousGbola:
story likely made up

however - would the man have accepted it if his wife had said her own divorced sister should move in with them?

if he had the money to rent outside, he should have rented a place for his sister

having family of either side sharing a house with you is imho a very fast way to fk up your marriage

all the fight that should be private would now be family knowledge with everyone adding their own pepper

I also don’t subscribe to the idea of the sister-in-law coming to stay with them . I’m
Not even a fan of accommodating third parties in ones’ home beyond a day or two visit .

However , I think the husband agreeing to move into the wife’s property would always end that way whether the sister-in-law issue came up or not . The wife was always going to remind him who owns the house over an heated argument . The sister in-law issue just pushed the date forward on that .

GloriousGbola:

🚨 What Is Happening in Ede, Osun State?

Reports circulating on WhatsApp show operatives of the Nigeria Police Force Cybercrime Unit carrying out an operation at a student hostel in broad daylight, allegedly intimidating and harassing students.

The incident has sparked concerns… pic.twitter.com/gndfJWKPwb

— Star Potter (@Starpotternews) November 4, 2026

Nigeria police this Is Absolutely Rubbish

🔺 JUST IN: 🇳🇬

Unidentified policemen dressed in mufti were seen assaulting students during an alleged police operation at a student hostel in Ede, Osun State.

The operatives, reportedly attached to the Nigeria Police Force Cybercrime… pic.twitter.com/JPoaj4Oosh

— Nononsense (@NoNonsensezone) November 4, 2026

my daughter is in unilag for jupeb

finding hostel is wahala

it is because of the above i am not keen on off campus hostel

Unilag school hostel allocation is full of racketeering. Some students will bid and win the lot only to sell the hostel space at exorbitant price .

All those business center operators inside the campus , they have proxies who bid on their behalf. They will now sell it at ridiculous prices .

BlueRayDick:
I think one of the principles a man must live by is to never move into a house owned by or paid for by his wife under any circumstance whatsoever.

They agreed nobody should move in while they are married. The man should have rented an apartment for his sister. Infact, even if they never had any prior agreement, the best approach would have been for him to rent his sister another apartment to avoid anything that will lead to both women clashing.. Women no dey feel comfortable when an inlaw is staying with them. Only people that can stay there and enjoy it is her siblings.

The man is very wrong.

However, as a man..never pray to find yourself at the mercy of a woman.

Emaprince:
They agreed nobody should move in while they are married. The man should have rented an apartment for his sister. Infact, even if they never had any prior agreement, the best approach would have been for him to rent his sister another apartment to avoid anything that will lead to both women clashing.. Women no dey feel comfortable when an inlaw is staying with them. Only people that can stay there and enjoy it is her siblings.

The man is very wrong.

However, as a man..never pray to find yourself at the mercy of a woman.

I agree the man was wrong by insisting on his sister moving in.

That being said, the woman reminding him about whose house it is was always going to happen. If the sister-in-law's issue did not happen, some other heated argument would've forced the words out of her mouth. It was just a matter of time.

The man already knew the kind of person his wife was, and that was why he refused to move in initially.

Already, she admitted that the SIL moving with them was just for a while. So I don't understand why the man needs to rent an apartment. If my sister wants to stay for 3 months, should I go and rent an apartment?

The fact that she admitted from the start that he refused to enter a free house already tells us half the story.

Spy360:
The mad man that is advising Peter Obi is a wise man.

At least he is wiser than Rumdeuter and Airmark 😂

Is it not shameful that your hero prefers the advise of a madman than listen to you

Emaprince:
And you have people that spend their lives defending the criminals.

That will include Jonathan Obasanjo (twice) who people have been defending

"He suggested that she moves in until the court case is done"

Her words......

izzou:
The man already knew the kind of person his wife was, and that was why he refused to move in initially.

Already, she admitted that the SIL moving with them was just for a while. So I don't understand why the man needs to rent an apartment. If my sister wants to stay for 3 months, should I go and rent an apartment?

The fact that she admitted from the start that he refused to enter a free house already tells us half the story.

True. A four bedroom apartment (likely duplex) would have a ton of space leftover for a family of 3.

Most women aren't accomodating, especially if na husband family.

Theflint1:
True. A four bedroom apartment (likely duplex) would have a ton of space leftover for a family of 3.

Most women aren't accomodating, especially if na husband family.

Exactly.

It would be very unreasonable to ask him to rent a place for his Sister. They had enough space to host her for a given period.

She may have her reasons though. But I cannot blame the man for trying to be kind to his own blood sister.

They have only one child in a 4 bedroom apartment, and you want him to rent a flat for his Sister for just a period of time?

Even Dangote won't do that with clear eyes

Theflint1:
True. A four bedroom apartment (likely duplex) would have a ton of space leftover for a family of 3.

Most women aren't accomodating, especially if na husband family.

Well, I don't think it's a woman thing.

I'm a man and I actually don't like accommodating any third party in my home. I will only do it out of necessity and it must be for the shortest period of time

If I was in the man's shoes, I would've rented an apartment for my sister if I have the means. I will only accommodate her as a last resort if I can't raise money within the shortest period of time.

GloriousGbola:
It seems as if your iq is inversely proportional to your obesity.

No surprise there since you are obky suited for petty attempts at trolling

If tinubu was anything like trump your mentor Atiku crime family children would have all been witch hunted by efcc

It is lost on you but the group closest to maga are the obidient cult.

See you promising to buy 50 gallons. I thought you were pretending to be a big man. We know you are an indisciplined morbidly obese man, but you keep talking as if you have paper. I gallon is 3.8 litres. 50 gallons is 190 litres. 190 litres is n266000.


That is what you are bragging about

You know your preference is to be surrounded by paupers so you can have your micro member massaged everyday by some unfortunate fallen woman, but you need to come out of the hovel where you reside and touch grass. At the very least you would learn to troll coherently

It is sad to see you are still obsessed with me though.

Don't worry come January your mentor will be relegated to the dustbin of history where he belongs.

Hope you won't go postal when that happens

What are you talking about?

You were the one using gallons to brag here during fuel scarcity period around early 2023/2022 or thereabouts.

You were saying you don't care what happens since you already hoarded some gallons at home, naturally I thought you meant 25 liters gallons, I couldn't have known it was possible to brag with 3.8 liters gallon.

BlueRayDick:
Well, I don't think it's a woman thing.

I'm a man and I actually don't like accommodating any third party in my home. I will only do it out of necessity and it must be for the shortest period of time

If I was in the man's shoes, I would've rented an apartment for my sister if I have the means. I will only accommodate her as a last resort if I can't raise money within the shortest period of time.

Same here.

BlueRayDick:
I also don’t subscribe to the idea of the sister-in-law coming to stay with them . I’m
Not even a fan of accommodating third parties in ones’ home beyond a day or two visit .

Does this apply to Omugwo like situationz

I guess this rules are more applicable in Nigeria. If you are abroad and you have a baby, You can fly your MIL and she can help with the baby for 6months which will cost you flight tickets of $2k and feeding

Or you take the baby to daycare of $500 per week and in 6months you have spent $12k on childcare because you have this rule
If in Canada where you can d a supervisa for MIL an she stays for 1yr, You end up saving even more

Or your younger bro or wives younger sister japa, but never settle down to get his own place, you will rather spend $2k per month on his separate rent and feeding till he settles down because you have this rule

Even that SIL situation that is an extra adult that can help you watch your own kids when both of you have to be away instead of paying for extra help

BlueRayDick:
I think one of the principles a man must live by is to never move into a house owned by or paid for by his wife under any circumstance whatsoever.

I have to agree with you. There are certain decisions that are non-negotiable for me because this outcome was inevitable. It takes a very very special and rare woman to not ridicule a man privately, silently or publicly whenever she carries the burden of the family even if it for a short time.

Also, the man corrected his mistake by moving out, but what exactly is the wife still doing in the family house? Does she need anyone to tell her it is time to move herself and the kids to the 3 bedroom apartment? Does she want to still remain married? Because as it stands, they are separated. E no go hard oga for find woman wen go give am peace of mind because as a man, if your partner can’t give you peace of mind, the culminating effect on your life may even end a man.

BlueRayDick:
Well, I don't think it's a woman thing.

I'm a man and I actually don't like accommodating any third party in my home. I will only do it out of necessity and it must be for the shortest period of time

If I was in the man's shoes, I would've rented an apartment for my sister if I have the means. I will only accommodate her as a last resort if I can't raise money within the shortest period of time.

From the story, the man isn't broke or poor.

His Sister was going through a divorce. This is different from a "Landlord-wan-throw-me-out" case.

There could have been a lot of emotions involved. Rules have exceptions. There are things I will break my rule for of it concerns my family.

All he asked for was some time till she finishes her divorce. Even if she won't agree, at least let there be a little consideration.

raumdeuter:
Does this apply to Omugwo like situationz

I guess this rules are more applicable in Nigeria. If you are abroad and you have a baby, You can fly your MIL and she can help with the baby for 6months which will cost you flight tickets of $2k and feeding

Or you take the baby to daycare of $500 per week and in 6months you have spent $12k on childcare because you have this rule
If in Canada where you can d a supervisa for MIL an she stays for 1yr, You end up saving even more

Or your younger bro or wives younger sister japa, but never settle down to get his own place, you will rather spend $2k per month on his separate rent and feeding till he settles down because you have this rule

Even that SIL situation that is an extra adult that can help you watch your own kids when both of you have to be away instead of paying for extra help

Omugwo is one of the exceptions to the rule. Having a mother or mother-in-law come in to care for their grandson is not debatable .

I'm talking about an adult or teenage relations coming to stay for months in my home, I am not a fan of it.

Roland17:
I have to agree with you. There are certain decisions that are non-negotiable for me because this outcome was inevitable. It takes a very very special and rare woman to not ridicule a man privately, silently or publicly whenever she carries the burden of the family even if it for a short time.

Also, the man corrected his mistake by moving out, but what exactly is the wife still doing in the family house? Does she need anyone to tell her it is time to move herself and the kids to the 3 bedroom apartment? Does she want to still remain married? Because as it stands, they are separated. E no go hard oga for find woman wen go give am peace of mind because as a man, if your partner can’t give you peace of mind, the culminating effect on your life may even end a man.

The man already knows his wife; The type that likes to own theirs and enjoy yours.

A woman who wants to right the wrong would have packed her property into his home, and rent hers

Rather, she still dey "Her house", and is expecting him to go back there.

Akuko Mike...

Roland17:
I have to agree with you. There are certain decisions that are non-negotiable for me because this outcome was inevitable. It takes a very very special and rare woman to not ridicule a man privately, silently or publicly whenever she carries the burden of the family even if it for a short time.

Also, the man corrected his mistake by moving out, but what exactly is the wife still doing in the family house? Does she need anyone to tell her it is time to move herself and the kids to the 3 bedroom apartment? Does she want to still remain married? Because as it stands, they are separated. E no go hard oga for find woman wen go give am peace of mind because as a man, if your partner can’t give you peace of mind, the culminating effect on your life may even end a man.

The woman is emotionally attached to the house. I feel wants the husband to see them staying in the house she inherited as her own little way of contributing financially to the marriage.

The wise thing for her to do is to put up the house for rent and move in with her husband in the newly rented space he got. It appears the man still loves her and he's only waiting for her to take that step to save the marriage.

BlueRayDick:
Well, I don't think it's a woman thing.

I'm a man and I actually don't like accommodating any third party in my home. I will only do it out of necessity and it must be for the shortest period of time

If I was in the man's shoes, I would've rented an apartment for my sister if I have the means. I will only accommodate her as a last resort if I can't raise money within the shortest period of time.

This was a scenario that actually happened to my own family

My Grand mother lived in the North for most of her life and just visits for 2 weeks once a year. towards end of her life she was sick and had to live with us for over 4yrs till she died in 2000. For most of my late secondary school years , waiting for admission and when she died, I was the one who took care of her mainly, Washing her clothes, All her hospital visits, giving her medicine, writing her letters(she will dictate to me and I will write it) was done by me. Actually I was the one who gave her the last meal she took, I will lift her head up and fed her Ogi. Until 2 days before she died when I noticed she couldnt swallow the Ogi anymore

In this your situation, where would you have kept your mother(if you were my dad) who needed end of life care as she was a widow at that time, needed help with movement and medication. Would you rather pay for 24hrs round the clock nurse for her in a separate rented house to be done by Nurses who probably dont care

izzou:
The man already knew the kind of person his wife was, and that was why he refused to move in initially.

Already, she admitted that the SIL moving with them was just for a while. So I don't understand why the man needs to rent an apartment. If my sister wants to stay for 3 months, should I go and rent an apartment?

The fact that she admitted from the start that he refused to enter a free house already tells us half the story.

How come the sister has money for court case but cannot rent an apartment.

Them wan scatter the marriage for ground now.

izzou:
From the story, the man isn't broke or poor.

His Sister was going through a divorce. This is different from a "Landlord-wan-throw-me-out" case.

There could have been a lot of emotions involved. Rules have exceptions. There are things I will break my rule for of it concerns my family.

All he asked for was some time till she finishes her divorce. Even if she won't agree, at least let there be a little consideration.

From the story, the husband didn't define the "some time" the sister was going to spend. In marriage, communication really matters.

He said she will stay for "some time and not forever".....Omo, that is not a well defined timeframe at all. You will be surprised that she may stay for a year and the whole divorce matter may not even be concluded.

I think the man should've just gotten even a mini-flat for the sister if he had the means.

TemporaryHansel:
How come the sister has money for court case but cannot rent an apartment.

Them wan scatter the marriage for ground now.

How are you sure he isn't the one funding the case?

I have only one sister.

You think if my sister was in dire need of my help, I won't bend my rules because of her?

Emaprince:
They agreed nobody should move in while they are married. The man should have rented an apartment for his sister. Infact, even if they never had any prior agreement, the best approach would have been for him to rent his sister another apartment to avoid anything that will lead to both women clashing.. Women no dey feel comfortable when an inlaw is staying with them. Only people that can stay there and enjoy it is her siblings.

The man is very wrong.

However, as a man..never pray to find yourself at the mercy of a woman.

Très très important

BlueRayDick:
I think one of the principles a man must live by is to never move into a house owned by or paid for by his wife under any circumstance whatsoever.

"This is my house and I don't want her here".
A man would never say this.