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Joel3:
i couldn't believe u an old timer on nairaland. Acting say this.

Joel3:
its not about the saying or religious believe that my mother food too sweet. learn to love your family and all that bullshit.

The truth is there is something you just feel its not right or there is something that is not there you can boldly talk about when compared to other family.

There are some really bitter issue or experience. Something that is missing.

Yes you know what I mean. You love your brother and sister or father and mother. But the truth is you hate the family or lineage you find yourself. And you wish for somewhere better than where you find yourself.

Let hang out here.

Joel3:
you must be under age to have this type of thought.

Anyway, i like... the reason i like you is that[b] nothing you says make sense[/b].

smartmom:
Huh Efemenaxy Grammer?

okotv:
@poster.

I get where you are coming from. A lot of people don't have empathy which is why the comments you read here are the way they are. If you know or understand what some folks have passed through because of their family, you would just console the poster and move on. It doesn't hurt to say kind words.

If you have never been in a situation, don't talk about it cause its only he who wears the shoe that knows where it hurts.

LordReed:
It really has nothing to do with bad experiences, everyone has those. It is just futile wishing for the past to be changed when you have your whole life ahead of you to make changes to who and what you want to become. Who really cares what family Bill Gates is from, do you not know him as the richest man in the world? Do you care if his mother used to beat him or his father used to abuse him? Oprah Winfrey suffered abuse in her childhood but look at her now, I am sure the OP would like to be her son. Was it by wishing for a better family that got these people where they are?

okotv:
you didn't get my point. Empathy is the word. I know people who have lost it all because of family. The way they would handle it would be different from the way you would. Just give the poster sooting words or better still don't comment. Its that too difficult to do ??

LordReed:
I would rather get him to see reality, there is no point in wishing to change the unchangeable.

Joel3:
where in the topic or thread did anyone talk about changing the family. Its all about meeting here. You should have waited for me to talk about my intention before typing trash..

Maybe we can talk about something. What triger the thought, what cause the sadness. Talk about the expereince, what are they currently going through spiritual or what. other will learn from it maybe what they are going throug is moimoi compared to others..advice and cheer each of them up.


Not this sting you talking about. Since the thread has been spoiled. So no need. i give up.

LordReed:
Abeg go and find somewhere to sleep was this not your original post

if you are not happy with the family you find
yourself and you only wish you were from
somewhere else.

Keep dreaming silly dreams.

Joel3:
when the wish becomes change?

EfemenaXY:
Association of frustrated souls - that would be a befitting name for your proposed club.

By the way, are you a ritualist? I know Christmas is just around the corner but the purpose of this thread of yours eludes me...

EfemenaXY:
Whose the under-aged one here?

You still haven't answered the questions. Are you a ritualist seeking victims for Christmas?