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18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by Sirniyeh(m): 9:09pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Money is really important these days, nobody wants to help you when you are in financial distress. So, the best you can do for yourself is to work hard and make money ahead of when you will need it. Popular dancer Kemi Omotoyinbo who got married on 13th September, 2014, at White House Event Hall, Toyin Street, Ikeja has passed on. Kemi who is a popular face in Pasuma’s music videos and has also danced for the likes of Shina Peters and K1 gave up the ghost while trying to give birth on October 1, 2014, at a private hospital in Lagos. Her friends say Kemi would have survived the operation the doctors meant to carry out on her, since she couldn’t give birth the normal way, if only they had operated on her on time. According to them, the doctors charged N450,000 for the operation but demanded an initial deposit of N300,000 which her husband couldn’t provide instantly, and that was where the problem started. 1 Share
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Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by Tallesty1(m): 9:20pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Nigerian doctors............ |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by redsun(m): 9:34pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Most Nigerian medical personnels seem like trained killer. Money seems to come first before lives that are supposedly sworn to save. However,all the money they wasted on the useless oyinbo follow follow wedding just to belong to a distorted reality crowd could have easily bought her life. 4 Likes |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by publicenemy(m): 9:37pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Nigerian doctors and money...if they are not on strike,they are demanding exessively from people...her husband probably had the money but wasn't expecting her to give birth through operation there didn't have his cheque or cash ready and these bastaard Nigerian Doctors wouldn't even use their conscience... Tomorrow they go on strike again demanding better pay,useless people. Their mates abroad are coming up with invetions or battling everyday for cure to disease,but Nigerian doctors are all about money money money. Olodos. May Her Soul Rest In Peace... Amen 5 Likes |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by K3bee(m): 9:38pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
OP, what is d subject matter? may god help us, y she no went to general hospitakl or herbalist instea of private hospital |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 9:42pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Too bad,Rip |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by IGBOSON1: 9:42pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Tallesty1: ^^^If i talk my own now, dem go say i don start be dat! Suffice it to say that most Nigerian Doctors are greedy Shylocks.....and they're in it mainly for the money! 1 Like |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by adanduka: 9:54pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
It could have happened during the weekend. You can't withdraw that cash from an ATM. I believe they lacked 'real' friends and were victims of a mean and selfish doctor/ hospital. |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by gebest: 10:02pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
300k, that's dam too mush. |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by moneybag100: 10:11pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
People blaming the doctor may be wrong...the doc may just be a mere employee and carrying out the order of the owner, NO pay NO surgery which is wrong....life should be safe at all cost before money.... They lack good friends also though people looking at her may think she worth far more than that.... Nigerians like living fake flamboyant life. R.I.P to her. |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by publicenemy(m): 10:11pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
K3bee: Pls respect the dead... No be everything dem dey take joke. Abi you no geet heart? |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by K3bee(m): 10:38pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Owk admin i rest my case am scared of sleep nw |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by lonelydora: 10:49pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
Chai, Nigerian doctors please save life 1st before asking for money. |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
lonelydora: STFU. Why should they? Can't your government afford/provide free health care services?... 1 Like |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by agabusta: 2:34am On Oct 05, 2014 |
May her soul rest in peace. This is so nauseating. This country is terrible! People are just dying anyhow. More painful is the death arising from economic hardship. But guys, before blaming the doctors, try and look at it from another side. I'm definitely not justifying allowing someone to die because of lack of pay, but Nigerians are the most difficult set of people to deal with when money is involved. Some of these actions are usually based on precedence. I have personally witnessed a patient who was attended to on credit..but still did not pay afterwards. The hospital did not discharge her, they insisted that the family should settle the bills first. This patient planned a very detailed escape, as if she was escaping from Kirikiri and took off, without settling the medical bills. Just imagine, if a hospital has witnessed like 5 of such cases in a month. The hospital will definitely become harsh and hardened. The major issue we tend not too see is THE HARSH ECONOMIC ENVIRONMENT IN NIGERIA. The private hospital business needs to survive. They need to pay staff. They need to pay exorbitant Lagos rent (for those in Lag). They need to buy diesel and run their generators. They need to buy expensive medical gadgets and employ quality hands. It is very difficult to do any of the above on credit and that is why they too have become hardened. Some of these hospitals are also owing staff salaries. Someone who has worked in that Ebola-made-popular First Atlantic Hospital, Obalende said they sometimes owe employees up to 4 months salary. Now that Ebola has even tainted the hospital and their customers have dropped drastically, only God knows how that hospital will survive. Such a hospital in economic turmoil will insist u pay first! The major point is just that we live in a country that does not value human lives. The hospitals are afraid to offer services on credit because a lot of Nigerians lack integrity. This is just like any other business endeavour. The only major difference is just that they are dealing with lives. But.... as I mentioned, the Nigerian economic situation has made people hardened! WHILE CONSIDERING THE ISSUE, I CAME UP WITH THIS. 1.We the people should push the govt to make some funds available to bail out private hospital business in crises or they should make funds available for those attended to on credit because of life-threatening situation and who still didn't pay afterwards. A mechanism should be in place whereby govt can 'buy' the credit (i.e. Pay) and then follow up on the individuals. If govt can buy toxic loans of banks, then they should be able to bail hospitals out as well. This will give hospitals some flexibility (although given the way we operate in this country, this can be abused as well). 2. If u cannot afford private hospitals, Abeg use govt hospital. CS in Lagos private hospitals cost from 120k to like a million naira. Majority charge btw 250k-450k for operations without complications. 6 Likes |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by Sirniyeh(m): 6:31am On Oct 05, 2014 |
agabusta: Welldone for the long epistle. Are you a medical expert? Your analysis proves you as well, Nice write-up |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by philantoxx(m): 7:18am On Oct 05, 2014 |
our local doctors Neva make any breakthrough in medical practice only experts in accounting. 1 Like |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by ifyalways(f): 7:49am On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sad that she died. Some things, one can't explain or apportion blames For the living: please once you (or your wife) is pregnant, kindly save like crazy. Yes, save. Make sure that from the 7th month you have a minimum of 200K handy, to avoid stories that touch the heart. 1 Like |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by IGBOSON1: 9:40am On Oct 05, 2014 |
philantoxx: ^^^Hehehehehe |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by Iceman296: 11:39am On Oct 05, 2014 |
philantoxx: 1000 likes |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by philantoxx(m): 11:40am On Oct 05, 2014 |
Iceman296:tanx man |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by agabusta: 11:53am On Oct 05, 2014 |
Sirniyeh: Thank you . I'm not a medical expert but I'm close to some of them. |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by 100Cents: 12:20pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
See beautiful lady... God has a reward for that doctor who did this. We heard this story because she was popular, what about others ? |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by 100Cents: 12:31pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
gebest: On a public holiday, who keeps that kind of money at home ? Even person wey be businessman can't generate that in one day.. 1 Like |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by 100Cents: 12:37pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
agabusta: Nigerians really lack integrity... 2 Likes |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by Nobody: 1:55pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
100Cents: Honestly that is the real problem. It's hard to give people anything on credit here as most won't return it. Even when they have the money some will prefer to use it for others things than to honor their debts. Organizations and individuals have gone bankrupt because of helping people so they grow weary. It's sad that everyone will now suffer for the evil of a few 1 Like |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by RockMaxi: 1:58pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
@OP, the doctors in that hospital must be charged for murder. What happens if the man was able to pay for the CS and yet she died during the process. So the man will loose his money, loose his wife and the unborn baby. What happens to signing an undertaking not to release the wife and baby until all bills are cleared. The doctors and the management of that hospital should be charged for voluntary manslaughter. Wait this is Nigeria! Help us o Lord to get things right in this nation. RIP to the lady. |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by igbanbajo(m): 3:37pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
redsun: Can't be said better. Most people will rather have a society wedding only to start fasting immediately afterwards! That she died 18 days after a society wedding is a good indication that the money needed to save her life was spent lavishly 18 days earlier simply because she must belong! The husband must have done some run around to get money which some might find difficult to lend out after the reckless spending. Spending all 18 days to delivery wasn't the best decision made by the couple! May her soul rest in peace. |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by iamrealdeji(m): 3:45pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Very beautiful lady,she would have had a democracy baby,so sad,its not the husband's fault too though,God has his plans for everything,some times,you have excess and don't know what to spend it on,some times you have very little and huge liability sets in |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by iamrealdeji(m): 3:48pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
TrollMan:But they could simply tell the father to bring something as collateral till he gets the money,if he can't get they money,then they should sell whatever he puts down,this is wickedness now,it's unfair |
Re: 18 Days After Wedding, She Died For Lack Of Money by delpee(f): 4:42pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
How do you get 300k from an ATM on a public holiday? Callous doctor indeed. Very sad story. May her soul RIP. |
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