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ankh1600:
Use femdom for comfort, condoms are for people who sleep around and are not safe from all STDs.

justmag:
Mmmm and who confirmed that it was d pill dat caused this?? Well...I can only speak for two people who used it. So idk

ukandi1:
ur Question was okay, but conclusion too harsh. I bet u can be nicer than that.

chiibekee:
Good for safety

shevon:
Biko, no vex but I beg to differ on the part of your comment I quoted.
The biblical record says,
"But Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the Lord's sight; so the LORD put him to death. Then Judah said to Onan, “Lie with your brother's wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to produce offspring for your brother.” But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother's wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing offspring for his brother. What he did was wicked in the Lord's sight; so He put him to death also."(Genesis 38:7-10, NIV)
Some have mistakenly assumed that Onan's sin was masturbation. However, it seems that this is not the case (please, note the emphasis on seems) Onan was prematurely withdrawing from sexual intercourse with his new wife, Tamar. This is a form of birth control still practiced today (coiitus interruptus per Latin - or should I say Catholic - parlance). Onan had an obligation to provide his wife with a child, and his brother with an heir (Deut. 25:5-6; Matt. 22:24). He was now the oldest son in a tribe that was supposed to be fruitful and multiply in fulfillment of God's promise to Abraham. As the heir of Judah, he was destined to one day become the tribe's spiritual and moral leader. Onan's sin was in purposely disobeying his father, denying his wife the opportunity of conceiving the child that she wanted (and probably needed). There were strong cultural and practical reasons for her desire for children, especially a male heir. Onan enjoyed sex, but rebelliously prevented its natural result, the conception of a child. He was selfish, and showed disrespect for his brother, his wife, his father, and God.
God judged Onan not fit for his ultimate position as the leader of this especially important tribe of God's chosen people, which was destined to be the line of King David, and ultimately of Mary and Joseph, the parents of Jesus. The tribe would one day become known as “the Jews.”
Onan died in the land of Canaan before grandfather Jacob and all his descendants went into Egypt (Genesis 46:12).
Tamar, his wife, later bore a child who is listed in the genealogy of Jesus Christ.
My post is not to support masturbation (and I'd say whoever is without sin as far as masturbation is concerned should cast the first stone) or promote fornication/adultery, it is just for us to put things in the right perspective but I may be wrong because I am not an authority on this topic.
For the records, I feel sex is meant for both procreation and to promote closeness between a husband and a wife; having to procreate more than you have capability to take care of while you are trying to engender closeness is wrong and as such you should try and control birth while you enjoy sex (this is strictly my own opinion). Every individual have their beliefs and practice, what is good for one man may be a sin to the other person. So the mode for which each person practice this rest solely on the individual. If you like sef, no Bleep unless you wan born and after the pikin don enter, hang ya boot, na ye sabi.
Let's not try not to misconstrue facts just to promote an argument.
Abeg, like I mentioned when I started, no vex, I don't mean any disrespect. This is just the way I see that part of your post I quoted.
Regards.

shadowgwalker:
pharmacist, doctors and even mere neighbours after telling them '...
when she stopped taking the nonsense family planning drugs, everything started clearing.
when you take drugs try to read the leaflet, side effects are written there!

jerrymej:
Use Condom say waiting na? Ah

justmag:
wish I could give an example but that wwould mean calling up my ex and be like

"Hey! I know we haven't talked in years but I am just trying to figure out the name of the birth control pill you use!"

awkward 101!!

CHIAAGRO:
USE OF CONDOM AND WITHDRAWAL IN MARRIAGE IF MUTUALLY AGREED BETWEEN THE PARTNERS IS NOT A SIN! MIND YOU ONAISM(withdrawal by Onan) WAS AN EVIL AGAINST GOD'S DIRECTIVE AND THE PARTNER WAS CHEATED. BUT COUPLES THAT ARE CONTROLLING THEIR BIRTH RATE SO AS TO ENHANCE PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY ARE RATHER DOING GOD'S WILL! e.g we had two kids after our NCE,no job and I went into university,money from business as of then was able to pay school fees for us and keep the family alive,we decided to control untill my graduation and more financial strength! GOD IS VERY HAPPY WITH US BECAUSE WE ARE IN GREAT LOVE AND TRUST AS A FAMILY. SO IT DEPENDS ON THE PURPOSE AND CONDITION FOR WHICH CONDOM IS USED!

ronald4lif:
Condom shouldn't be used when there's a need for procreation, but when the sex is just for the fun and conji then condom should be used.

ronald4lif:
Condom shouldn't be used when there's a need for procreation, but when the sex is just for the fun and conji then condom should be used.

justmag:
I know two people using the same pill and they are perfectly fine. I think it depends on the pill. If it's some over the counter cheap product then I can understand why someone may have side effect. The most side effect I heard is partial diziness in the first two week and that's it.

netflydotcom:
Late Pope JohnPaul 11 approve that for married.google to read more

ApostlePeter:
Childish question

chibaik:
Yeah they look so fine!

To you they look fine today but do you know the long term effect?

I can list a number of it here for you but I will advise you to be your own teacher, try google.

But I wonder how you believe man made invention is PERFECTLY OKAY.

bamog:
at last!! 1st to comment!! Abeg wu get garri?? Up chelsea!! Bleep david luiz!! ASUU don call off strike!! Api new year!! Odun lo n sopin ooo baba rere!!!

bamog:
at last!! 1st to comment!! Abeg wu get garri?? Up chelsea!! Bleep david luiz!! ASUU don call off strike!! Api new year!! Odun lo n sopin ooo baba rere!!!

dmjinc:
Withdrawal Method/pull out method is okay































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justmag:
everyone ones body is different. Some people show negligence and chose to ignore the intrusions that outline side effects and effects when you have previously existing conditions. When that happens you make things worse. Now in the case of my ex and my old friend. I am sure the read the instructions clearly and worked accordingly. Now they are side effect free.

Daninya11:
To be honest with you op, the issue of birth control - use of contraceptives, condom and withdrawal is a major concern in the Christiandom..
The Roman Catholic are at the pivot of the matter but the debate still rages on with the pentecostal and evangelical with divergent view..
Sex is for procreation and intimacy (soul tie). Some scholars point to the fact that because God slayed Onan because he spilled his seed on the ground (withdrawal method) any form of birth control is wrong..
I know of a MOG who told me that before he got married, He told God that he wanted 3 children - 2 boys and a girl.. God answer his prayers oo, the man in question is almost 90 years.. Do you expect such a man to use birth control method when he has a God that answer prayer?
I will rather opine that, a man should ask God for counsel, pray and then act accordingly.
Next to God's word, there is no more precious treasure than holy matrimony..
Enjoy your marital life according to God's will

giftiy:
what are you then saying?

shadowgwalker:
well, this person stopped totally with the drugs. America should go and relax with their family planning shit. we will use withdrawal and timetable. if e no work then the child is a new Blessing.

drnoel:
The pills has side effects that condoms don't. It's not everyone that wants to add (x5) weight cos she wants to enjoy sex.

Daninya11:
To be honest with you op, the issue of birth control - use of contraceptives, condom and withdrawal is a major concern in the Christiandom..
The Roman Catholic are at the pivot of the matter but the debate still rages on with the pentecostal and evangelical with divergent view..
Sex is for procreation and intimacy (soul tie). Some scholars point to the fact that because God slayed Onan because he spilled his seed on the ground (withdrawal method) any form of birth control is wrong..
I know of a MOG who told me that before he got married, He told God that he wanted 3 children - 2 boys and a girl.. God answer his prayers oo, the man in question is almost 90 years.. Do you expect such a man to use birth control method when he has a God that answer prayer?
I will rather opine that, a man should ask God for counsel, pray and then act accordingly.
Next to God's word, there is no more precious treasure than holy matrimony..
Enjoy your marital life according to God's will

Mrbigman1:
Good one,
Am not good in bible quotation,
Check 1st john u'd find it.

If u no want pikin, calm down, better still ur wife should know her self and understanding should abound.

If she is fertile, u guys can just chill, e no dey run, na for ever e dey dia.