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As the year is rounding up, I see every reason to look back at every stone of POSITIVE and Negative Criticism hurled at me here in NL and in real life with real people.

To some of you, you've decided to
"lay low" because of the silent misunderstanding between you and someone here in NL or perhaps school.

You might not be wrong, you might be, but I strongly believe that that "fault" in you is among the precious stones that carved your uniqueness.

So nairalanders, What is that UNIQUENESS about you that piss some others off either because of LOVE or JEALOUSY?

#No bashing please #

Its okay to get Negative and Positive Criticism thrown your way, and as person its good you learn from both. The "YAB" or "PRAISE" over the internet, i take with a pinch of salt, as we are all faceless in a cyber world, and that i don't consider to be important, and that is why i laugh when i see people here, especially the females trying to form a CLIQUE.

Laying LOW because of attacks from others, shows COWARDICE.

For the real life scenario? the thing is not whether you get criticized or not, or even if you are Unique in anyway, or even if it transcends to if people are jealous of you or not, or even if they love you. The most important thing my friend is THAT YOU KNOW YOURSELF and do not let anybody(in the cyber-world and in the real life scenario) DETERMINE who you are.

You know yourself more than any other person.

My I don't care attitude

emusmith:
As the year is rounding up, I see every reason to look back at every stone of POSITIVE and Negative Criticism hurled at me here in NL and in real life with real people.

To some of you, you've decided to
"lay low" because of the silent misunderstanding between you and someone here in NL or perhaps school.

You might not be wrong, you might be, but I strongly believe that that "fault" in you is among the precious stones that carved your uniqueness.

So Romancelanders, What is that UNIQUENESS about you that piss some others off either because of LOVE or JEALOUSY?

#No bashing please #

My voice .. Tiny 1

lafflaff123:
Its okay to get Negative and Positive Criticism thrown your way, and as person its good you learn from both. The "YAB" or "PRAISE" over the internet, i take with a pinch of salt, as we are all faceless in a cyber world, and that i don't consider to be important, and that is why i laugh when i see people here, especially the females trying to form a CLIQUE.

Laying LOW because of attacks from others, shows COWARDICE.

For the real life scenario? the thing is not whether you get criticized or not, or even if you are Unique in anyway, or even if it transcends to if people are jealous of you or not, or even if they love you. The most important thing my friend is THAT YOU KNOW YOURSELF and do not let anybody(in the cyber-world and in the real life scenario) DETERMINE who you are.

You know yourself more than any other person.

Easily put... Difficult to put into practice... But possible!

As I once dabbled into:

Stating who I am, in contrast to being DEFINED by others, is one of the most difficult Life's Challenges, I face! (paraphrased)

christiancy:
My voice .. Tiny 1

I feel you . .. I have a neighbor like that... I know how it feels... He has joined the Soprano part of the Choir!

samflexxy:
My I don't care attitude

Hmm...

naijaboiy:
People never like hearing the truth...especially if it comes in a raw manner

That's what I stand for

That's a good one, Naijabuoy!