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Daninya11:
Nice input.. You can be a walking human bible..
One day you will be able to write apologetics to defend the Christiandom..

dantanik:
Islam has permitted the spacing of children
in a marriage, if one wishes to do so. It has
been reported in authentic narrations that
some of the noble companions of the
Messenger of Allah (saws) used to practice
‘coitus-interruptus’, whereby the male organ
is removed from the female organ just
before ejaculation.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.136 Narrated by
Jabir
We used to practice ‘coitus interruptus’
during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger
(saws) while the Qur'an was being Revealed.
Most of the scholars of Islam are of the
opinion, that there is no harm if one wishes
or tries to space the birth of one’s child, or
even uses one of the modern forms of birth
control (condoms, pills, etc.) to space the
ages of their children. But all of them are
absolutely unanimous in their opinion that
any form of permanent birth control is
absolutely forbidden in Islam.
But if one were to stop or limit the number
of their children only because of the fear of
how they will provide for them or feed
them….then such a fear and belief is
absolutely against the guidance of Allah and
His Messenger (saws), and a grave sin in the
Sight of Allah Subhanah.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah
Anaam verse 140:
Most surely they became losers, who, in
their folly and ignorance killed their own
children; and made unlawful what Allah had
provided them as sustenance, falsely
ascribing prohibitions to Allah. Surely, they
went astray and were not at all rightly
guided.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah
Anaam verse 151 (part):
You should not kill your children for fear of
poverty; for We provide sustenance for you
and will provide sustenance for them also.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17
Surah Israa verse 31:
Do not kill your children for fear of want;
for it is We Who provide for them, and for
you as well. Indeed, their killing is a heinous
crime!

sweettease:

chimkaire:
...watch as you raise a community .

jerrymej:
Lol.
But like seriously check it out, when your husband is using condom on you when he's meeting me, hoW do you feel as the wife? Apart from preventing on wanted pregnancy?

chimkaire:
You may have to re-phrase this...I understand nada in what you wrote...

jerrymej:
Lol.
But like seriously check it out, when your husband is using
condom on you when he's meeting you, hoW do you feel as
the wife? And if you talking about birth control I think the perfect way of handling such situation doesn't sweet's by using condoms, rather they should go on family planning.
(that 'll help to preventing them from raising a community as you said).

Unless a man doubts him self to be effective of his wife to be effective that would warrant him to use condoms during sexual intercourse, else it doesn't makes sense to me when either of the partner is not been effected of any kind of disease.

sheftyxz:
please I will what to know the billings method. can you share more light on it please

phiszo:
must you swallow everything your church throws at you? gullible fellow.

ifysimple:
I think your family and generation shall be called gullible people.

Some of you always prefer to insult people when you dont agree with their opinion and thats because you re sick in the head.

Thats my Church s teaching and thats where I stand.If you dont agree with it , then stick to yours.

Daninya11:
To be honest with you op, the issue of birth control - use of contraceptives, condom and withdrawal is a major concern in the Christiandom..
The Roman Catholic are at the pivot of the matter but the debate still rages on with the pentecostal and evangelical with divergent view..
Sex is for procreation and intimacy (soul tie). Some scholars point to the fact that because God slayed Onan because he spilled his seed on the ground (withdrawal method) any form of birth control is wrong..
I know of a MOG who told me that before he got married, He told God that he wanted 3 children - 2 boys and a girl.. God answer his prayers oo, the man in question is almost 90 years.. Do you expect such a man to use birth control method when he has a God that answer prayer?
I will rather opine that, a man should ask God for counsel, pray and then act accordingly.
Next to God's word, there is no more precious treasure than holy matrimony..
Enjoy your marital life according to God's will

ifysimple:
In the Catholic Church, it is a sin to use condom and withdrawal method.

They taught us that in marriage course. Once you re ready to marry and attend marriage course, you shall be taught natural way of family planning which is billings method.