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username792:
First of all, I have never justified cheating but you wouldn't know given that you are as dense as they make them.
Secondly, why are fvckers like you ALWAYS CHASING WOMEN? I have seen another misogynistic pig like you yestetday who wouldnt leave women alone. Talking about potential wives as if women are asking you shiiitt. Almost all the women on this thread agreed with me. Dunces like you should start considering your felow man for mariage or better yet mutter. She likes being beaten up and will even feel thankful if you beat her slow ass to near death. Apparently she lives in Germany but has kept all her village ways with her. You wil make a great backward couple, but please don't claim Nigeria.

I don't understand why folks like you always pontificate about the need for men who critique stupid women to stop chasing women. They are just being human, and just like everything else, there's a gift/curse that comes with women (though the curse seems to be more prominent these days). And it's alright to have a problem with the curse.

However, that doesn't negate the fact that the puss.y was created to be ganked by men, regardless of what they do/say. So, don't tell folks what to do.

Women crack me up sometimes. Your biggest weapon is ya pu.ssy and if all men decide to stop fvcking you lot for a month, you'd be the ones begging loool. Ever been around a chic that expects a good beat, and you just ignore her ar.se? - that's when you know that without the pum, women ain't shiit. Better apologise to those upstanding men speaking the truth with no chaser.

bukatyne:
Keen on knowing when wife confessed...

Was the affair one off or she was continuously cheating till This video?

As to when she confessed, I won't be surprised to hear she confessed a decade ago and the guy decided to hit record and bring up the old issue again so that he can have something to use against her because she took him to court.

ileobatojo:
Nope, it was a one off affair as far as we were told.

One off?

Nigerian wives should start learning

bukatyne:
One off?

Nigerian wives should start learning

Abeg explain fully jare. What should the sistas learn?

mutter:
Some years back a lady was admitted in hospital the man had given her a good beating and she called the police. When the police came she acted up like she was collapsing and the called the ambulance.
I really fet bad for her when I saw her and then I deceided to go visit the man and talk to him.
He was sitting there really upset. You could see a man at the end of his rope .
The woman had poured the soup put all over him. Worse still the whole house was in an unhygenic and messy state, really aweful. The woman had also been buying on credit , owing everywhere, cheating on him, all over the place for money. It was such a disaster.
What could I say?
He was bleeding too just that the scars were inside.
Not without reason that provocations an excuse in Law and you can even get away with man slaughter if you are provoked enough.
The wife going public is in no way anything compared to the woman's adultery.
Did she not mess up the lives of the kid`s by what she did.
I hope you are not supporting her because you identify with what she did

In the olden days she would have been stripped naked and chased away, or made to take a cleansing bath in public. This even still happens in some places today.
According to African tradition the punishment for adultery is public disgrace and humiliation.
This is exactly what she got here.

The ancestors will certainly be happy with him

i think we should bring back this particular tradition. ex-club girls & retired pröstitutes have used the church as an avenue to sneak into many matrimonial homes.

ileobatojo:
As to when she confessed, I won't be surprised to hear she confessed a decade ago and the guy decided to hit record and bring up the old issue again so that he can have something to use against her because she took him to court.

And the only thing the guy could think of was smearing his name & that of his kids in mud.

Interesting

With time sha We will forget all of them; a juicer story will surface

Kids should do a change of name... parents; their cup of tea

chibic:
leave mutter alone..she's a very good woman and devils like you will never like such woman cos she doesn't lead a wayward life like your fairly used and rotten asss...saying you don suport cheating?..you are a slowpoke!!..the same ediot that came here blaming the hubby for being cheated on?..I just hope you cheated on and even kicked out while a beautiful woman take the place of an ugly thing like..so that you'll know how it feels to be cheated on..cursed old hag!!!

' .I just hope you cheated on and even kicked out while a beautiful woman take the place of an ugly thing like..so that you'll know how it feels to be cheated on.'

OK hun, take this tissue, dont be all emotional about it.
I know you really like being all up in my derriere, my sex life and who I marry, but now get a life of your own hun. I like that you like mutter and recognise the qualities that will make her a great doormat. Now hurry up and marry her.

P.S: Dont forget, she is all for domestic violence
P.S 2: I see how you tactically left out how this sorry ass nigga would beat his wife, just to paint him as a victim so that you could pull on : some traw and accuse me of supporting cheating. *wink* im not mad, distortion is the weapon of the daft and lowly intelligent

ileobatojo:
Abeg explain fully jare. What should the sistas learn?

What again?

How to deal effectively with roaming dycks

One learner has kuku poured acid on her bf's kini

username792:
Lol at you slut-shaming me, I didnt really expect much from you, I mean you are indeed living up to your backwardness.
I mean, Im talking to you about child mariage, rape, forced mariage, domestic violence, all the things that are destroying society and holding US ALL BACK and you are here all up in my ass worried about who I sleep with or I don't Lol typical. This is what i meant when I said you wouldnt recognise right from wrong even if it hit you in the face with your low mental capacities and your absent sence of moral. Just so you, im a virgin but that is none of your problems, the fact that you repell women with your monkey ways and put them in danger should be your main preoccupation.

Rights are too complicated for a baboon like youself. Yours stop where the next peson's start, im sure you dont know that, or have no idea what body autonomy or privacy mean.

I know you are desperayely looking for a wife, have you tried the zoo yet?

lol..virgin my foot!..so we should cry because a skunk claimed she's a virgin?..smh..maybe the evil mask on your face is the reason men don't come around you and also the reason you despise men so much.you are a useless b1tch who came to this thread and saw nothing wrong in a cheating wife but decided to pick on the innocent man..no,virgins don't behave that way..stinking lier!
Like I said,I hope you get cheated on the rest of your life so that you'll know how it feels and I hope that time,everybody will blame you for even talking about it and justify your doggish husband.miserable loner!

bukatyne:
What again?

How to deal effectively with roaming dycks

One learner has kuku poured acid on her bf's kini

mutter:
Some years back a lady was admitted in hospital the man had given her a good beating and she called the police. When the police came she acted up like she was collapsing and the called the ambulance.
I really fet bad for her when I saw her and then I deceided to go visit the man and talk to him.
He was sitting there really upset. You could see a man at the end of his rope .
The woman had poured the soup put all over him. Worse still the whole house was in an unhygenic and messy state, really aweful. The woman had also been buying on credit , owing everywhere, cheating on him, all over the place for money. It was such a disaster.
What could I say?
He was bleeding too just that the scars were inside.
Not without reason that provocations an excuse in Law and you can even get away with man slaughter if you are provoked enough.
The wife going public is in no way anything compared to the woman's adultery.
Did she not mess up the lives of the kid`s by what she did.
I hope you are not supporting her because you identify with what she did
In the olden days she would have been stripped naked and chased away, or made to take a cleansing bath in public. This even still happens in some places today.
According to African tradition the punishment for adultery is public disgrace and humiliation.
This is exactly what she got here.

The ancestors will certainly be happy with him

You seem to know history well

What was the punishment of erring men?

We might as well go back to it

bukatyne:
You seem to know history well

What was the punishment of erring men?

We might as well go back to it

When it came to women, men never erred.
They were always right.

ileobatojo:

What do you think?

On a serious note, I am sure If there are drastic consequences, cheating would reduce greatly

bukatyne:
Like all men married for love..

Also wonder what men what too

Humans are getting terrible by the hour... as this guy washed his dirty linen in public, some wife somewhere is probably been beaten to death or abused terribly by her husband

Always on the defence even when they have no points.
Even when men marry without love, they don't deny the lady sex. When they cheat on their wives, it is not because they don't "love" her.

As far as I am concerned, the man has only exposed a marital infidel and warned other men to stay away from her and her ilks. Nothing like washing his dirty linen in public.

dre11:
Isn't this better than having her killed
This is the way he knows how to grief and leave him to do that

No mind 'them them'... Them Bleep around, no be their fault na ur fault. Them slap you, no be their fault na ur fault. Them born pikin, na ur fault. Them no fit take care of their family, na ur fault. Them enter the USA dey use their woman-only law against you, na still ur fault. Them do everything to frustrate you make u divorce them, na still ur fault. Them push you so tey, you do video like this na still ur fault. If you come kill them nko........

bukatyne:
And the only thing the guy could think of was smearing his name & that of his kids in mud.

Interesting

With time sha We will forget all of them; a juicer story will surface

Kids should do a change of name... parents; their cup of tea

Imagine! Look at how he is crying out like the whole world has ended and crushed on top of him. Cry baby! Wussy! So cheating dey pain men like this? they all begin to sound like broken records. but they like to cheat anyhow they like. Odiegwu. Do we even know if this man was truly faithful all the years?

mutter:
When it came to women, men never erred.
They were always right.

Interesting

Now see why you support men most of the time; men are always right.

I would say We go back to the time of Moses in the OT. Luckily for us, God is fair and it is stoning to death for both parties

Drastic actions need to be taken against cheats

What do you think ?

bukatyne:
Interesting

Now see why you support men most of the time; men are always right.

I would say We go back to the time of Moses in the OT. Luckily for us, God is fair and it is stoning to death for both parties

Drastic actions need to be taken against cheats

What do you think ?

A man was stoned to death if he laid with another mans wife.
That was an offence against the other man and thus he erred.
He was not stoned to death for cheating on his wife.

I stand to be corrected

chibic:
lol..virgin my foot!..so we should cry because a skunk claimed she's a virgin?..smh..maybe the evil mask on your face is the reason men don't come around you and also the reason you despise men so much.you are a useless b1tch who came to this thread and saw nothing wrong in a cheating wife but decided to pick on the innocent man..no,virgins don't behave that way..stinking lier!
Like I said,I hope you get cheated on the rest of your life so that you'll know how it feels and I hope that time,everybody will blame you for even talking about it and justify your doggish husband.miserable loner!

As I see, dude has decided to erect a camp and stay all up in my bootay. This is starting to be CREEPY as fvck and your sexual frustration is showing.

Hahahahahaha you are clearly desperate for some play WHO WILL DISCUSS WITH SUCH EAGERNRSS THE SEX LIFE OF A STRANGER ON THE INTERNET, IF NOT SOME CREEPY BUM WHO REPELL WOMEN?

The irony of you calling me a 'miserable loner' when you are fishing for 'potential wives' on Nairaland and are developping a worry obsession with my sex. Is it my fault now that even village girls do not want to be burdened by monkeys like you? Lol. Why would any wise and enlighted woman saddle herself with a misogynistic caveaen like you?

All is well o, like I said before, look in a zoo

bukatyne:
You seem to know history well
What was the punishment of erring men?
We might as well go back to it

Let me go dig up that my thread on how Igbo women dealt with erring men circa 1960 before Nigeria 'fake traditions' started.

[url]http://www.artsrn.ualberta.ca/amcdouga/Hist247/winter%202010/additional%20rdgs/sitting_on_man.pdf[/url]

"Sitting on a man" or a woman, boycotts and strikes were the women's
main weapons. To "sit on" or "make war on" a man involved gathering at his
compound, sometimes late at night, dancing, singing scurrilous songs which
detailed the women's grievances against him and often called his manhood into
question, banging on his hut with the pestles women used for pounding yams,
and perhaps demolishing his hut or plastering it with mud and roughing him up
a bit. A man might be sanctioned in this way for mistreating his wife, for
violating the women's market rules, or for letting his cows eat the women's crops.
The women would stay at his hut throughout the day, and late into the night,
if necessary, until he repented and promised to mend his ways.24 Although this
could hardly have been a pleasant experience for the offending man, it was
considered legitimate and no man would consider intervening.

In tackling men as a group, women used boycotts and strikes. Harris
describes a case in which, after repeated requests by the women for the paths to
the market to be cleared (a male responsibility), all the women refused to cook
for their husbands until the request was carried out.25 For this boycott to be
effective, all women had to cooperate so that men could not go and eat with their
brothers. Another time the men of a village decided that the women should stop
trading at the more distant markets from which they did not return until late at
night because the men feared that the women were having sexual relations with
men in those towns. The women, however, refused to comply since opportunity
to buy in one market and sell in another was basic to profit-making. Threats of
collective retaliation were enough to make the men capitulate.

A woman could also bring complaints about her husband to the mikiri.
If most of the women agreed that the husband was at fault, they would
collectively support her. They might send spokeswomen to tell the husband to
apologize and to give her a present, and, if he was recalcitrant they might "sit on"
him. They might also act to protect a right of wives. Harris describes a case of
women's solidarity to maintain sexual freedom:
The men... were very angry because their wives were openly having
relations with their lovers. The men... met and passed a law to the effect
that every woman... should renounce her lover and present a goat to her
husband as a token of repentance... The women held... secret meetings
and, a few mornings later, they went to a neighboring [village], leaving
all but suckling children behind them... [The men] endured it for a day
and a half and then they went to the women and begged their return...
[T]he men gave [the women] one goat and apologized informally and
formally.27
Thus through mikiri women acted to force a resolution of their individual and
collective grievances.

Rotflmao!

I pity the man though. He doesn't deserve this.

olas24u:
When you live in the western world you cannot come near lay your hands on me ;DYou know ,so he can only cry this way,on a serious not ,too much freedom is not so good for us as ladies,we need to respect men

The pple wey born u really train you gan, and u sef train yourself well well. By their words you shall know them.

Too much freedom is turning women to something else. I agree with you 1000%

donpeey22:
Always on the defence even when they have no points.
Even when men marry without love, they don't deny the lady sex. When they cheat on their wives, it is not because they don't "love" her.

As far as I am concerned, the man has only exposed a marital infidel and warned other men to stay away from her and her ilks. Nothing like washing his dirty linen in public.

Who are the they?

You haven't heard of men who deny their wives sex?

If men cheat doesn't mean they don't love their wives bla bla ... do you know What love is?

Men can cheat , women can't....

Yet in your haste, you do not realize that endorsing cheating for men mean

1. More women would be promiscuous to meet the needs of cheating men or

2. Men would become homosexuals If women are to be decent.

Think of the ripple effect next time

ROTFLMAO. He made a video. Sigh. I watched the first few seconds. I heard him state his name and I was out. What is the point?

oshaosha2014:
The pple wey born u really train you gan, and u sef train yourself well well. By their words you shall know them.

Too much freedom is turning women to something else. I agree with you 1000%

This is a terribly wrong premise. Too much freedom is not good for anyone because power is the human race' most intoxicating drug. That is why Patriarchy/men could run along with impunity without being challenged for centuries. It seriously dealt with women. The tide has changed in the West, and the men are crying, how does it feel being at the end of such impunity? Rotflmao!

mutter:
A man was stoned to death if he laid with another mans wife.
That was an offence against the other man and thus he erred.
He was not stoned to death for cheating on his wife.

I stand to be corrected

If a man & a woman was caught, they were both stoned to death

There are a lot of cases...

The only one I know did not involve death was If the woman was a Virgin and he must never divorce her

bukatyne:
Who are the they?

You haven't heard of men who deny their wives sex?

If men cheat doesn't mean they don't love their wives bla bla ... do you know What love is?

Men can cheat , women can't....

Yet in your haste, you do not realize that endorsing cheating for men mean

1. More women would be promiscuous to meet the needs of cheating men or

2. Men would become homosexuals If women are to be decent.

Think of the ripple effect next time

Dnt mind these men that justify cheating. They have forgotten that if they want to cheat they need women. As men dey cheat women dey cheat. 50/50. Gbam! Let them keep deceiving themselves and sounding like broken records.

firstEVA:
you take too many risks as a virgin

Wait o is she really a virgin?

oshaosha2014:
The pple wey born u really train you gan, and u sef train yourself well well. By their words you shall know them.

Too much freedom is turning women to something else. I agree with you 1000%

Start caging them na....

Begin with the poster you quoted

Stillfire:
This is a terribly wrong premise. Too much freedom is not good for anyone because power is the human race' most intoxicating drug. That is why Patriarchy/men could run along with impunity without being challenged for centuries. It seriously dealt with women. The tide has changed in the West, and the men are crying, how does it feel being at the end of such impunity? Rotflmao!

You shld ask the women whose husbands hacked the hell outa them.

Sophyrocks:
Dnt mind these men that justify cheating. They have forgotten that if they want to cheat they need women. As men dey cheat women dey cheat. 50/50. Gbam! Let them keep deceiving themselves and sounding like broken records.

Don't spoil their market na

Men are free to cheat; maybe I should even start importing sex dolls

Abi who will men cheat with?

bukatyne:
If a man & a woman was caught, they were both stoned to death

There are a lot of cases...

The only one I know did not involve death was If the woman was a Virgin and he must never divorce her

As I said I stood to be corrected but now we arre back to Nigeria and perhaps you can let us know how it was in Nigeria then.

Stillfire:
Let me go dig up that my thread on how Igbo women dealt with erring men circa 1960 before Nigeria 'fake traditions' started.

[url]http://www.artsrn.ualberta.ca/amcdouga/Hist247/winter%202010/additional%20rdgs/sitting_on_man.pdf[/url]

"Sitting on a man" or a woman, boycotts and strikes were the women's
main weapons. To "sit on" or "make war on" a man involved gathering at his
compound, sometimes late at night, dancing, singing scurrilous songs which
detailed the women's grievances against him and often called his manhood into
question, banging on his hut with the pestles women used for pounding yams,
and perhaps demolishing his hut or plastering it with mud and roughing him up
a bit. A man might be sanctioned in this way for mistreating his wife, for
violating the women's market rules, or for letting his cows eat the women's crops.
The women would stay at his hut throughout the day, and late into the night,
if necessary, until he repented and promised to mend his ways.24 Although this
could hardly have been a pleasant experience for the offending man, it was
considered legitimate and no man would consider intervening.

In tackling men as a group, women used boycotts and strikes. Harris
describes a case in which, after repeated requests by the women for the paths to
the market to be cleared (a male responsibility), all the women refused to cook
for their husbands until the request was carried out.25 For this boycott to be
effective, all women had to cooperate so that men could not go and eat with their
brothers. Another time the men of a village decided that the women should stop
trading at the more distant markets from which they did not return until late at
night because the men feared that the women were having sexual relations with
men in those towns. The women, however, refused to comply since opportunity
to buy in one market and sell in another was basic to profit-making. Threats of
collective retaliation were enough to make the men capitulate.

A woman could also bring complaints about her husband to the mikiri.
If most of the women agreed that the husband was at fault, they would
collectively support her. They might send spokeswomen to tell the husband to
apologize and to give her a present, and, if he was recalcitrant they might "sit on"
him. They might also act to protect a right of wives. Harris describes a case of
women's solidarity to maintain sexual freedom:
The men... were very angry because their wives were openly having
relations with their lovers. The men... met and passed a law to the effect
that every woman... should renounce her lover and present a goat to her
husband as a token of repentance... The women held... secret meetings
and, a few mornings later, they went to a neighboring [village], leaving
all but suckling children behind them... [The men] endured it for a day
and a half and then they went to the women and begged their return...
[T]he men gave [the women] one goat and apologized informally and
formally.27
Thus through mikiri women acted to force a resolution of their individual and
collective grievances.

Rotflmao!

I pity the man though. He doesn't deserve this.

Mutter What do you say about This custom?

Something needs to be done about cheating