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UjSizzle:
@Reyginus

Yeah I get what you mean. When I got my letter I actually fought to hold back my tears But I'm really good at adapting...very quickly actually and finding something to love about stuff. They were really nice people in that village; I'm still in touch with a number of people.

I also heard the Agatu story and the state of living there was really bad. The youths were just misguided and frustrated from years of bad governance. Can you imagine they didn't even have electricity? I mean transformer/wiring....nothing at all, no public transportation, financial institution etc. That was poverty personified there. I actually had to give away 60% of my clothes. It's sad. But before I passed out, things were beginning to get better though.
They really need Jesus, education and liberation from themselves in that place. I've never seen a people so averse to development before.

Studied economics, don't know what you mean by "how do I learn"

ATMC:
wow!!!@uju yhu did 'rural rugged'?...me too. Glad to know yhu didn't leave NCCF after camp most do.

@rey welcome back. How r yhu coping with ur PPA?

An0nimus:
hard or soft copy?

ATMC:
wow!!!@uju yhu did 'rural rugged'?...me too. Glad to know yhu didn't leave NCCF after camp most do.

@rey welcome back. How r yhu coping with ur PPA?

Reyginus:
Good for you. I can adapt but not when I know I can dodge the change.

What I mean is simply, how do you learn? When you read what skills do you employ? Do you have a special strategy for observing? When you think through things, how do you arrive at a decision to take?

UjSizzle:
Honestly, I haven't paid conscious attention to these questions before.
I do know I'm basically pragmatic; I don't do theory well, and things only make sense once they become practical. I like to create a mental picture; I can achieve that, the lesson is half learned already.

As for observation, i just watch. That's all. And because by nature i search for patterns, my mind begins to connect the dots. Isolated incidents are isolated. Double occurrence gives me a reason to pause. The longer the degree of occurrence or repetition, the easier it is for me to draw conclusions. Most times though i can connect several isolated incidents and look for their commonality.


Hope i didn't just babble lol coz i feel like it

Reyginus:
I am doing fine. By the time I am done, surely, I must have been owed a salary I may not get to receive in two lifetimes. My stipends come too early. Lol.

How are 'yhu' doing?

Reyginus:
Lol. No. I understand you perfectly. You didn't. Thank you very much.

Just one more question. More like a repetition.

How do you decide on anything? As in, how do you choose an immaterial thing like our thoughts over the other, and one material thing over another material thing?

ATMC:
@uju wow...funny yhu hate being saddled with such responsibilty yet at the end of the day yhu indirectly bear them.
I was the sec...it wasn't funny at all then, basically 'cos the office of a sec ie aunty or uncle is offensive. But it all ended well shaa. I wish yhu were in my family house.

UjSizzle:
I try to project the long-term effect of alternative options before making a decision. When I say effects, I mean on myself (what I want and how a choice will help me achieve that) and on others closely related. If the interest of both aforementioned parties clash somewhat, I seek harmony. How much of what I want can be denied so we all get what we want? And how much of what they want can be altered so I'm not short-changed in the end?
These are questions I ask myself all the time. Since harmony is what's most important to me, it's my standard for judging a worthwhile venture.
Some would call that compromise or diplomacy...or whatever though.

If we're discussing materiality, then practicality is the standard. I did tell you I'm pragmatic lol. If A can perform functions 1,2,3,4 and B despite looking good can do just 2 of 4, then I'll pick A. I want sustainable value for whatever I choose to engage resources (material, immaterial even emotional).



This is when I ask your reason for these questions

ATMC:
...little a muckle makes a mickle...
and hope yhu didn't say that so I won't ask for a loan?

ATMC:
wow!!!@uju yhu did 'rural rugged'?...me too. Glad to know yhu didn't leave NCCF after camp most do.

@rey welcome back. How r yhu coping with ur PPA?

Mintayo:
where did you serve?
Hello everyone...Rey,welcome back.

Macelliot:
Ajibam
Why do You colaborate with Satanists?

UjSizzle:
I try to project the long-term effect of alternative options before making a decision. When I say effects, I mean on myself (what I want and how a choice will help me achieve that) and on others closely related. If the interest of both aforementioned parties clash somewhat, I seek harmony. How much of what I want can be denied so we all get what we want? And how much of what they want can be altered so I'm not short-changed in the end?
These are questions I ask myself all the time. Since harmony is what's most important to me, it's my standard for judging a worthwhile venture.
Some would call that compromise or diplomacy...or whatever though.

If we're discussing materiality, then practicality is the standard. I did tell you I'm pragmatic lol. If A can perform functions 1,2,3,4 and B despite looking good can do just 2 of 4, then I'll pick A. I want sustainable value for whatever I choose to engage resources (material, immaterial even emotional).



This is when I ask your reason for these questions

Mintayo:
where did you serve?
Hello everyone...Rey,welcome back.

ihedinobi2:
Sounds like a typical woman to me.

Reyginus:
Yes o. I am back from leave. How body?

vickyO:
Hard..

ATMC:
POWER STATE...though I wished it were Ogun.

HumbledbYGrace:
Bawo ni Sah

Reyginus:
Thank you, bro. How are you doing?

ATMC:
A friend was there and I wanted to be close to lagos state for flexing...^^


An0nimus yhu poked me?

HumbledbYGrace:
how?

Ajibam:
Colaborate with satanist?

MojAyo:
who taught u yoruba,my frnd,lol

Mynd44:
I am alive.

Just here for now sha

ihedinobi2:
Are you different? How do you make your choices? How do you learn?

ATMC:
A friend was there and I wanted to be close to lagos state for flexing...^^


An0nimus yhu poked me?