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| It Not Always The Women's Fault. by luvmus(op): 3:54pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
I read a post here on nl where somebody wrote tht if a married man is cheating, is the wife's fault. tht the wife don't fulfil her responsibilities as a woman, sexually n the don't make their husbands feel like their gods. I said no it is not always a woman's fault. I am an example of tht, I never refuse giving my husband myself sexually, I respects him, I was wit him when he was not having any thing, now he cheats on me n justify himself by asking me of the men in the bible like David n Solomon. when I try to talk abot it I get the beating of my life. he don't care. now he left me n our kids for 2years now. much better even though it hurts. I was pregnant when he left after beating me becos of a girl he is now staying wit. they will snap photos n put it on Facebook for me to see it. Wat he is saying now is tht I reported him so he is not forgiving me. reported him becos he wouldn't listen to me n he beats me even when am pregnant. he even said he going to make to kill myself. but I thank God for everything. |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by cococandy(f): 4:10pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
Thank God you're not with him now and you're happier and better for it. Whatever else anybody would like to make of your situation or blame you for is certainly their business and shouldn't bother you. Cheers 3 Likes |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by Nobody: 4:16pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
@luvmus I am sorry your marriage turned out this way. Stay strong and be happy. He is not worth it. 1 Like |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by luvmus(op): 4:22pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
thank u all |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by Ephramed(m): 4:23pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
If the woman make the man feel loved and respect him as the head,he wont go out.but it get some no matter how you serve them.they must cheat,dont ask me why and some times Show me a house where the wife is a boss.and i will show an unfaithful man. Life is funny. |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by Mynd44(mod): 2:51am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Ephramed: If the woman make the man feel loved and respect him as the head,he wont go out.but it get some no matter how you serve them.they must cheat,dont ask me why and some times Show me a house where the wife is a boss.and i will show an unfaithful man.Why marry a woman who likes to be in charge when you know you can't handle it?  2 Likes |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by SAMBARRY: 7:16am On Oct 04, 2014 |
cococandy: Thank God you're not with him now and you're happier and better for it.gbam.you have spoken like a wise girl.oya here is for you go and buy car 1 Like
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| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by warrior01: 7:19am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Op, pls don't mind him. Why not dump his ass and go marry another man? 1 Like |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by Ephramed(m): 9:32am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Mynd44:Bros me sef I ask myself this same question it seems no answer is forth coming,guess they(women) were pretending when they were yet to be married.its a pity.but it haPpens in our society always. |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by Mynd44(mod): 9:51am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Ephramed:Or the guys were just blinded by "love". Take me now, I can't stand a tribalist, racist or a cheat. I won't over look the small signs of it hoping she will change. We will deal with it else, I walk 2 Likes |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by Mintayo(m): 5:03pm On Oct 04, 2014 |
This is strong. What about in other areas,i only see you talk about sex? |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by luvmus(op): 9:04pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
in other areas like? I was in of the sex thing becos he wouldn't ask for it. we can go on for months without it unless I asked. oh wouldn't understand. but is okay. I tried my best to keep him for me n our kids now 4. his brother told me tht his coming next month. till then |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Im sorry you had to go through that but life must go on. Just focus on your children and make sure they grow up to become better women\men 1 Like |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by luvmus(op): 9:14pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
warrior01:how ? I hav 4 kids wit him. his coming soon my family n his is going to talk abot it , then I Will know Wat to do. thank 4 advice. |
| Re: It Not Always The Women's Fault. by luvmus(op): 9:17pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
warrior01:how ? I hav 4 kids wit him. his coming soon my family n his is going to talk abot it , then I Will know Wat to do. thank 4 advice. Mondisweets:thank u. |
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