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Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by GboyegaD(m): 11:19pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Many of us are commenting without considering the stance of the OP. I'm sure if the parents were very well to do, his intonation would have been much more different. OP, be determined and pay for grace to be able to shoulder the responsibilities when they start top come in. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by nduchucks: 11:22pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
@op, I'm not sure that you should be expressing reservations on your parent's decision to have one more child, regardless of how many they already have. Some married couples decide not to have any child at all, so that they will have enough money for both of them without having to spend on children. Now imagine that your parents were such a couple, you would not have even existed. So oga, find ya level well well o, because if lorry hit you today and you die, those children will still live their lives. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by boxxy(f): 11:23pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
It is not even d multiple birth dat bothers me , is the terrible economy facing majority now. Obviously your mum isn't educated take her to a family planning clinic for what is best for her ..Pele good luck and stay positive . 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Most african fathers shuld be brain-checked! Why produce 10 when u can only cater to 2? 7 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I say depopulate Nigeria by all means! What is going on?! 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by yemivictor: 11:33pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
OP, are your parents Catholics? If yes, then the question is answered on the multiple births. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by cococandy(f): 11:34pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Some people sha moca: 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by evea: 11:35pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: lol. last born tins. dey want children 2 b by dem always if all the 7children Don marry walk or school or life. mk dey know say children dey house 2 shout. its beta no marriage pressure on you cos of oda kids. lol |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by donmalcolm21(m): 11:49pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Rosarie:I think when he came to this forum, he has inadvertently stopped a ninth child with the kind of sound advice being given by people here. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by donmalcolm21(m): 11:52pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
nduchucks:I thought when people type with paragraph there is a 90% chance that they are reasonable but Boy you prove me wrong with this your analysis. 5 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Ologunjude(m): 11:54pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Family planning is the best option. If your younger are not yet in school try encouraging to getting jobs so everyone can help contribute their quota. They can keep working and school - part time. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by IbokUtoroh(m): 11:55pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
virginboy1: go n vote buhari, n he will sTABILIZE ur conditions. -i heard he is going to stabilize everything when he comes in even CORRUPTION! |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by xtervaganza(m): 12:18am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Hmmmmmm I hope you won't hate the new baby sha |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by 2rez: 12:32am On Jan 11, 2015 |
meehn, yur momma z so blezzed wit ferti lity dude . Do tha needful by givin her some OTs about family plannin'. Help a mother in need bruv. . |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Richy4(m): 1:15am On Jan 11, 2015 |
You do not really have to worry yourself sick about that OP. if your parent are not worried, I just wondered the reason why you should They have planned how many kids they intended having before you were born. so you cannot just get out from the womb and start redirecting. you never can tell what this unborn one could be. he/she might end up being the breadwinner of the house. so shhhhhh |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by diasporaman(m): 1:56am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Buy a carton of condom and give it to your dad as gift as soon as posssible. For now you and your siblings can make a basketball team .unless you prefer a football team 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 2:46am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Ologunjude: OP, this is a great suggestion! There's no reason for you to do it alone. In fact, it would be a terrible idea to do it alone. There's one TV series I love called "Shameless" (the US version), and it's about a group of siblings who have to fend for themselves because their mother abandoned them and their father is a drunk. The eldest sister gave up on going to university to take care of her younger siblings, but eventually she started to take her life back, because she started letting the next eldest siblings take some responsibility. She had to let go of the mentality that everything was on her head. She learned the lesson the hard way when the pressure finally got to her and she crumbled: she got arrested, she lost her job, her siblings were all taken into foster care because she was the only legal guardian... When everything settled down, she started doing things differently. You have a life to live. You are more than a caregiver. Make this a team effort. You mentioned that your next two siblings are somewhat close to you in age? Confide in them, discuss, and plan. Maybe, depending on your family dynamic, the three of you can speak to your mother together? Don't lose hope. This experience will surely forge you into a strong man. 6 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Rosarie(f): 2:57am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Abbey2sam:did u miss the dad will soon retire part 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by soulglo: 4:10am On Jan 11, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: In Nigeria you can walk into any government hospital and get an IUD. No excuse for this nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by killercute16(m): 6:39am On Jan 11, 2015 |
BeeBeeOoh:lol...nice one there. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by killercute16(m): 6:42am On Jan 11, 2015 |
That child might be GMB of 2015 oh...so dont complain,it might be a blessing. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:08am On Jan 11, 2015 |
#Basketmouth proposals https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtUTvraSIko&itct=CB0QpDAYCiITCLepjpuji8MCFceDHAodbyMAbFIpYmFza2V0bW91dGggaHVtaWxpYXRlcyBoaXMgbGFkeSBhbWF6aW5nbHk%3D&gl=NG&hl=en&client=mv-google |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by dammywapes(m): 7:28am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Sitting by the door One morning, Looking at the children going to school man, then I thought about the ones in the street; Moving up and down No where to go, No education, No future. Then I thought about their parents man, why do they suffer so much. If they have parents why. (if you really don't want no children why do you have them, why) We can fight and no one's hurt We can stop children from the street. It's a cold winter man, moving back cooler down khilo street man His father is relaxing in the best bar in town asking them to fill his glass man. His mother is kissing on another man. If you really don't want no children, why do you have them. If you can't care for them why.. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:43am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Bros, when did 6+2 become 10? striktlymi: |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Provie(m): 7:53am On Jan 11, 2015 |
virginboy1: @Op ur circumstances are similar to mine. Now how close are you to your dad? By d time my dad retired, he had trained only d first two of us. However, we were so close and he appreciated the responsibilities he "created" for us. Upon retirement, he spent 80% of his lump gratuity (in cash) between the two of us, and we practically took over. Two others hav now graduated and one comfortably employed and helping too. What am I saying? Maintain a high level of closeness with him. U wil b shocked to realize that these pregnancies, perhaps from the 6th are not intended! Help them (Asap) with the idea of birth control as suggested by other posters. I hope his retirement benefit comes quickly and he acts wisely applying it to the family. Then, make sure your academics do not suffer from all these distractions, because it is your sure asset for now. One extra year in school, or a poor result will definitely escalate the problem. Again, maintain a strong hold on, and unity with other siblings so that they do not become irresponsible and more headache to the limited fortunes of the family. You are blessed. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Abbey2sam(m): 8:13am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Rosarie: so? Does it mean the father don't have any plan..... and he's still giving birth..... I'm also a firstborn, you have to take care of yourself before you can take cake of someone, be it parents or siblings..... life is per head |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by SkinnyDude(m): 8:20am On Jan 11, 2015 |
virginboy1:see oh! i wish my mum could get pregnant again. atleast to give me a brother. bro, you don't know what you have. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by kdfemi(m): 8:20am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Nigerians will always say sumtin stupid when instead of given d write advice. But u are old enough to tell the your, you have to make dem realise if if financially they can take care of these children and the financial bundle the have created on u in d future cos obviously when u get a job everybody would b looking up to you and I think is time for familu planning let dem go to a clinic |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Abbey2sam(m): 8:20am On Jan 11, 2015 |
stanisbaratheon: what happen to his life? The father is still training his a$$ to finish school.....let him finish first and see how the future unfold..... he can contribute his own when the time comes, but it's not yet time, he has his studies to face, and if you ask me this an unnecessary distraction he's creating for himself The father is still receiving salary, eventually it will be pension and gratuity. ...so he should worry less |
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