₦airaland Forum

With the frequent cases of rapes in
the society of today mostly emanating from
our higher institutions of learning, one would
be forced to enquire into the cause of this
quagmire.
Who actually is to be blamed for the
abnormality, the innocent lady exhibiting all
her civic right that includes freedom of what
to wear with respect to dressing or the male
man out there who is forced to respond to
stimuli because of lack of self-control? Many a
times we are made to understand that there
are actually two sides to every life situation
but it’s crucial to note that one of those two
sides is always negative. It therefore means
that we must be diligent enough to address
every issue from all perspective if we must
proffer a feasible solution.
Rape literally is the act of forcing sexual
intercourse or other sexual activity upon
another person against their will. What this
means is that, any sexual activity that is not
originated out of a consensus between the
two parties involved is termed a rape case
and its punishable by law depending on the
State or country in question. What then is the
cause of rape?
From observations and enquiries I have being
able to deduce that one of the major causes
of rape especially amongst the unmarried
people is the common indecent dressing by
the ladies. It has become a habit for young
girls to put on dresses that exposes sensitive
parts of their body or dresses that are too
tight in the public. This they do without being
conscious of the fact that they are incubating
a sexual desire in the minds of the opposite
sex. Considering the fact that this boys or
men as the case may be may not be able to
quench this desire in them at that instance
through a consensus, they are forced to
create an alternative which is rape.
Secondly its being discovered that the drive
for Retaliation or pay back by some one time
relationship that may have ended in an
unpleasant way could be a reason for rape.
For instance a guy who may have been in a
relationship with a lady for over three years
and have never had any sexual intercourse
with that lady suddenly gets dumped by the
lady for another guy for no just cause. In such
a case maturity is required to overcome the
bitterness that has being aroused in such a
man and if the maturity is not there such a
man may resort to any way of revenge
amongst which rape is not far-fetched.
Another salient factor behind rape cases is
the Lack of self-control by so many people in
this our days. “So many people” and not just
the male man this time because events have
proved to us that there are rape cases
orchestrated by ladies also, though not very
rampant. All the reasons we earlier outlined
will never feature if people were up to date
with the issue of self-control. Your ability to
bring your emotion under your control is one
of the symptoms of true maturity and that
seems to be lacking in this generation so it
makes me worry less when people look for
reasons behind rape. Self-control is salient
and a deficiency in it could be a mother of
evil.
Finally we can also talk of Sexual deprivation
by couples as a reason behind marital rape.
This we will not expanciate as this paper is
restricted to the border of the youths. That
notwithstanding we have heard of cases
where the husband had to forcefully have sex
with the wife reasons best known to them.
Perhaps he may have a genuine reason for
enforcing sex on his wife but it does not still
negate the fact that it’s a rape case.
The causes mentioned above are few out of
the numerous reasons behind rape cases but
it’s paramount to note that no reason
whatsoever is equitable enough to make a
wrong right. Yes there are legislations and
sentences against rapist by different nations
of the world which is good but we must go
back to the root and make people see the
disaster and harm that rape has caused in
time past, causing presently and will cause in
future if it’s not well dealt with now. Shifting
blames as to who or what causes a problem
can only help magnify the problem for better
evaluation but does not in any way solve the
problem. It’s time we all rise to our feets say
no to rape because I am tired of countless
abortions, bastards and Disease cases
resulting from rapes. You have a part to play
in change find it now.

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Whomever rapes is guilty. Shikena.

the dick 90%
the bad dresser 45%
the innocent lady 15%
rape itself 102%

holatin:
the dick 90%
the bad dresser 45%
the innocent lady 15%
rape itself 102%

explain y u re blaming innocent ladies

hannesy:
explain y u re blaming innocent ladies

Some innocent ladies date or befriend a bad guy, thug,cultist and yaba left escapee.
if you dine with the devil then expect some hug

I always say, there is no justification for rape even if a lady is walking around naked.

Janedoe26:
I always say, there is no justification for rape even if a lady is walking around naked.

hmmmmn