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Nashville: I have my wife as my next of kin. I married her because I trust her and in case of any unexpected events, I know she is best able to take decisions in the interest of my children. And besides, my wife does not need my money to survive. She earns a living and can survive on her salary.

But if you think your wife wants to kill you, it's better you get a separation than live in fear. Why are people sooo scared of their spouses?

simplyOJ: There are also numerous cases of men using their Fathers and brothers. There was a similar case of such that happened at my wife's place of work last year 2013. After the man passed, making his father the first option and brother the 2nd, the wife and kids where practically left in the cold. The office had to own their own frantically enter into some form of agreement between the father and brother for his wife and kids to be able to collect some stipend..

Nashville: I have my wife as my next of kin. I married her because I trust her and in case of any unexpected events, I know she is best able to take decisions in the interest of my children. And besides, my wife does not need my money to survive. She earns a living and can survive on her salary.

But if you think your wife wants to kill you, it's better you get a separation than live in fear. Why are people sooo scared of their spouses?

KillerBeauty: I believe using ur kids as next of kin is better

Why?!



So you trust your fortunes with your kids more than with your wife who hussled with you?!

bukatyne: Loff wan tintin

How are you and madam law?

Nashville: Which is exactly my point. Isnt that stupidity? Why bring in little children into the world and make them suffer. He now leaves everything he has for his aged father who probably has only ten years or so left to live. He should have thought of his children who still have their entire lives ahead of them rather than leaving everything for his father who frankly does not even need the money.

Nashville: Not love, its common sense. If I put my father's name as next of kin, he will be the one to tell me to change it. There are little children involved here and these should be the primary responsibility of the man and not his parents or brothers. Even if you are worried your wife will marry another man after you... so? Do you want that man training your own children or should you not at least provide enough for your own children. Life itself is a risk and putting your wife's name as next of kin is certainly a "risk" worth taking.

Blockus: ANy WOman who isnt her Husbands 'Next of Kin' has no business being married to that Man..





The Day the man dies, dont be shocked to see his next of Kin show up to claim ownership of everything. Even your child can take over everything and kick you to the curb.

bukatyne: I am shocked

You don't loff your wife?

Kai! let me dig out her number...

bukatyne: You wan scatter many marriages be that

Any Man whose wife is not his next of Kin simply means:: Your Husband does not trust you with his fortunes.




Na those kind women go dey house, Husband brother go show, tell her to enter bedroom go position for bed wait am, whilst ehn take inventory of the properties wey ehn don inherit.

Blockus: Why?!



So you trust your fortunes with your kids more than with your wife who hussled with you?!

Nashville: Lol,

Ma'am, love is both with your heart and your head. Loving with your head is called "common sense love". Both and all are the same thing.

Blockus: Any Man whose wife is not his next of Kin simply means:: Your Husband does not trust you with his fortunes.




Na those kind women go dey house, Husband brother go show, tell her to enter bedroom go position for bed wait am, whilst ehn take inventory of the properties wey ehn don inherit.

iwakolewa: Naturally, the wife should be the next of kin,and vice versa;meaning,the husband too...except they have issues with each other. ..then,automatically, the first child or sibling...but then,I'll still go back to it has to be the spouse.

KillerBeauty: The reaaon why husband and wife hustle is all because of their children. So let the kids have it all.

egopersonified: Sometimes, it boils down to the uncertainty of who dies first. What if the wife is next of kin and she dies before the husband or they die together? This is assuming the kids would have a longer life span than the parents. Where a child is made next of kin instead of his mother, at the man's death, the child would make sure he takes care of his mum and in a situation where the woman remarries, he is assured that his 'sweat' is not enjoyed or transferred to another man.

Blockus: [b]LAWYERS in the house please correct me...


Last time I checked:: If your your child is under the age of 18, they cant inherit a single thing and in the absence of a Guardian, your estate MAY be taken over by the Government.

Now if the Mother is still alive, your estate wold be handed over to the Mother who is the legal guardian of the Minor to hold in trust for the child pending when they reach the legal age of 18.. (so last last, the woman still controls your property)..

If the Child is 18+ (meaning youhave been married to the same woman for 18 plus years) and you die and leave her with nothing to live out the rest of her life, rather subjecting a Mother to depending on stipends from her child to survive, then that Man is cursed even beyond the grave..

And what makes you think that the Woman would not marry someone wealthier than the man?!




I still maintain that if a Man does not pass on his estate to his wife or leave his wife a sizable portion of his estate for her to live off of, then that marriage should end whilst everyone is still alive so the woman can put her effort into a marriage where she counts.

The above suggestion makes the womans contributions in the marriage look trivial..





NOW!! What if the Woman has all the Money and properties, is it okay for her to leave them to her Kids and have her husband live off of the handouts from her kids?![/b]

Nashville: I have my wife as my next of kin. I married her because I trust her and in case of any unexpected events, I know she is best able to take decisions in the interest of my children. And besides, my wife does not need my money to survive. She earns a living and can survive on her salary.

But if you think your wife wants to kill you, it's better you get a separation than live in fear. Why are people sooo scared of their spouses?

Blockus: [b]LAWYERS in the house please correct me...


Last time I checked:: If your your child is under the age of 18, they cant inherit a single thing and in the absence of a Guardian, your estate MAY be taken over by the Government.

Now if the Mother is still alive, your estate wold be handed over to the Mother who is the legal guardian of the Minor to hold in trust for the child pending when they reach the legal age of 18.. (so last last, the woman still controls your property)..

If the Child is 18+ (meaning youhave been married to the same woman for 18 plus years) and you die and leave her with nothing to live out the rest of her life, rather subjecting a Mother to depending on stipends from her child to survive, then that Man is cursed even beyond the grave..

And what makes you think that the Woman would not marry someone wealthier than the man?!




I still maintain that if a Man does not pass on his estate to his wife or leave his wife a sizable portion of his estate for her to live off of, then that marriage should end whilst everyone is still alive so the woman can put her effort into a marriage where she counts.

The above suggestion makes the womans contributions in the marriage look trivial..





NOW!! What if the Woman has all the Money and properties, is it okay for her to leave them to her Kids and have her husband live off of the handouts from her kids?![/b]

egopersonified: Sometimes, it boils down to the uncertainty of who dies first. What if the wife is next of kin and she dies before the husband or they die together? This is assuming the kids would have a longer life span than the parents. Where a child is made next of kin instead of his mother, at the man's death, the child would make sure he takes care of his mum and in a situation where the woman remarries, he is assured that his 'sweat' is not enjoyed or transferred to another man.

Tallesty1: Your wife/husband is your NEXT OF KIN by law. But I think your child(ren) should be your BENEFICIARY OF FUNDS. Never make your wife your benefiary of funds if you don't trust her inside-out.

Next of kin simply is the person the organisation needs to contact immediately should the need arise.