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Let's Say No To POLYGAMY by ernesterioo(op): 6:15pm On Nov 28, 2014
Let's say no to POLYGAMY either in a relationship or in marriage. God made one woman for one man. But when a man has 2,3,4 or even 7 wives, he has deprived some many men of wives..that's why some culture marry younger girls because of the scarcity of older women. I don't know why a man would just heap plenty trouble on his head cos if he is dating or marrying somebody like me ND now decides to marry join me, na die b dat becos only me one na double trouble.... Moral of my story..... One woman is alone for u... There should be a balance BTW demand and supply of women....
Re: Let's Say No To POLYGAMY by achinaboy(m): 8:24pm On Nov 28, 2014
ernesterioo:
Let's say no to POLYGAMY either in a relationship or in marriage. God made one woman for one man. But when a man has 2,3,4 or even 7 wives, he has deprived some many men of wives..that's why some culture marry younger girls because of the scarcity of older women. I don't know why a man would just heap plenty trouble on his head cos if he is dating or marrying somebody like me ND now decides to marry join me, na die b dat becos only me one na double trouble.... Moral of my story..... One woman is alone for u... There should be a balance BTW demand and supply of women....
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Re: Let's Say No To POLYGAMY by EfemenaXY: 4:10pm On Nov 29, 2014
ernesterioo:
Let's say no to POLYGAMY either in a relationship or in marriage. God made one woman for one man. But when a man has 2,3,4 or even 7 wives, he has deprived some many men of wives..that's why some culture marry younger girls because of the scarcity of older women. I don't know why a man would just heap plenty trouble on his head cos if he is dating or marrying somebody like me ND now decides to marry join me, na die b dat becos only me one na double trouble.... Moral of my story..... One woman is alone for u... There should be a balance BTW demand and supply of women....
A man can only marry several wives if the women consent to it. Women have to power to stop it. The day they decided enough is enough is the day that polygyny would be eradicated.

Women also need to up their game / standards. If an already wedded man approaches a woman for her hand in marriage to be his second / third / fourth / nth wife and she says "No", then that's the problem half solved.

The other half of the problem would be solved if every woman makes it their norm to never be 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or nth fiddle to anyone else, then the wandering man would have no other choice than to stick to his first wife.

It's not that hard.
Re: Let's Say No To POLYGAMY by SAMBARRY: 5:17pm On Nov 29, 2014
Preach it wink



EfemenaXY:
A man can only marry several wives if the women consent to it. Women have to power to stop it. The day they decided enough is enough is the day that polygyny would be eradicated.

Women also need to up their game / standards. If an already wedded man approaches a woman for her hand in marriage to be his second / third / fourth / nth wife and she says "No", then that's the problem half solved.

The other half of the problem would be solved if every woman makes it their norm to never be 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or nth fiddle to anyone else, then the wandering man would have no other choice than to stick to his first wife.

It's not that hard.

Re: Let's Say No To POLYGAMY by EfemenaXY: 5:20pm On Nov 29, 2014
SAMBARRY:
Preach it wink
Lol! Sambarry, is that your pic?

Nice one babes cheesy smiley
Re: Let's Say No To POLYGAMY by SAMBARRY: 5:23pm On Nov 29, 2014
EfemenaXY:
Lol! Sambarry, is that your pic?

Nice one babes cheesy smiley
lol nahhh that's not me
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