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Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? - Family - Nairaland

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Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by siddonlook1(op): 4:32pm On Dec 01, 2014
I have a friend who doesn't give his wife any money for house-keeping. He goes shopping at the end of every month where he buys provision and foodstuff and atimes soup ingridient. Outside that,he doesn't give his wife any money ,not even a dime. He has been married for 7 years,and he has been like that from the begining of the marriage. He earns four times his wife's salary.His wife is unhappy with his bizzare behavior and I have tried talking to him but he doesn't see anything wrong in his behavior. Is he correct in his behavior?
Re: Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by KanwuliaJara: 4:34pm On Dec 01, 2014
How many complaints do we have attached to the title of this thread? cheesy
Re: Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by pweetixandy: 4:43pm On Dec 01, 2014
The woman should be happy sef,she has her salary to spend solely on herself..let d man continue ojare. But I find it funny when people come and say "I have a friend",na so u dey carry person matter for head ni undecided
Re: Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Dec 01, 2014
siddonlook1:
I have a friend who doesn't give his wife any money for house-keeping. He goes shopping at the end of every month where he buys provision and foodstuff and atimes soup ingridient. Outside that,he doesn't give his wife any money ,not even a dime. He has been married for 7 years,and he has been like that from the begining of the marriage. He earns four times his wife's salary.His wife is unhappy with his bizzare behavior and I have tried talking to him but he doesn't see anything wrong in his behavior. Is he correct in his behavior?
She's only unhappy and not complaining,I don't get the reasön why you are
















Oh,you just shot yourself on the foot,so it's not any silly friend,but fuckiíng you angry

Don't try to be greedy here because it's either he has always been akagomic in nature (which you know of),or he's trying to teach you how to spend judiciously..
Re: Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by Diffdeef(m): 4:50pm On Dec 01, 2014
The man no wan make the woman do am apriko.
Re: Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by Evina(f): 4:52pm On Dec 01, 2014
Personally, I think a woman who has her earnings, should cater to house keeping needs.

To your question, I don't necessarily see anything wrong in it.

You mentioned he earns four times her salary, does he not also take care of the house rent, children's school fees and upkeep? Why is she being greedy? What does she need the money for house keeping for? Besides, has he not always been like that? Why is she complaining now?

She should be careful not to start looking for faults where there is none.
Re: Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by viczing(m): 5:18pm On Dec 01, 2014
It's not african culture for a man to do that
Re: Is It Right For The Husband To Be Responsible For Housekeeping Of The Home? by siddonlook1(op): 10:22pm On Dec 01, 2014
Veralaw:
She's only unhappy and not complaining,I don't get the reasön why you are
















Oh,you just shot yourself on the foot,so it's not any silly friend,but fuckiíng you angry

Don't try to be greedy here because it's either he has always been akagomic in nature (which you know of),or he's trying to teach you how to spend judiciously..
very funny. By mentioning that I have spoken to him many times about it ,it means the wife must be me right? Wiseass did you wonder how I knew he wasn't giving his wife any housekeeping money or that his wife is unhappy? Well Genius,I thought I mentioned he is my friend,or should I also mention that am friends with his wife too? If you aint got anything positive to add,why not simply shut the f..k up?
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