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i can go around wearing skimpy clothes and kissing different men in movies to make money, but so i publicly claim that i don't believe in gender equality, i remain "a good woman"









what you do doesn't matter but what you say defines who you are

Mondisweets:
i can go around wearing skimpy clothes and kissing different men in movies to make money, but so i publicly claim that i don't believe in gender equality, i remain "a good woman"

Perfect image boost. She should write a book on how to save your reputation. She is good.

cococandy:
I'm not doing comparisons or what have you. I do not expect you to agree with every celebrity either.
We can't agree with everyone.

Just saying you can't dismiss someone's opinion because of their age. Hence my using that girl as an example to you.


Just for the record,Emma has distinguished herself very well. for you to know her name continents away speaks volumes in itself

Flawed logic!

Distinguished herself in what I asked.
How many Oscars, Golden Globes, or whatever else they use to honour actresses, has she won?
Or you don't know the meaning of the word 'distinguished'?

Linda Lovelace's name is very well known, she was a 'distinguished' c0ck-sucker and porn star - very distinguished

Na real continents away, Africa and Europe is separated by a body of water people use boats to cross.
Thanks to media, no one outside the US would have known Michael Jackson either.

What is your point?

carefreewannabe:
Perfect image boost. She should write a book on how to save your reputation. She is good.

now that we know that a woman is defined by what she says not what she does

Mondisweets:
now that we know that a woman is defined by what she says not what she does

Just say that he is the captain and then you can do whatever you want.

carefreewannabe:
Just say that he is the captain and then you can do whatever you want.

trust me i am going to use this one very well

Mondisweets:
because i believe in social justice can truly be achieved by equal treatment of both genders



i might not have been affected directly but i doubt it means that i should not fight for the rights of those who are subjected to;

-discriminatory cultural and religious practices such as
*child marriages
*beliefs that a woman cannot succeed her father or husband after death
* deprivation of quality education of female child
*sexual, physical and emotional abuse of women

promoting justice and maintain peace and order in society

for now i only do community service, motivational speaking to high school children and small donations because that is all i can afford as a student.

I'm impressed - you may just be the only one on here with an active philanthropic work going on.

However i gotta ask - these school children you speak to, all females and all less-privileged right?

What exactly do you tell them, what is the scope of your motivational speaking? You encourage them to be feminists?

Mondisweets:
well the last time i checked equity also means fairness and balance. equality means something else completely different from that?

Yes it does

Research on it, you would see why 'gender equity' is what y'all should be supporting - just saying

pickabeau1:
At the bolded.. i dont believe in that and im sure most of the guys here dont subscribe to that.. so why not call it human rights

Good point, I didn't even take note of that.

crackhaus:
I'm impressed - you may just be the only one on here with an active philanthropic work going on.

However i gotta ask - these school children you speak to, all females and all less-privileged right?

What exactly do you tell them, what is the scope of your motivational speaking? You encourage them to be feminists?

no we do motivational speaking to all schools, mixed, single-sex, govt and private. its mostly to motivate them to stay in school and career guidance. we encourage them to become better people in life and consider tertiary education after high school, instead of going on the streets to hustle

crackhaus:
Good point, I didn't even take note of that.

All dis feminist have hidden agenda.why can't dey call dem self human right activist or humanitarian.

crackhaus:
Good point, I didn't even take note of that.

Don't bother
To these cats every guy practises genïtal mutilation, does not want girls to go to school.

Why bother?

Stillfire:
Don't tell me you are using emotions to argue. This is logic. When you infer an inequality, there is an imbalance that places one at an esteemed edge over the other. If you cannot understand that, go dust your primary 1 exercise books.
So less is a better adjective to inferior? Buhahaha. You really must think you are talking to your ten ten girls and boys.

Took you a while to return with a fitting comeback. Guess you had to rap your head pretty hard to come up with this one.
If anyone is being emotional here miss, its you. A lady states very clearly her stand on a particular issue and instead of taking it for what it is you resort to misinterpreting her statement to calm your frayed nerves.

You were the one who brought up the 'she inferred women are inferior to men' thing to whip up sentiment. My dear omotola said nothing of the sort. She simply stayed that men and women are not equal and you came out with guns blazing, citing Google/Wikipedia to try and bring the successful, popular and I might add well liked actress to your side. When that didn't work you resorted to trying to call her unintelligent.
Sounds emotional to me.

Men and women are not equal.
You cannot have two captains on a plane.
A team can have only one leader.
A home can have only one head- the man.
That doesn't make the woman inferior, but she is definitely not the head.
Its that simple.

crackhaus:
Flawed logic!

Distinguished herself in what I asked.
How many Oscars, Golden Globes, or whatever else they use to honour actresses, has she won?
Or you don't know the meaning of the word 'distinguished'?

Linda Lovelace's name is very well known, she was a 'distinguished' c0ck-sucker and porn star - very distinguished

Na real continents away, Africa and Europe is separated by a body of water people use boats to cross.
Thanks to media, no one outside the US would have known Michael Jackson either.

What is your point?

how many awards has Emma Watson won?

Ok plainly Emma is a distinguished actress. Even from her childhood.


As for my point, one would think I've made my point severally.

5minsmadness:
Took you a while to return with a fitting comeback. Guess you had to rap your head pretty hard to come up with this one.
If anyone is being emotional here miss, its you. A lady states very clearly her stand on a particular issue and instead of taking it for what it is you resort to misinterpreting her statement to calm your frayed nerves.

You were the one who brought up the 'she inferred women are inferior to men' thing to whip up sentiment. My dear omotola said nothing of the sort. She simply stayed that men and women are not equal and you came out with guns blazing, citing Google/Wikipedia to try and bring the successful, popular and I might add well liked actress to your side. When that didn't work you resorted to trying to call her unintelligent.
Sounds emotional to me.

Men and women are not equal.
You cannot have two captains on a plane.
A team can have only one leader.
A home can have only one head- the man.
That doesn't make the woman inferior, but she is definitely not the head.
Its that simple.

And the man is the captain and leader and head because??

crackhaus:
Yes it does

Research on it, you would see why 'gender equity' is what y'all should be supporting - just saying

please tell me when u are done

carefreewannabe:
Just say that he is the captain and then you can do whatever you want.

that's more like it. Haven't you heard 'the neck controls the movement of the head' analogy?
Where some women use manipulation and stroking of ego to control their men?

To some people it is never about partnership but control.

Mondisweets:
That's her opinion, just like everyone else she is entitled to her own. So must the world come to an end because Omotola is not in support of gender equality?

I liked this post.

The woman is prolly right now having sweet sex with her man and some single ladies are here killing themselves and their mb over what she said

Misogynist2014:
Omotola is a very popular person, who knows you? Her opinion counts a lot. She is rich famous and even submissive. What a woman! She is worth her weight in gold.

God purnish gender equality! Lazy women! This is a woman that can afford marrying 15 men, but lays low before her husband- virtuous woman. When people like Linda Ikeji are making opulence look easy, some sit and type gibberish with the phone purchased by their MAGArin.
I will love to cook and sweep for a women like omotola and mercy johnson- true role models unlike Rihanna and lady gaga that expose their nudes online.

Mercy Johnson is now a good role model?

What would I not read here?

Someone said Kim K and Amber Rose are not feminists so they are role models

NL. cracks me up!

Ask these same people hyping Omotola how many would marry a woman exactly like her and you see no one.

carefreewannabe:
[s]ONE of the reasons why I am a feminist is because men like you, who don't know that anger and aggression are also feelings, will comfortably claim that they are more logical and thus deserve the authority to lead us and too MANY people will think that it is normal because their malnourished brains rely on tradition and culture rather than on reason.

The Age of Enlightenment is yet to reach this part of the world.

You argue like those men who didn't want women to have a right to vote in the past.

Your daughters and granddaughters will be ashamed of you.[/s]

So where is the logic in this your response, all I can see is repressed animosity - you can't control yourself, no?

Mondisweets who responded like a normal person to each question with points and spoke of her philanthropic work as a motivational speaker - is she more woman than you?

She actually paused, thought, and responded.

Am I supposed to care what a misguided, self-loathing, and bipolar manic-depressive girl like you thinks of me?

Mondisweets:
she is an interesting character. she spends most of her time going around the world, pursuing her career, instead of catering for the needs of her family personally and she will come and shout "I know my place as a women"

You know that once she publicly denounces feminism, she is a good wife material

NL eh!

If late Dora said, I might be more receptive but Omo Sexy? That pretty hardworking woman is a complete joker

bukatyne:
Mercy Johnson is now a good role model?

What would I not read here?

Someone said Kim K and Amber Rose are not feminists so they are role models

NL. cracks me up!

Ask these same people hyping Omotola how many would marry a woman exactly like her and you see no one.

Jesus said: if they are not against us, they are for us.
The enemy of my enemy is my friend. God bless Omotola and Mercy.

5minsmadness:
I liked this post.

The woman is prolly right now having sweet sex with her man and some single ladies are here killing themselves and their mb over what she said

well neither are u getting sweet sex, otherwise you wouldn't be hear worrying yourself about what single ladies have to say in return

twaintoy:
Our 21st century men are not responsible. All she said is true though. Good for her sha.

A 21st century women is even more irresponsible and becoming useless to a man. A 21st century man is better being alone than live with the 21st century woman. The gap between both sexes will continue to grow to the extent that marriage and cohabitation will almost cease to exist in the nearest feature which is what feminist want anyway, so enjoy what the future have for your daughters.

carefreewannabe:
ONE of the reasons why I am a feminist is because men like you, who don't know that anger and aggression are also feelings, will comfortably claim that they are more logical and thus deserve the authority to lead us and too MANY people will think that it is normal because their malnourished brains rely on tradition and culture rather than on reason.

The Age of Enlightenment is yet to reach this part of the world.

You argue like those men who didn't want women to have a right to vote in the past.

Your daughters and granddaughters will be ashamed of you.

u made my day

cococandy:
another woman who does half of what omotola does with a less liberal husband will be termed an evil anti family feminist. But hey omo t has a husband who let's her be herself. Leave her kids and trot the globe. Spend nights in different hotels alone or with Colleagues, hire cooks and house keepers and every other thing that makes other women evil. With such a husband,she can afford to be anything she wants to be and take any stance she wants to take.


I would love to read her opinion again if the husband had been the quit your career and face the home kind of man.

Lol!

I can seat comfortably in my living room with my husband 's ATM card and say that all wives should submit their salaries to their husbands

Hehehe!

bukatyne:
Someone said Kim K and Amber Rose are not feminists so they are role models

NL. cracks me up!

Ask these same people hyping Omotola how many would marry a woman exactly like her and you see no one.

i still remember that. Funny folks.

Have sex on TV , marry only the money bags, run away from home as a teenager, strut about town with bare breastts,basically do just about anything you can think of,as long as you haven't used d F word once, you're a good female role model. Never mind if everything you do is in tune with what THEY think is feminist.

cococandy:
how many awards has Emma Watson won?

Ok plainly Emma is a distinguished actress. Even from her childhood.


As for my point, one would think I've made my point severally.

I meant to ask how many Oscars and Golden Globes she has won, the Oscars are the highest honour right?

Your point is that she is distinguished and should not be taken lightly just because of her age.

Let's get back on topic then - Is Omotola not distinguished, why do y'all have problems with her opinion?

Mondisweets:
from now on i am following Omotola's footsteps. if i kiss different men onset just to make money and spend more time abroad pursuing my career than i do in my matrimonial home, don't come and call me names abeg!

AS far as you can come out and say that men and women are not equal

pickabeau1:
Don't bother
To these cats every guy practises genïtal mutilation, does not want girls to go to school.

Why bother?

They have the feeling that people like us who argue against them actually want to lord and subjugate women..

It's well.

bukatyne:
Lol!

I can seat comfortably in my living room with my husband 's ATM card and say that all wives should submit their salaries to their husbands

Hehehe!

yep. Same way I can send him to buy groceries for us and then turn around to lambast other women

Truckpusher:
Hehe
One of your own finally said what you all believed, but always saying otherwise on social network.

*spreads mat*

Don't get you bros