The Guys aren't forthcoming to the point of commiitments these days. Maybe the economic situation is the cause,or some are just not ready to do so. Or like our male celebrities,content in being single. But our ladies have to get married and then desperation sets in when age increases..Ladies would you accept being a second wife to a married man? Would you play second fiddle to another woman? Pls comment

Oh yes! The fourth and the youngest wife though, to one very rich Alhaji. You know, that trophy wife he goes to occasions with and likes to display for the whole world to see. Add that to being spoilt silly.

*wakes up from the horrible dream and hisses loudly* mstcheeewww!!!

"Guys aren't forthcoming. . ." indeed!

Why would I be so desperate?

Hell no!

Phema:
Oh yes! The fourth and the youngest wife though, to one very rich Alhaji. You know, that trophy wife he goes to occasions with and likes to display for the whole world to see. Add that to being spoilt silly.

*wakes up from the horrible dream and hisses loudly* mstcheeewww!!!

"Guys aren't forthcoming. . ." indeed!

Thank God the Op has truthfully told us why we have many single ladies around. The men themselves are not ready to marry or do not want to get married. They love the idea of singlehood which is why we have a good number of men marrying late and some men living as bachelors when they eventually get married. The attitude of the men tells you a lot. So who do u expect these ladies to marry when we keep pressurizing them? Ghosts?

If the men here are not forthcoming, what happened to the men from other countries? Can't you expand your horizon as a woman? I think nigerian women should begin to explore that option rather than keeping themselves in a box.

better tomatoes no dey tey ontop tray for market for you to understand what I mean, when you go to the market as a man looking for what to buy, especially in this era of so many fake products. All you need do is to have patience and search for the original of what you are looking for, mind you there will be so many pirated copies which you know it will not last so you carefully go round the market till you find the original. Mind you other men are also looking for that same original. If you are so lucky and you come across the original first you pay for it. This same illustration applies to men looking for original women to marry but they face hard time searching for them. If you are a woman and you are a wife material/mother, men know which means you are what I call "better market" dem go buy/marry you fast fast. while if you are a GF/warm bed/fish pepper soup material, men know and you are what I call "baaaaad market"

Dying single is a better choice, if you need kids, breed some with your bf .

Suarezilla:
The Guys aren't forthcoming to the point of commiitments these days. Maybe the economic situation is the cause,or some are just not ready to do so. Or like our male celebrities,content in being single. But our ladies have to get married and then desperation sets in when age increases..Ladies would you accept being a second wife to a married man? Would you play second fiddle to another woman? Pls comment

Why would a chronic, broke dude want to marry several wives?

Besides, being the third or second to last bride of a very rich Baba or Alahji isn't that bad. The lady can have a young fit guy to warm her cockles at night and if the dude is handsome, she can have three or four kids for him and pass them off as Baba / Alahji's kids. Get him to train another man's kids whilst having the sex of a lifetime that many can only dream of.

Yes, middle / second-to-last wife is best as there would be less focus on her. That way, she gets to eat her cake and have it, at the same time.

Lobatan.efemena has brought another dimension to it.





bet I don loss my atm o

weekend is on the way

EfemenaXY:


Why would a chronic, broke dude want to marry several wives?

Besides, being the third or second to last bride of a very rich Baba or Alahji isn't that bad. The lady can have a young fit guy to warm her cockles at night and if the dude is handsome, she can have three or four kids for him and pass them off as Baba / Alahji's kids. Get him to train another man's kids whilst having the sex of a lifetime that many can only dream of.

Yes, middle / second-to-last wife is best as there would be less focus on her. That way, she gets to eat her cake and have it, at the same time.

EfemenaXY:


Why would a chronic, broke dude want to marry several wives?

Besides, being the third or second to last bride of a very rich Baba or Alahji isn't that bad. The lady can have a young fit guy to warm her cockles at night and if the dude is handsome, she can have three or four kids for him and pass them off as Baba / Alahji's kids. Get him to train another man's kids whilst having the sex of a lifetime that many can only dream of.

Yes, middle / second-to-last wife is best as there would be less focus on her. That way, she gets to eat her cake and have it, at the same time.

Haba! You didn't get my message correctly. I meant for the unmarried men,the cause of not yet married could be the economic. But wait oh...you mean oyu advise a girl to get Baba to train another guy's babies? Mehn daat one no join atall dear.

No thanks, it won't work well with me

It's their choice. They are adults. As far as it's not a child that is being married off.
Polygamy is the least of my concern.
Women are not babies.

Suarezilla:
Haba! You didn't get my message correctly. I meant for the unmarried men,the cause of not yet married could be the economic. But wait oh...you mean oyu advise a girl to get Baba to train another guy's babies? Mehn daat one no join atall dear.

Oh?

How e nor take join?

A o kin ri INA ni konga

Olorun maje

We all are. . . .to some extent.
The position just keep "rotating" datz all!
Any problems?
Not at all.
First to QUENCH and LAST MAN/WOMAN standing is the only name of the game of life and death!
Shikena!