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Can these touts stop harrasing people with different views?
Thats how you shut off and drove babyosisi away twice, now we are trying to see what can be done they are attacking and hovering around to "like" what kind of stupid nonsense ego is that?
I am on my last ounce of patience enough is enough

Babymama1:
What you are doing now is called Monday morning quarterbacking
Did anyone invested in this case propose any of those your reasons as pitfalls at the various times this came up?
No
The argument was that I was jumping ahead of myself
In fact I was accused of wishing DJ cancer and death
They told us they needed to get tests results and a definitive diagnosis and I wrote in bold that we have wasted enough time testing
Isn't it the same donors that sent him to the hospitals he had been to that will send him to India?
Was the money to India ever mentioned as the reason why that option was never considered seriously?
NO
So why bring that up now?
I don't remember you being active on this thread,you may well go and read the conversations many pages away
How will anyone talk about the cost to India when it wasn't an explored option at the window of time we had to do it?

I contacted India doctors months ago when the diagnosis was chronic liver disease dz and a possible transplant needed and 90% of posters here came down on me,go and read those posts.
I have sent a relative to India on a stretcher,it is not rocket science to go there
I know the process of getting a medical visa to India and I had spoken to their travel coordinator about DJ's case with my own phone
What I lacked was an enthusiasm on the site that this was even an option
Ask members of Tehns if I didn't plead with them way back to take the results so far to fortis for their impression and possible estimate
News of DJ feeling better and the diagnosis of liver abscess that was under control entitled posters to call me a witch basically

I wish the most likes on a post could translate to positive outcome, we won't be here today
Unfortunately it doesn't.


I believe I don't have anything more to say
I am done with the topic for now and will just watch events like any other person with fingers crossed.
Your turn.

I will gladly call you out on this
A member of the group already said in November that travelling out would not be easy due to cost hence the need for prayers. I dint know what you gain from lying but as a tribalist who Babyosisi is (I can dig up your threads and posts) you are lying.

It wad mentioned here that the money was not sufficient to take him to India

aisha2:
Can these touts stop harrasing people with different views?
Thats how you shut off and drove babyosisi away twice, now we are trying to see what can be done they are attacking and hovering around to "like" what kind of stupid nonsense ego is that?
I am on my last ounce of patience enough is enough

Who cares what your last ounce of ego is? Babyosisi the renowned tribalist has been running around here saying the Indian option was not considered but it was and due to cost shelved. I can dig up links and they you will see how far your myopia and denying gets

r231:
From $42k reduce to what exactly.....

na prayer sure pass

This post is as early as November 17 where it was made clear by these people that the money raised is not enough to travel. You can follow the link if you want.

Now you come here to claim no one thought of it.

I pray God forgives you people

OEPHIUS:
Who cares what your last ounce of ego is? Babyosisi the renowned tribalist has been running around here saying the Indian option was not considered but it was and due to cost shelved. I can dig up links and they you will see how far your myopia and denying gets

Now its getting stupid so she wants Djola dead because he is Yoruba abi? Clown. When she was shouting India and get passport ready they shouted her down told her she was predicting doomsday, when his stomach was drained they celebrated and called her a fake doctor who wanted to kill him before his time.

After the series of tests and it seemed it was going nowhere she raised india again and was shut down because they said they didnt have a diagnosis even when she was consulting and providing one they now said she is a quack internet doctor.

December I became worried and said we should kick off fund raising since funds had been depleted I was ignored and the merry go round of tests continued.

I wont respond to you anymore my only interest now is we do whatever we can do for him not all these ego pushing and attacking and hovering like witch craft.

aisha2:
Can these touts stop harrasing people with different views?
Thats how you shut off and drove babyosisi away twice, now we are trying to see what can be done they are attacking and hovering around to "like" what kind of stupid nonsense ego is that?
I am on my last ounce of patience enough is enough

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Whatever you do is for the sake of Dj, don't get angry at any post you are not comfortable with, chip in whatever help you can, it is all about Dj...

babyosisi:
[size=18pt]Email from Fortis Hospital[/size] cc naijadeyhia,gboliwe,idowuogbo,r231,maclatunji,caracta,chaircover,researchQ,cramjones


Dear Xyz

Greetings from Fortis Healthcare India!!
Thanks for your query.
We have received your query regarding Treatment at Fortis Hospitals.
Fortis Hospital is the largest hospital chain in India and is one of the largest in Asia. All the Hospitals in the chain have state-of-the-art infrastructure. The technology used is most modern and in compliance with International Standards. Fortis Group is famous for high success rates and medical outcomes.
Based on the brief information provided by you I have already discussed your query with eminent Doctors here and you are requested to kindly send me all the medical reports and scans so that I can revert back to you with the exact line of treatment along with the cost estimates.

We have Liver and Kidney Transplant specialists in Fortis Healthcare Ltd who have been doing many transplants a day. A liver transplant cost is USD 42,000 and the patient needs to get with him/her a blood compatible donor. Kindly find attached the details regarding transplant.
Also, I was hoping if you could please send me the medical reports of the patient so that I can take an opinion from the doctors here regarding kidney transplant.
I am here as a true friend and would help you in every possible way. Please feel free to contact me anytime at+91-9582801864 in case of any doubts.

Kind regards,

Dr Divya Verma | Deputy Manager- International Business | Fortis Healthcare Limited

This is from Babyosisi herself when she was still here scream liver and kidney problem. This is the price they quoted for you. Which prompted them to stick to Nigeria and hope the tests bring something else.
The same Babyosisi was the one shouting Livet and Kidney from wherever she was when that was not the problem wait for test no. Now she is screaming cancer

Babymama1:
Nne did anyone tell you finding a reputable hospital in India was the problem at the time that option could have been explored?
It doesn't appear that option is even possible now from the look of things

Well nne, holding hands in prayer. God will make a way.

OEPHIUS:
I will gladly call you out on this
A member of the group already said in November that travelling out would not be easy due to cost hence the need for prayers. I dint know what you gain from lying but as a tribalist who Babyosisi is (I can dig up your threads and posts) you are lying.

It wad mentioned here that the money was not sufficient to take him to India

Please post it here
I will like to see it

OEPHIUS:
This is from Babyosisi herself when she was still here scream liver and kidney problem. This is the price they quoted for you. Which prompted them to stick to Nigeria and hope the tests bring something else.
The same Babyosisi was the one shouting Livet and Kidney from wherever she was when that was not the problem wait for test no. Now she is screaming cancer

I thought I already addressed this idiocy from Idowu now you
How did we talk about liver and kidney
Were those my diagnosis or the working diagnosis from eruwa?
Did I come up with those diagnosis

Look
It is noble for you and some others to admit here that you messed up big time
We now have a patient in critical condition and you are still here talking nonsense when you all prevented this case from moving forward because you wanted to be right by all costs
I hope you can live with yourselves

emmysexxy:
like I promised monday is the day and have not really hear them say what I want to say.so am trying to fuell my engine for monday to tell u guys d koko.am going to c him next week.so all badhers and haters get ready.

What do you know that we don't know? First you said two weeks,now Monday? What's wrong with you? listen to yourself, you trying to fuel which engine? Smh! Na wa o!

OEPHIUS:
Why are you folks like this? You said no one took travelling out seriously but you forget that as early as November consultations were already made with the indian hospital and it was seen that it was not an option. R231 said it on this thread that travelling will be difficult

From the onset, the mission was to take him out of naija right from Eruwa.
Things changed, hide and seek game came to play etc.

I am not responsible for your interpretation dude.

Babymama1:
I thought I already addressed this idiocy from Idowu now you
How sis we talk about liver and kidney
Where those my diagnosis or the working diagnosis from eruwa

Look
It is noble for you and some others to admit here that you messed up big time
We now have a patient in critical condition and you are still here talking nonsense

Come, face your lane o!! If na your warapaleptic fits dey worry you,please log off and take your prescriptions.Nonsense!

Babymama1:
I thought I already addressed this idiocy from Idowu now you
How sis we talk about liver and kidney
Where those my diagnosis or the working diagnosis from eruwa

Look
It is noble for you and some others to admit here that you messed up big time
We now have a patient in critical condition and you are still here talking nonsense

My idiocy is a lot better than your hyperactivity and tribalism which is blinding you.

As at December were we not all here when they called for doctors with the fear that the hospital might be complacent? Who turned up?

colossus2:
I am not responsible for your interpretation dude.

How do you take him from Eruwa to India when you did not have a diagnosis from Eruwa? From Eruwa a patient has to be stabilized and then diagnosed.

babyosisi:
I apologize for making the contents of that email known ,some of these folks left me with no choice
I had tried to ignore all the snide remarks in the last two days but then someone coming out repeatedly to ask us to give a way forward got me incensed.in all my mails I had never faulted Tehns one bit and still do not
My whole frustration is with the hospital
They, Tehns have known the way forward ,it is there in my email
I didn't post all our back and forth email,there were more and in everyone of them I had expressed a sense of urgency and never backed away from the India angle even when people called me names because I know many nigerian hospitals are limited in their scope.


To the members of Tehns,please gather all the results ,the labs,the scans ,including the cytology and send it to Apollo hospital in India immediately.that is the way forward since this hospital has reached the end of their expertise.
When I expressed urgency in getting a passport,people rained insult on me and even accused me of not wishing DJ well
You need that passport now and this is Christmas time.
It won't cost a thing however for the India folks to give you an impression or differentials what this could be, and give you an estimate of cost of treatment if there is anything they can do (they will do their own tests eventually ).
I already provided those details to you when I forwarded you the email with the coordinating doctor's details including phone number.

Since this hospital is still withholding the last scan result and are doing a song and dance with diagnosis,jumping from pillar to post,you can't wait forever
This is very very very very urgent IMHO
Even though I want to be very very very wrong

That was me December 19 when DJ was still on his feet

babyosisi:
Patient is at home right now,he is no longer under the care of that hospital
If for any reason he has need to be readmitted I promise you he will repeat all these labs you paid for
So gather all the result you have right now and send it to Apollo Hospital
I hope someone hears me now
This is not a time of who is right and who is wrong


Will the doctor shoot you down if you ask him point blank

[size=18pt]"From the test results so far,doctor are you suspecting a malignancy " ?[/size]
Is that a taboo question to ask in Nigeria?

That was me same day

When Idowu was thanking God for his healing

emmysexxy:
like I promised monday is the day and have not really hear them say what I want to say.so am trying to fuell my engine for monday to tell u guys d koko.am going to c him next week.so all badhers and haters get ready.

Hello ma'am. Thanks for your concern. At least now we have an update. I know you are concerned about your neighbour but you seem to have information we don't.

I live in Lagos and I'm quite familiar with the case. Would you be kind enough to reply my mail so we can start looking towards your direction as well? Perhaps that would help DJ as well. We all want him to get better. That's why we are here.

As far as I know, none of the doctors have given him how much time he has left and others that have seen him are hopeful INCLUDING ME.

Please help us here. What do you think we haven't seen but you can see? A tree doesn't make a forest. We have a serious situation on our hands and I'm seriously pained by the results.

Kindly reply my mail. Or you can go ahead and open it all here so everybody can be in the know, as long as it won't affect DJ.

r231:
Update

24 December 21:10pm

On Monday 22nd, the field officer was able to accompany Hamed to Lakeshore Cancer Center in Victoria Island.

Registration at the hospital and Consultations with the oncologist were done and some tests were prescribed to identify the source of the malignancy.

It is instructive to state that we now have two doctors working with us behind the scenes helping via email to make sense of the tests and recommended treatments.
Also LCC does not admit patients.

The oncologist has recommended he continue the drug regimen for abdominal TB in the meantime at the Life Specialist where he is being stabilised.

We intend to do a Laparoscopy to have a clearer picture and we are working on that


The following hospitals were contacted

1. Reddington - No response as they said they with only provide a quote upon referral

2. HCG -an Indian hospital too was contacted but the opinion of the consulting doctors is that chemotherapy and the treatment plan recommended may not be beneficial for the patient

3. Paelon Memorial - they are fully booked for the year.

4. Eko Hospital- they don't perform such a procedure

5. AVLSC was contacted but they are fully booked.

Hamed is at Life Specialist and will be there over the XMas period

If you are chanced, he will appreciate your prayers and visits.
Once we are informed due to the hospital protocol, the field officer can facilitate a visit

Also please for those who are able, keep the donations coming in as the necessary tests and the operation to determine the growth seen will most likely be done in the new year.


TeHN

This was posted on the 24th of December last year. Notice that they listed an Indian hospital among those they consulted with and yet our dear Tribalist Osisi has been running het fingers that they did not look at the angle.

If by the 24 of last year this was the update wad anyone expecting anything to be be done between then and the first week of January this year?

You people do not appreciate the sacrifice these people have taken and it is sad

Babymama1:
That was me December 19 when DJ was still on his feet

https://www.nairaland.com/1995601/sos-please-hamed-djdola/88#29176046

Read that and where they said they consulted HCB or something hospital in India with the test results.

Keep it coming

Below was a desperate email I sent privately to a team member on December 20
One month ago,at a time we were told patient was doing well and feeling better
I am making these known to clarify certain things and to make us sit back and think so we not repeat the same mistake again.
So anyone telling you they only became aware of cancer this January is being economical with the truth

Baby Osisi wrote:
> > Early morning at my end so good morning to all.
> > XX please if Tehns is not sharing the doctors notes and impressions
> > with the patient then that is not right
> > A patient is supposed to know what the doctor suspects,what he treats and
> > what the findings show.He should be well informed.Keeping him out of the
> > loop regarding the exact situation is wrong.
> >
> > Everything I wrote here I had told Tehns weeks back with a sense of urgency
> > in my voice.
> > When the doctors came with a diagnosis of liver abscess,I told them I
> > doubted that result because the clinical picture and blood tests do no
> > correlate with that diagnosis.I was desperate to see his liver and kidney
> > function tests and when they posted on the site that they were normal,I
> > asked for raw results which they sent me ,I also doubted some of those
> > results because of the clinical picture and summary I had received from
> > eruwa.
> > When they were doing a dialysis I wondered why they were dialyzing a patient
> > whose kidneys were said to be in top shape.
> > When they wrote here that the hospital was preparing for a liver biopsy,I
> > said what for?the liver is said to be fine and ultrasound said it was normal
> > so why biopsy a normal liver?
> > Then they decided to drain fluid and a scan showed them a mass
> > As early as NOv 17 or thereabout when that mass was mentioned ,it all came
> > together for me,i started thinking cancer,I will be frank with you ,those I
> > shared this with thought the same hence the suggestion for cytology.
> > Cancer cells don't normally show up in ascitic fluid even in cancer
> > diagnosis,it is rare but for him,he has malignant cells in his ascitic
> > fluid.
> > That was it for me

> > When people from the team started asking way forward on the thread,I was
> > incensed,I had suggested a way forward a long time prior,while my words were
> > not supposed to be law,I know enough to say this man was in danger.
> > To be frank with you again,the friend that went through this whole results
> > with me gave him a bad prognosis and also said the blood tests giving his
> > liver a clean bill and the full blood counts had to wrong and I agreed.
> >
> >
> > XT just shared the result of the abdominal scan they just did as
> > suggested and it points to a cancer in his bile duct area.That sounds really
> > bad.Here a patient with that diagnosis is put in hospice with less than a
> > year to live.
> > Now you see why I had sounded very desperate from day one
> > Too much knowledge has it's downside so I am unable to be as optimistic as
> > the people calling me names because I see the clinical picture and not going
> > by " patient feels better"
> > There is a chance he could also have TB in conjunction with the possible
> > cancer ,I have written that, so he will feel better when the TB is being
> > treated but that doesn't cancel the cancer scare which is the big picture
> >
> > Please I plead with you all,the situation is desperate
> > While I doubt those initial blood tests, and xt does too,it is now
> > irrelevant with this later knowledge
> > Any doctor that will treat,will repeat those tests so No need wasting money
> > to repeat them IMHO
> > Just this scan alone is enough for any surgeon to know what he is dealing
> > with
> > I don't know if there is anything they can do for him even in India at this
> > time but we will never know till someone sends every single one of his
> > result to them especially this latest scan.
> >
> > Babyosisi

Babymama1:
That was me December 19 when DJ was still on his feet

And who told you Hameed is bed ridden?

Are you privy to information we don't have or you are following the path that made you shout liver/kidney transplant again?

Babymama1:
Below was a desperate email I sent privately to a team member on December 20
One month ago
I am making these known to clarify certain things and to make us sit back and think so we not repeat the same mistake again.
So anyone telling you they only became aware of cancer this January is being economical with the truth

You shared that mail December 19th right?

19th is a friday they came with an update in December 24th which is a wednesday that they have contacted HCB hospital in India!!!

I don't think you are also aware that that period from December 21st to 5 January in Nigeria was basically holiday season and no hospitals will be operating in that capacity.

Which means they would have to wait until January to have the tests, wait for the results and from the dates up there, they mentioned that they started January 6th this year and got the results and everything this week.

Did you skip maths class?

OEPHIUS:
And who told you Hameed is not bed ridden?

Are you privy to information we don't have or you are following the path that made you shout liver/kidney transplant again?

By now you should know that you have contributed nothing to this discuss but confusion
If your number of likes for your stupeedity could heal our patient,he would be here posting
I hope you are happy with the result you obtained
you and the likes of you blocked this case from moving forward
If only you used this might with which you are saying these nonsense to drum up support to fly this guy out,we may not be where we are today
Shame on you
Let us learn from this
Your popularity contest and over speak kept us where we are

emmysexxy:
like I promised monday is the day and have not really hear them say what I want to say.so am trying to fuell my engine for monday to tell u guys d koko.am going to c him next week.so all badhers and haters get ready.

Who is this human being though? And what is your mission on this thread? How can you come out of no where to start acting like an agent of destruction! I'm so irritated by this post especially the bolded. This isn't about you madam. What is all these haters nonsense talk? One minute you act like you're here out of concern for dj, the next minute you act like you're here to fight people. I'm sorry but you are not helping matters with your malicious posts. . There are saner ways to update the thread than making inciting comments.

That said I hope Tehn and people who are ready to help are communicating offline. It is not too late Tehn, let's drop our ego and the the blame game. Please reach out to people who you believe are genuinely ready to help.

Goodluck to you Dj.

OEPHIUS:
You shared that mail December 19th right?

19th is a friday they came with an update in December 24th which is a wednesday that they have contacted HCB hospital in India!!!

I don't think you are also aware that that period from December 21st to 5 January in Nigeria was basically holiday season and no hospitals will be operating in that capacity.

Which means they would have to wait until January to have the tests, wait for the results and from the dates up there, they mentioned that they started January 6th this year and got the results and everything this week.

Did you skip maths class?

I suggested Apollo/ fortis
Apollo is renowned for cancer treatment and so is fortis
They chose HCB or whatever fine
Can you please post the report they got from HCB
Can you?
Don't try to confuse readers
Tell us what the India hospital said and their cost estimate
Provide that in black and white just like you provided my initial enquiry when the diagnosis was liver failure
And please don't say anything else after this post except providing this information
Let's follow this systematically

Oya

Babymama1:
By now you should know that you have contributed nothing to this discuss but confusion
If your number of likes for your stupeedity could heal our patient,he would be here posting
I hope you are happy with the result you obtained
you and the likes of you blocked this case from moving forward
If only you used this might with which you are saying these nonsense to drum up support to fly this guy out,we may not be where we are today
Shame on you
Let us learn from this
Your popularity contest and over speak kept us where we are

Huh? Babe your lower level intellect backside just hot kicked and shown the truth. You have been exposed as someone posting spontaneously in a bid to get attention and say "Babyosisi said".

Sorry some of us actually follow this threads and the updates and we can easily did up the facts not the ones you want people to believe.

OEPHIUS:
Huh? Babe your lower level intellect backside just hot kicked and shown the truth. You have been exposed as someone posting spontaneously in a bid to get attention and say "Babyosisi said".

Sorry some of us actually follow this threads and the updates and we can easily did up the facts not the ones you want people to believe.

Please answer my last question
After they contacted HCG or whatever ,kindly post the details they received just like you readily posted mine
Don't get distracted,we are now doing a post Mortem of our actions and inactions

Oya

OEPHIUS:
And who told you Hameed is bed ridden?

Are you privy to information we don't have or you are following the path that made you shout liver/kidney transplant again?

You are not helping matters.
I wonder what you are trying to prove smh.

softysparky:
You are not helping matters.
I wonder what you are trying to proof smh.

No no no
Since he has made himself the spokesperson of Tehns,he is now on the hot seat

Oepheus I am waiting
Show us the response from the Indian hospital

As I read the update by I just began to shed tears. Stage 4?! 2 weeks to live? my God! I feel the hospital actually knew what they were doing that's y they were going round in circles so they could siphon money...Oh let this be a dream