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bugativeron:
Well the question you and aisha should ask is how many times has he been beating? So I dont think he has developed thick skin to cane. I can count the number of times I have beating though this excludes knocks on the head and ear pulling.

carefreewannabe:
@bold

Was thinking the same.

moca:
Jeez!
@op, how can u do this?
No wonder we r so violent by nature.
Abeg forget d spare d rod trash.
Since we've not been sparing d rod, how r we faring in this country?

What happens to coomunicationv
Or u think he won't listen and talk.
How do u even talk to him?
Do u go down to his level or the almighty I'm ur father u must obey me type?
Even babies inside womb r communicated to. Newborn babies d same.

I'm so ashamed. And u think u r training him. Well u r. But u r training a violent and rebellious man.
I noticed that parents allow d cane to do the talking(communication)for them.

EfemenaXY:
For crying out loud!

YOU DO NOT KNOCK A CHILD'S HEAD, NO MATTER WHAT!!
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU MAN??!!

bellong:
What you may not understand is that you are unconsciously hardening the boy instead of softening him.

bellong:
6yr old Stripped naked and beaten?


As stubborn and rude as I was at that age, I was not stripped naked. Not even when I nearly blinded a classmate with blow.

Bro, in an ideal setting, the parent that sanctioned it and the school that took such a crazy decision would be answering questions at welfare center if not doing some time in jail.

I am not against disciplining an errant child but going overboard is not it. The boy is too young for such humiliation. What you may not understand is that you are unconsciously hardening the boy instead of softening him. Discipline is for reformation and not deformation.

Please, what is the name of the school and where is it located so I wouldn't make any mistake in enrolling my son there?

Seriously, the punishment is too grievous for the of fence committed and for his age.

bugativeron:
I agree with you to certain extent. Like I said I told the founder to apply stick but I guess we differ on how many.
But I tried to talk with my daughter and my son with their mom later in the day. We told him sorry but that we also dont like the fact we get those reports about him. Then he was hugged and by everybody, though he promised not to be that naughty anymore. Then my daughter insisted he gets to watch any channel of his choice for the nite even ahainst my standing rule of no tv during the week except weekend. This I allowed him. So it is carrot and stick not stick alone

bugativeron:
You sometimes get too emotional self. I am sure you stay abroad.

Herzumpther:
Wow...this kind of punishment for a 6 years old boy All for 3k you allowed your son to go through such humiliation not only in front of the entire school but also in front of his sister because you didn't want to pay 3k, 11 strokes of cane on his bare bum....smh,

cococandy:
Not only that. They were indirectly teaching those kids that striping someone unclad is a good way of punishment.

No wonder adults of our generation like to strip criminals as punishment . That's how they were raised. any small thing that happens 1 2 3 strip and start molesting the person or taking pictures of the offender.

This is how it starts.

bugativeron:
I agree with you to certain extent. Like I said I told the founder to apply stick but I guess we differ on how many.
But I tried to talk with my daughter and my son with their mom later in the day. We told him sorry but that we also dont like the fact we get those reports about him. Then he was hugged and by everybody, though he promised not to be that naughty anymore. Then my daughter insisted he gets to watch any channel of his choice for the nite even ahainst my standing rule of no tv during the week except weekend. This I allowed him. So it is carrot and stick not stick alone

bugativeron:
I agree with you to certain extent. Like I said I told the founder to apply stick but I guess we differ on how many.
But I tried to talk with my daughter and my son with their mom later in the day. We told him sorry but that we also dont like the fact we get those reports about him. Then he was hugged and by everybody, though he promised not to be that naughty anymore. Then my daughter insisted he gets to watch any channel of his choice for the nite even ahainst my standing rule of no tv during the week except weekend. This I allowed him. So it is carrot and stick not stick alone

bugativeron:
why are screaming like the world is coming to an end. The oyinbo people who dont beat how are there children like. If I count the number of times I was beating by my father and for everyone I got a dime I should be super rich by now and I grew up to be a fine gentle man.
I laughed when you people talk about communication. My son knows that for me to give the go a head I mean well.
why is it that my daughter could come to talk to me about it and question me? It is because I communicate finely with them.
I play ball with my son, we run around together in compound and I spend quality time with him. So the fact that this happened will not kill the boy. If it is done frequently that makes it bad.
please you people should stop talking about communication like it is not being make use at all.
if I communicate at other times will I tell you.