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I am 32 years old, single, working, have a car but go to work with the staff bus, no serious plans on marriage yet but have female friends. My father died last year 2014, and ever before his death, he insisted I live in his house (Built by him) since I am his only son. Now that he is dead, I am thinking of leaving the house for my mum and younger sisters (who are also in the same house at the moment) to occupy. I feel that I am not able to do some things as I am on constant watch of my mum (you know what it means to be only son).
Do you think my choice of leaving the house built by my father for a rented apartment is wise? Please, do not insult me, I know I am not the only one in this shoe. You candid advise is needed.

Pls let me think sir

You can save up your supposed rent and use it to start up your own house since you're not ready to get married , it's better to park into your own house than a rented apartment.

Hmmm....dicey situation. Maybe you should stay for now since you're not ready to get married yet

Hmm...that's your family house...you will still have to move out to have yours..its still yours tho but you will have to move out when the time is right..

Your mum will have no choice than to just let you go..

That's life bro..

I hope I have contributed positively.

elantraceey:
You can save up your supposed rent and use it to start up your own house since you're not ready to get married , it's better to park into your own house than a rented apartment.

I love dis girl
Pure wife material, u af brain jare



Back2dTopic: ur dad told u to stay in his house, he most have had a reason, u stayin der dosent mean ur nt gonna build ur own house, jst hangin der for d main time

He is too tall-nt my type
am richer dan him- nt my type
he is nt humble-nt my type
he is nt religious-nt my type
he is tu short-nt my type
he is a womanizer-nt my type-
that is how aunty funke clock 30+ in his father's house

SHe is too tall-nt my type
she is a liability- nt my type
she is nt humble-nt my type
she is nt religious-nt my type
she is tu short-nt my type
she is a prostitue'-nt my type-
that is how bro kunle clock + in his father's house

cyprianlah:
I love dis girl
Pure wife material, u af brain jare



Back2dTopic: ur dad told u to stay in his house, he most have had a reason, u stayin der dosent mean ur nt gonna build ur own house, jst hangin der for d main time

Tanchu

cyprianlah:
I love dis girl
Pure wife material, u af brain jare



Back2dTopic: ur dad told u to stay in his house, he most have had a reason, u stayin der dosent mean ur nt gonna build ur own house, jst hangin der for d main time

wife material abi... why conclude so quickly

ifex370:
wife material abi... why conclude so quickly

By her advice, u wil knw she is a material

@32, its totally your call to move out of your dad's house. As a man who's doing well financially, its not even expected that you'll still be in your father's house at this age. So if you feel moving out will give you the space you need to get certain things done, by all means, find your way out.

Btw, based on your dad's expectations from you, are you supposed to get married and brig your wife to live with you in the family house?

jnrprof:
@32, its totally your call to move out of your dad's house. As a man who's doing well financially, its not even expected that you'll still be in your father's house at this age. So if you feel moving out will give you the space you need to get certain things done, by all means, find your way out.

Btw, based on your dad's expectations from you, are you supposed to get married and brig your wife to live with you in the family house?

perfect response.

Op.
Go move out already, staying there impedes you. Even if it means renting a house. You and I know you won't stay there forever. Ofcourse you must always remember to go check your mum

Guy, STAY IN THAT HOUSE. U rep d family. Take k of ur Mum, as in make the house comfortable (renovation, installation, maintainance and her up-keep even if she z working). Build urs witout rushing. IF U OPT OUT, U'LL SPEND x3.

cyprianlah:
By her advice, u wil knw she is a material

oya na, continue

elantraceey:
You can save up your supposed rent and use it to start up your own house since you're not ready to get married , it's better to park into your own house than a rented apartment.

Hmmmmm....