For all the fathers to be, if you are opportuned to be in the labour room with your wife, these are the things you should say;

[b]Comfort in labor comes in many forms. A very easy
way for nearly anyone to help comfort a laboring
woman is to talk to her. These kind words really help
and work wither she is having an unmedicated birth
or a birth with an epidural .

1. Hang in there!
A note of support without a lot of pressure.

2. You're doing a great job.
She may not believe you even if it's true. Her
experience of what is going on feels much
differently than what you're seeing. Meaning
she may feel out of control while she looks
calm and collected.
3. I love you!
Need I say more?

4. Think of the baby...
For a mother who wants to be reminded of the
baby in labor , which is easier than you think to
forget about, this can be helpful. You might also
use a similar phrase agreed upon in labor.

5. You're going to be a great mother .
Sometimes laboring women have fears,
including what kind of a mother they will be. If
she's concerned about it, be sure to ask ahead
of time to find out what her fear is and use an
affirmation like this to help ease that.

6. Awesome!
A nice quick word to whisper in her ear when
she's got very low concentration levels.

7. Keep going...
A nod of approval during a long labor, as in "I
know you're tired, but you're doing great, so
keep going..."

8. I'm here for you.
You're not leaving h[er side, be sure she knows
that.

9. Just a bit more...
Use this one only if you're reasonably sure that
it's true. Otherwise, you lose your credibility.
Ask a nearby professional for some help here
and know they are guessing too.

10. You are doing it!

Source : www.pregnancy.about.com/od/laborbasics/a/wordsinlabor.htm [/b]

Wow...if u ever remember any of these!

Be like ya wife dh pregnant

iceberylin:
Be like ya wife dh pregnant

Yup

Nairaland:


Yup

Happy for you

Nairaland:


Yup

Go dh tell her ni

these words are only for oyibos cos they understand it better.
would u want to say such words to an ijebu woman or an ekiti woman?

Whenever i remember labour room i fear for this lady and Myself.. At d moment she's Physically, Emotionally and mentally too weak to pass tru that stress..
May God help us when it's time

just tell her ' a lady is pregnant for me' and u will get the best result

just tell her ' a lady is pregnant for me' and u will get the best result

Shutting the fuc*k up and rubbing the waist will serve just fine .

11. I'll call you back in about an hour dearest, MOTD is about to start. **deactivates speaker and ends call **

TV

is better u dont say anythn then

4 5 10 should b 123

GOD SAVE the mid husband that was holding my hand when I was trying to push wura out. The intensity of the pain made me scream so loud Ehen




I wasn't even interested in listening to anything. I was just crying and screaming like no mans buisness.Even the mid husband holding my hand for hear am . While wura was stuck in between and I was sweating and writhing in pain I for bite im hand. All my back waist was just full of excruciating pains He quickly removed his hand and adjusted his hands to a position my teeth will not reach talkless of whispering nonsense inside my ear I for unknowingly bite off im nose




bet after the whole hours of grinning labouring and screaming and I saw my baby. Choiiiiii





the feeling is indescribable. It's what I call unspeakable joy




I was just smiling like I won a million dollars





all the pains i felt vanished instantly. I didn't even kn

missdebs:
is better u dont say anythn then

gbam

Greetings

None of the above of the ( 10 sayings ) relieved my eminently agonizing contractions during my first parturition ( child-birth ). What did succour in my state was the placidness and a robust hand to cling to throughout every tensing contraction.

However, the above sayings would characterize in singular experiences since every deliverance differ.


Regards,
Cherlene.

Very powerful words combination s. Only if I will be opportune to stay in a labor room with my wife. I will say all these things to her

The best words aren't spoken
Just help out with house chores now that she is expecting.

Thank God some men are still thinking.

I actually do feel a bit sorry for the caring husbands because they are helpless since there is very little they can do make a difference but being there alone with loving presence does help methinks .

In any case, be prepared to get some uncharacteristic response from your spouse in the heat of intense contractions I hear some women haul abuses on their spouse(I dont know where they get the energy or mind in the middle of that mind boggling experience sha) and all good husbands should bear and loving 'share' the birthing experience. It will certainly make you appreciate your wife and respect your mother.

Be sure to tell her you appreciate and respect her special strenght, after all you cant do it abi?

Muchechechechecheche

Meet an aggressive woman
Na slaps sure pass

Dyt:
Muchechechechecheche

Meet an aggressive woman
Na slaps sure pass

Do our women still curse their husbands during labor?