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crackhaus:
I'm pretty sure they were kidding, seeing as many of them have never experienced a complete intense or.gasm - the kind that makes a woman's legs vibrate while the rest of her body behaves like she's having a seizure...

let them be lying to themselves na......oyibos who are generally more comfortable & more sensual are crying on the internet everyday about the lack of orgaśms & some garri/akpu- made NL women are boasting of orgäsms. how many of them know what a real orgäsm is?

Despite this, they're still faithful to their spouses...unless we have a bunch of female cheaters on NL.

after reading what mrs rosemary is capable of - i cannot put it past these ones o. any excuse is enough to drive them to cheat including mosquitoes in the bedroom.

slimyem:
It would be an interesting topic to address. You'd agree it's a new angle.won't you?

very fresh.

he should suck it up. identify with women who have been through the same thing he is going through. Go for counseling,hit the gym and get sexier for her,find out what he hasn't been doing right ,or where he got it wrong and fix it.

i think this is own healing process. let him grieve the way it suits him.

at least,it wouldn't have caught me by surprise.This man was totally oblivious and the shock's hit him more than the act which is why he's gone this irrational.

he's an effiko.
he probably never knew women with comfortable lives do cheat.

have you not seen many caught in the act videos online.Those ones are more arresting than this.You want me to post you links?
besides,it's the disgust and total rubbishing of what a family should represent in times of downs like this that has caught mine and a lot of other people's attention not the sensationalism.

slimmestyemi......
we don't need to dig deeper to know you have seen it all. i am sure you have seen midgets having sex in this your lifetime.

i understand marital infidelity isn't new but this man's story is kinda odd. i still can't put a finger on the reason the wifey derailed completely.

coogar:
let them be lying to themselves na......oyibos who are generally more comfortable & more sensual are crying on the internet everyday about the lack of orgaśms & some garri/akpu- made NL women are boasting of orgäsms. how many of them know what a real orgäsm is?

After consuming every starchy food known to man in large quantity as well as excess ice-cream and fast food combined with zero attitude to keeping fit, can we blame them...

after reading what mrs rosemary is capable of - i cannot put it past these ones o. any excuse is enough to drive them to cheat including mosquitoes in the bedroom.

Blame it on watching too many scripted reality TV and soap operas.

And women will always say "men should love their wives and be faithful if they wants their wives to be faithful to them"..smh

Now here's a man that sacrificed evrything for his wife due to love.but what he got in return? Abuse of all kinds,cheating etc..

Honestly,anyman that wants to cheat should just forget about the woman's feelings and do his thing because the same woman you are trying not to cheat on may be sleeping around secretly and you won't know..look at that head nurse who have been cheating on her hubby for years and the man didn't know he was living with a wwhore until her lover exposed her.

baby124:
Such a shameless husband. For this act, I actually pity the wife for the hell she may have gone through at the hands of such a husband. I am all for couples not washing their dirty linens in public like this. What is the gain? You are only embarrassing yourself and people will not only laugh at her but even more at you. I hope they do not have kids because this is even worse. I don't know if it is grief that made him do this, but this is psychopathic. He should leave her alone and move on with his life. Why such a pathetic video?

So that another unsuspecting dude will fall victim again? The man has nothing to be ashamed of. The good for nothing wife is the one to be ashamed of herself.

donpeey22:
Do women even know what love is? Never loved him but went ahead and married him!
At least this is not a case of "he cheated on me first" Or " he doesn't take care of me"

Still beats my thinking faculty what women of nowadays really want!

Like all men married for love..

Also wonder what men what too

Humans are getting terrible by the hour... as this guy washed his dirty linen in public, some wife somewhere is probably been beaten to death or abused terribly by her husband

Mmadukaku:
Love? Which love? Very difficult I tell you.

Yea, you are right; its difficult. But there is always a place for forgiveness in our hearts.

mutter:
If you can do it- then I can talk about it!

Bad enough that she did it. I mean we can give her the grace of saying she fell short of grace, got carried away, got weak whatever.

But the tone in her voice when talking to her husband!

It is arrogant, it is disrespectful, it is stupid

If she can spread her legs for another man , then why blame the husband for bringing it out public.

If she had done a noble thing and he had brought out a video, all women will praise him.
What do you want the man to do- a pat on the back and carry on girl!

This husband's action was foolish..

He just disgraced himself and children...

Tomorrow people will point to his kids as.... the Children of bla bla bla

If women cheated go online, internet would have blown

coogar:
it's the pretence i can't stand too.

you already know what to expect from men - but women? especially those ones who can't avoid telling everyone they are church girls. it's a ploy to lure oblivious men into their lair. once you marry them, it's an eternal entrapment.

That's why it is important that men not allow themselves to be rushed to the alter.

A lot of young women are in a great hurry to get married and it is only after the wedding (and sometimes children) that the man becomes aware as to why.

bukatyne:
This husband's action was foolish..

He just disgraced himself and children...

Tomorrow people will point to his kids as.... the Children of bla bla bla

If women cheated go online, internet would have blown

Then what was the act of the wife- wise!
Did she think about her children when she got naked and let another man climb her?
Did she think about her children when she was blowing her silly mouth of to the husband?

That woman broke her marriage vows and opened up for another man.
Thus she descecrated the marriage.
A marriage is holy bound in heaven as well as on earth.

When you descecrate a holy ground it looses it`s holiness and vultures can come and feast there.
Dogs can come and defecate there.

Since she wanted to take what was meant for the marriage and expose it outside.
The man is only helping her to expose it the more.

By exposing her he has cleansed himself of his hurt and pain.
The woman was not repentant so she deserved no mercy.

olas24u:
Well empirically your relationship will last longer if there is respect.I am speaking for myself am an African lady and intouch with my traditions.

Obviously relationships and marriages will last longer and be blissful (Not far but how well) however I do not understand where freedom or not is coming into the equation.

Goodluck anyways

mmsen:
That's why it is important that men not allow themselves to be rushed to the alter.

A lot of young women are in a great hurry to get married and it is only after the wedding (and sometimes children) that the man becomes aware as to why.

you can't blame them - their biological clock ticks faster than usain bolt!

women! women!! women!!! how many time I call una? cotract marriage all the way.

CrypticSegun:
I cannot comprehend why this video was made!!! It portrays the husband as weak, foolish and insecure....


I'm sure he is hurt and wants to relieve the pain but coming on Youtube to narrate his ordeal when kids are involved shows how inconsiderate he is... He ought to have spoken to a trusted friend ( pastor, father figure etc) about it instead of coming online....


A cheating spouse is disheartening but no one should ever blame themselves for a cheating partner's actions. Cheaters are cowards!! She should just have been frank with her husband, end the relationship and seek a divorce....

In life, you don't always get everything....... We don't all come in full packages.... If you want a caring and nice husband, he might not come with the bed package... It's then up to you to either go ahead with him or marry someone good at sex but not in other departments...

There are usually trade-offs , hence why we have to go into any relationship with that mindset.... My girlfriend may not be as attractive but might be very clever.... If I rate her cleverness more than her attractiveness in the long term, then I will marry her....It's not that when I marry her, that's when I will be having a second thought on how unattractive she is.....


Sexual performances in men can be due to a lot of factors and working with your husband to make him better is always ideal......It's not enough to quit your marriage because of it.....

If I notice an unusual growth on my wife's body and it's due to some rare genetic conditions which is nauseating to me, is that enough reason for me to cheat on her ? ( I'm asking women here that are blaming the man's sexual prowess on the failed relationship)

yr cute

coogar:
you can't blame them - their biological clock ticks faster than usain bolt!

Once again you speak the truth - but that is not a man's problem.

Ultimately it doesn't benefit anyone to bond two people, plus the children, into an unhappy marriage.

onila:
yr cute

Thanks... Are u in Nigeria?

CrypticSegun:
Thanks... Are u in Nigeria?

nop

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onila and CrypticSegun

Make una plan am well make e no reach sextape level oooooo

I always appreciate fine boys

make ona leave me

onila:
yr cute

pickabeau1:
onila and CrypticSegun

Make una plan am well make e no reach sextape level oooooo

lol..

mutter:
Then what was the act of the wife- wise!
Did she think about her children when she got naked and let another man climb her?
Did she think about her children when she was blowing her silly mouth of to the husband?

That woman broke her marriage vows and opened up for another man.
Thus she descecrated the marriage.
A marriage is holy bound in heaven as well as on earth.

When you descecrate a holy ground it looses it`s holiness and vultures can come and feast there.
Dogs can come and defecate there.

Since she wanted to take what was meant for the marriage and expose it outside.
The man is only helping her to expose it the more.

By exposing her he has cleansed himself of his hurt and pain.
The woman was not repentant so she deserved no mercy.

Act of the wife.... 100% foolish... (I have not watched the video but it sounds like the wife was zero for the get go)

I also agree with you that any husband/wife who cheat has done the above

My point is that you do not cut your nose to spite your face.

If the man wants to deal with her, he should do so in a clean way that would not stain himself or his kids

It is clear that the majority of women are SELFISH,SELFISH,SELFISH.....even going by the comments of a lot of the females that have replied to this thread will make you believe that. You guys are insulting the guy for getting all emotional and putting out this recording? Seriously? Did you guys not hear the audio with his wife? Instead of her to calm down and apologize plainly, simply and genuinely, she kept dragging the argument and trying to "justify" how she "only cheated once". You females selfishly don't pay attention to even your own stupidity and selfishness sometimes. It was already bad enough that she cheated and the guy was naturally hurt but it was even worse that instead of apologizing and just playing the "dumb" one just for the period of talking about it, she was there arguing like one fool.

I am very happy,now men are beginning to speak out.you people need to know what men go though,i swear women are evil especially does who follow the white men way of life,just imagine having the white mans laws to protect you,plus enjoying the privileges of the black mans laws.then mixed with the brain of a Nigerian.
I make bold to say that i am not aware of any Nigerian leaving in the states that is married to a Nigerian woman,who has seen hell,the best you would get is that some-days her head would be correct other days,sorry is your name

babyosisi:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RpP45kB8GA
[size=16pt]Skip 4-10 mins in the clip above,the second clip plays that audio[/size]


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pCQHLgvKz0

Coogar this is your territory,I expect to see you soon

Background

A married nigerian female doctor cheats with a fellow nigerian resident doctor and confesses to her husband
The man pours out his heart on tape
In the second clip he plays an audio tape conversation with his wife admitting to the affair
This is sad sha
I feel for the hubby
Language a little strong in places

Nonso23:
This is the kind of Man women love na The ones they can drag around like toys. This man mumu sha.
Mumu for Nigeria, Mumu for Newyork,
Mumu for Texas,
Mumu for youtube,
Worldwide MUMU!

Please who is that person asking: between mother and wife, who comes first?
Mother: low to zero risk.
Wife: High risk.

Their kids are in for it as the Nigerian community in Texas can be very unforgiving and brutal. Wife yanga don end there.
Good move but took too long

This man was arrested SEVERAL TIMES for domestic violence, which clearly played AGAINST him during the divorce.

Who gave you the right to talk for women and say they like underachieving bitter wife-beaters?

Speak for yourself, if you are attracted to him.

Something I know for sure is that many of you loner misogynistic pricks on this site who resent women for not being your slaves, look for bitter scums like this wretch and Nigerian 'men' who kill their wives.

prettyboi1:
It is clear that the majority of women are SELFISH,SELFISH,SELFISH.....even going by the comments of a lot of the females that have replied to this thread will make you believe that. You guys are insulting the guy for getting all emotional and putting out this recording? Seriously? Did you guys not hear the audio with his wife? Instead of her to calm down and apologize plainly, simply and genuinely, she kept dragging the argument and trying to "justify" how she "only cheated once". You females selfishly don't pay attention to even your own stupidity and selfishness sometimes. It was already bad enough that she cheated and the guy was naturally hurt but it was even worse that instead of apologizing and just playing the "dumb" one just for the period of talking about it, she was there arguing like one fool.

When the rate of women MURDERING, RAPING, ASSAULTING, CHEATING, SEXUALLY MUTILATING, FORCE-MARRYING men is comparable to that of men doing it to women, then you will have a case.

Until then, men are the definition of SELFISHNESS. They cheat ALL THE TIME and even marry their mistresses as new wives yet get away with it by claiming 'culture', 'traditions', bla blah. So be quiet and stop talking shhit with your lying ass!!

She cheated on him, so what?
Does it deserve this assassination of character and a shaming of his family, hers and himself?

This man is a bum and only bums will defend his pathetic azz. She should have kicked him out long ago but Im sure he wouldn't go.

This man is a bum who would beat and abuse his wife while living off her.
Dont ever believe for a second that he is the saint he is trying to portray.
I have great respect for selfless, wise men who support their wives and families but the fact that he would not hesitate to go to the lenght of SHAMING AND HUMILIATING HIS OWN KIDS TO GET AT THEIR MUM speaks of the piece of shhiit he is.

This man was arrested for beating her, he aint shiit and he deserve anything he get.

drlawizle:
And will punishing a good man stop the bad man from cheating? Rather it will convince the bad man dat being a good man is unwise and den turn the good man to a

badman and thus the whole world turns upside down...deal with the culprit and not resorting to transferred aggression

I never mentioned anything about punishment any where in that post. No one is being punished or at least to my understanding. These things happen hence the "For better or worse" provision in the vows.

Why do I think that guys apply this part of the vows only to women? Do guys ever tell each other "stick with it man, remember for better for worse" when their women cheat?

Mmmm suspect!

crackhaus:
This shiit is getting old and stale...

I know, right? But they have just updated it with
You tube videos of the lamenting husband. Go figure.

onila:
I always appreciate fine boys

make ona leave me

you take too many risks as a virgin

Smart man, creating an Alibi for the divorce. Hope you signed a prenuptial agreement with the slūt, child custody should be on Ur agenda too.