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Please Help Me by Joyjoseph1981(op):
Please help me my wife have been calling this number of recent I tried to call the person on my phone it was a male I'm really thinking and don't know what to do please can someone help me identify the person I tried to check on WhatsApp but he is not using the number on WhatsApp please help a brother I don't want to challenge her yet..
Re: Please Help Me by Joyjoseph1981(op): 2:22pm On Nov 06
Joyjoseph1981:
Please help me my wife have been calling this number of recent I tried to call the person on my phone it was a male I'm really thinking and don't know what to do please can someone help me identify the person I tried to check on WhatsApp but he is not using the number on WhatsApp please help a brother I don't want to challenge her yet please this is the number

0902 304 5300
Please someone should help
Re: Please Help Me by illicit(m): 2:24pm On Nov 06
This is my niche

Can you pay?
Re: Please Help Me by Stephen0mozzy: 2:41pm On Nov 06
Check the number on Truecaller.
Now, you posting the number on nairaland shows say you nor really sabi this undercover investigation 😝

What if it's just a normal conversation?
Unless your wife is a housewife who doesn't work or do trade, you know business people talk to other people right?
Re: Please Help Me by Joyjoseph1981(op): 3:06pm On Nov 06
illicit:
This is my niche

Can you pay?
I swear I'm a salary earner please help I don't have money
Re: Please Help Me by Joyjoseph1981(op): 3:07pm On Nov 06
Stephen0mozzy:
Check the number on Truecaller.
Now, you posting the number on nairaland shows say you nor really sabi this undercover investigation 😝

What if it's just a normal conversation?
Unless your wife is a housewife who doesn't work or do trade, you know business people talk to other people right?
My wife is not house wife she work selling in her shop
Re: Please Help Me by Stephen0mozzy: 3:19pm On Nov 06
Joyjoseph1981:
My wife is not house wife she work selling in her shop
What if you're about to embarrass a customer now? Or you don't trust your wife enough to be talking to a customer who wants to buy things from her shop?

Unless you mean calls at odd hours
Re: Please Help Me by untoldtruth: 3:27pm On Nov 06
Joyjoseph1981:
Please help me my wife have been calling this number of recent I tried to call the person on my phone it was a male I'm really thinking and don't know what to do please can someone help me identify the person I tried to check on WhatsApp but he is not using the number on WhatsApp please help a brother I don't want to challenge her yet..
Which kind of insecurity and lack of self-esteem is this, guy? Your wife they sell for shop, so she shouldn't arrangee when a customer wants to bulk purchase ni?
Re: Please Help Me by BItt: 3:31pm On Nov 06
You have to let her continue whatever she is doing till she brings you infection. Or you can chose to confront her directly and involve her family members
Re: Please Help Me by hakeemhakeem(m): 4:18pm On Nov 06
Are you suffering from dump you can't question your wife's for what you aren't certain about
Re: Please Help Me by ManknowThyself(m): 4:27pm On Nov 06
You are still gathering information about her calling a particular number and no evidence of her cheating yet.


You are seeing signs of doubt, don't be in haste to call that number just check on Truecaller someone mentioned above and be calm.


Put your mind at rest, don't react or challenge her with your observations yet but be vigilant till month end for true evidence.

Be calm man, there's nothing hidden under the sun forever. Your intuitions is telling you things to look for evidence before deciding your next move.


In a nutshell, never confront her without evidence. Be calm without violence, careless to the call and do due diligence with the phone number to know who he is.

Whatever the outcome of the evidence, never take it to mind cos there's nothing new under the sun.

When the evidence is not what you are thinking, teach her boundaries with customers it's important for the peace of your home.

Your intuition is telling you things only you can understand.
Re: Please Help Me by budaatum: 5:03pm On Nov 06
ManknowThyself:
You are seeing signs of doubt.
Actually, he is creating signs of doubt so he can doubt. And it's a sign he lacks trust in himself and is insecure.

If he trust, he'd ask his wife, but he knows not to since the doubt is in his own head.
Re: Please Help Me by illicit(m): 5:23pm On Nov 06
Joyjoseph1981:
I swear I'm a salary earner please help I don't have money
Tracking a human being doesn't come cheap...

It's not done for fun or charity, even if its my personal case, I will still spend money

If you want to know who this person is and what business they have together through a third party like me, it will cost you money that you don't have

Maybe you should just be patient
Re: Please Help Me by ManknowThyself(m): 5:28pm On Nov 06
budaatum:
Actually, he is creating signs of doubt so he can doubt. And it's a sign he lacks trust in himself and is insecure.

If he trust, he'd ask his wife, but he knows not to since the doubt is in his own head.
Yes he can't accuse her without evidence of her cheating with the said man but be wise enough to see wonders with due diligence without confrontation.

In all he has to be calm with himself no matter the outcome.
Re: Please Help Me by budaatum: 5:52pm On Nov 06
ManknowThyself:
Yes he can't accuse her without evidence of her cheating with the said man but be wise enough to see wonders with due diligence without confrontation.

In all he has to be calm with himself no matter the outcome.
He shouldn't even be creating signs of doubt from evidence that proves nothing, as the fact he has is enough to ruin his relationship.

Just imagine what's going in in his mind to make him create this thread. I bet his doubt is manifesting in his relationship already too.

All the same, I hope he takes your advice and is "calm with himself" so he does not end up creating an outcome he does not want.
Re: Please Help Me by FayaBall: 7:27pm On Nov 06
budaatum:
He shouldn't even be creating signs of doubt from evidence that proves nothing, as the fact he has is enough to ruin his relationship.

Just imagine what's going in in his mind to make him create this thread. I bet his doubt is manifesting in his relationship already too.

All the same, I hope he takes your advice and is "calm with himself" so he does not end up creating an outcome he does not want.
Who wants to create problems for himself?

Yes, he might be guilty of cheating so he is smelling smoke and now he needs to find the fire. That is what is happening here
Re: Please Help Me by verminnel(f): 9:48pm On Nov 06
Stop being insecure nau op🤣🤣
Re: Please Help Me by budaatum: 12:50am
FayaBall:
Who wants to create problems for himself?

Yes, he might be guilty of cheating so he is smelling smoke and now he needs to find the fire. That is what is happening here
So, he is creating problems for himself? Lol.
He will after all create fire so he can find it.

I'm waiting patiently for him to come tell us his house is burning.
Re: Please Help Me by AcadaWriter0: 1:10am
It’s all about the little things. A friendly little nudge to keep things flowing smoothly. No need to get all worked up! AcadaWriter
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