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Honestly, I don't know where and how to start this. I know this is the wrongest medium of all to find someone but please,if U are that person I'm looking. Kindly send me a PM...

I am in ma late 20s,well educated with very tall dreams. I'm being challenged at the moment and I feel so frustrated with very negative and some bits of suicidal thoughts creeping in my head. Dunno why God has decided to let me go through what I'm going thru but I am thankful still.

I need someone to share my thoughts and express my feelings with. Please,I need a friend,sister and soul mate. Beautiful and very matured. Age is no big deal and it doesn't matter what she does. Just be able to communicate in English.. & plssss BE SINGLE (DOnt matter even if U ARE A BABY MAMA)[sup][/sup]

Why not get a shrink first?

Caracta: Why not get a shrink first?

u need not to be cruel with your words . Im not a beggar. Ok

LyfeJennings: u need not to be cruel with your words . Im not a beggar. Ok

Beggar? Shrink? Do you know what a shrink does? Lol. I am nice sweetie...but I strongly recommend some Google lessons right now.

Caracta: Beggar? Shrink? Do you know what a shrink does? Lol. I am nice sweetie...but I strongly recommend some Google lessons right now.

dont know what it means in ur term. I just have this feeling U toying with me. If u are,please stop

OP,

Originally, 'shrink' referred primarily to psychiatrists, but over the last two decades it can be used with respect to just about any professional who does counselling or psychotherapy. I guess she recommended a shrink for you because of the suicidal thoughts you mentioned.

Meanwhile, what exactly do you think your problem is? Boredom from being single or what? You wrote about challenges bringing suicidal thoughts but only wants to speak with a single female.

Does the challenge has anything to do with testosterone?

bellong: OP,

Originally, 'shrink' referred primarily to psychiatrists, but over the last two decades it can be used with respect to just about any professional who does counselling or psychotherapy. I guess she recommended a shrink for you because of the suicidal thoughts you mentioned.

Meanwhile, what exactly do you think your problem is? Boredom from being single or what? You wrote about challenges bringing suicidal thoughts but only wants to speak with a single female.

Does the challenge has anything to do with testosterone?

Just someone to talk to and share things with..
Im just challenged at the moment. Not like it wont go away but its like everything is stagnant. Having someone around would help make the weight lighter

You already restricted the sample space of people that can offer you succour by writing only single females.

You can share your challenges if you care to.

LyfeJennings: dont know what it means in ur term. I just have this feeling U toying with me. If u are,please stop

Lol...I wasn't. But I find it difficult to understand why you only want a SINGLE and BEAUTIFUL lady. Is the problem gender-related? If you are suicidal like you said, what would a SINGLE and BEAUTIFUL lady do to help?

There are people that can help you here but your specs has portrayed you as another single individual seeking for "whatever" on the internet.

bellong: You already restricted the sample space of people that can offer you succour by writing only single females.

You can share your challenges if you care to.

My point exactly...


Or maybe girls have some special abilities...

I would do better with a lady. I know what I want. Im not looking 4 a romp,that could be bought. I know exactly what I want from this and why I'm doing this.been there b4...

@ Caracta, now U making me smile with ur comments. Abeg,are U single? If U not,let my market sell,na morning we dey... lol.. I'm just lost and confused but I know what I want.

All the best in your quest..............

Single ke? I used to be...not anymore. Biko free me.

All the best...

bellong: All the best in your quest..............

thanks bro

Caracta: All the best...

Your attention is needed................

Op, sorry for derailing this hopeful thread..

Caracta: My point exactly...


Or maybe girls have some special abilities...

You didn't know?
@Op, for now, forget online girls, you're not ripe for that side- game yet. You need to relieve some ejacul,ate first.

LyfeJennings: u need not to be cruel with your words . Im not a beggar. Ok

She was suggesting a medical help to you......... maybe a psychiatrist or something like that.Though the word 'shrink' is an informal one sha! and of course she has a loud mouth
just spank her on the a$$ and you'll be just fine

BoboYekini: You didn't know?
@Op, for now, forget online girls, you're not ripe for that side- game yet. You need to relieve some ejacul,ate first.

I don't need that. Cannabis is way much soothing than the moment of ejaculation.

bellong: Your attention is needed................

Op, sorry for derailing this hopeful thread..

I'm struggling with a very bad network here.

BoboYekini: You didn't know?
@Op, for now, forget online girls, you're not ripe for that side- game yet. You need to relieve some ejacul,ate first.

I didn't know o. We rock ehn?

Truckpusher: She was suggesting a medical help to you......... maybe a psychiatrist or something like that.Though the word 'shrink' is an informal one sha! and of course she has a loud mouth
just spank her on the a$$ and you'll be just fine

Me? Loud mouth?

I know what to do

Caracta: Me? Loud mouth?

I know what to do

What else can you do apart from laying curses on innocent people.......witch of nl posing as a nun....smh

Truckpusher: What else can you do apart from laying curses on innocent people.......witch of nl posing as a nun....smh

You sha wan spoil my market abi?

@OP, I'm single and beautiful.

This op sef no kuku get choice too......op be like who fit climb dead body if dem give am chance sha

And as for you Miss catacata, if i catch you for my playground eh....you go hear whin

Caracta: Single ke? I used to be...not anymore. Biko free me.

All the best...

Caracta: You sha wan spoil my market abi?

@OP, I'm single and beautiful.

This thread is for single ladies or baby mamas. Truckpusher, pls use the exit door. Thanks

Matthew briggs:

Lmao. It happens

Matthew briggs:

Must you follow this girl wherever she goes?

Spend more time in building that congy thing and spend less time running after her on nl ,you'll be surprised by what you'll achieve in developing a better software in the congy app.

Abi the congy sef they catch you?

Caracta: This thread is for single ladies or baby mamas. Truckpusher, pls use the exit door. Thanks

I'm a baby papa too ,after all what is the opposite for 'baby mama' ?

Truckpusher: Must you follow this girl wherever she goes?

Spend more time in building that congy thing and spend less time running after her on nl ,you'll be surprised by what you'll achieve in developing a better software in the congy app.

Abi the congy sef they catch you?

Back off! I smell jealousy. We built that app for you so you won't have to keep hanging around threads like this.

Wow Is someone stalking me or very jealous. I smh 4 him.

Caracta: Back off! I smell jealousy. We built that app for you so you won't have to keep hanging around threads like this.

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>>At Op am not a big fan of finding love on the internet... because the people on the internet are the same people u see in the real world.
They are imperfect, have weakness, faults and defects. Some even have a painful past. if can't accept those around you seldom can you accept those here.

I belive if you look around you... at the church, at the office, in your neighboured among your friends.

if you look into eyes of that young lady that greets you every time she sees you, or that freind that has always had your back when the world is against you... you might find someone... if you open your eyes and your mind you will be surprised

Am not saying you can't find someone here. you can and you might, but don't get your hopes high.

Instead of seeking the easy way out, i suggest ... you focus on making yourself loveable.... focus on showing love to others... focus on breaking walls you've built around you. Instead of scaring people bring them closer.

One thing I have learnt about love is that it comes when you least expect.

Finally never tie your happiness to anyone because my friend that's risky.

Live life and enjoy it.
#Mathew briggs .... the fire!!!. wishes you succes IN your search.

Caracta: Back off! I smell jealousy. We built that app for you so you won't have to keep hanging around threads like this.

Jealous ke!

Maybe we are becoming too overprotective of you and the reason is that we just want to protect our anointed ones