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friend is 36.the late father she knew accordin 2 people is not her
father.her mum is denying d story.pls any advice on how can she get d truth 4rm her?
note:am postin ds wt her knowledge

duperola:
a
friend is 36.the late father she knew accordin 2 people is not her
father.her mum is denying d story.pls any advice on how can she get d truth 4rm her?
note:am postin ds wt her knowledge

your friend is ignorant. The man that raised her while she was growing up is her father.

but does she not need 2 know whose blood flows 2ru her veins?besides she has some challenges which might b traced 2 her source.

What people told her the late father is not her true father?Can she get more info from them?How about the mom's siblings?Can she get them to open up to her?
The father she has known is her father.It's okay to seek to know her biological father but she shouldn't give herself more troubles trying to do that.The issues she may be having may have nothing to do with her parentage.

The bible says,....'but we have one Father'.....(hope this scripture can mean something to her).

What problems could she be going through that a non existent father caused her? She has called her mother a liar based on what people told her. She has no other basis for her nonsense but that. The man who raised her never told her that she did not belong to him but she is willing to believe anything now because she has hot a rough patch in life. Tell your friend to go work out her own life and stop looking for excuses for not fixing her problem.

Drug her, interrogate her, record everything

A father is one who is present in a child's life not just merely donating fluid. lf ur friend thinks what she is going through in life can be traced to her biological father, what of kids raised in orphanages with no idea of their biological source?

i understand all points.her dad is dead&on 3 occasions,members of her late dad's family called her a bastard!she just feels she deserves d truth.

duperola:
i understand all points.her dad is dead&on 3 occasions,members of her late dad's family called her a bastard!she just feels she deserves d truth.

Doyin Okupe is now publicly referred to as a bastard, and he is balling on money, growing fatter every day.

Any idiot can call any body a bastard.