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There are certain things one needs in life in order
to grow up emotionally healthy. Because our
culture has this deep seated hatred for Black men
and, at the same time, an irrational worship of
Black masculinity, we, meaning Black society,
raise our little boys in ways that dishonor their
proper maturation process. We set the stage for
them to be horrible fathers and husbands in
childhood with practices and patterns that are
nothing more than diseased remnants of slave
teachings. Then, we give them power, autonomy,
and tell them that whatever they think, do, say,
and believe is law because they have a penis.
Because, however, these practices are accepted
as standard, and touted as healthy, we, in
essence, manufacture emotionally disabled Black
men.

Olivia111, tell me your mission on NL.
Are you some activist?
What campaign are you pushing for?

I am thinking Feminism, on the other hand, Anti-Racism, Equal-Race?

Largas: Olivia111, tell me your mission on NL.
Are you some activist?
What campaign are you pushing for?

I am thinking Feminism, on the other hand, Anti-Racism, Equal-Race?

God created 3 Women - Eve, Feminists and Slaves.....go figure

Olivia111: God created 3 Women - Eve, Feminists and Slaves.....go figure

Nope. God created woman(Eve).
Society used some women as slaves. Other women rose against this and turned feminists and activists.

I think I know where you belong

Largas: Nope. God created woman(Eve).
Society used some women as slaves. Other women rose against this and turned feminists and activists.

I think I know where you belong

Well our differing premises arrived at the same denouement so yeah you are right too, and where do I belong?

op ,u sound really pained and frustrated

op ,u sound really pained and frustrated......this is a man's world, live with it or do the "oshomole"

Olivia111: Well our differing premises arrived at the same denouement so yeah you are right too, and where do I belong?

you know where you belong.

I don't wanna go about openly classifying people as though it was my job.

Largas: you know where you belong.

I don't wanna go about openly classifying people as though it was my job.

Good

Olivia111: Good

Incase you don't mind following back.

Largas:
Incase you don't mind following back.

Sure, you're cool.

Olivia111: Sure, you're cool.

Thanks.
Honestly, you too.

What are you talking about our culture? You are obviously African American.

Africans don't teach their kids to not focus on school and academia, in fact it's quite the opposite. Who do you think are the most educated people in the United States from a perspective of graduate and post graduate degrees? Next time do some research before posting utter nonsense.

Olivia111:
There are certain things one needs in life in order
to grow up emotionally healthy. Because our
culture has this deep seated hatred for Black men
and, at the same time, an irrational worship of
Black masculinity, we, meaning Black society,
raise our little boys in ways that dishonor their
proper maturation process. We set the stage for
them to be horrible fathers and husbands in
childhood with practices and patterns that are
nothing more than diseased remnants of slave
teachings. Then, we give them power, autonomy,
and tell them that whatever they think, do, say,
and believe is law because they have a penis.
Because, however, these practices are accepted
as standard, and touted as healthy, we, in
essence, manufacture emotionally disabled Black
men.

Obviously the person who wrote this is non-Nigerian as a lot of these things don't pertain to our culture. Are you American by any chance?

This one be real akata deal.

African-American culture is totally separate from African/Nigerian culture. Your akata rantings don't apply to Nigerian parents so allow it and do some research before you post nonsense on an open forum.