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buygala:
Please where in d marriage vows does a dude promise not to cheat on his wife?

The fact that he has promised her that he will 'love her, in sickness and in health, for better for worse, till death do us part' doesn't mean that he cannot be with someone else too in like manner


No part of the marriage vow binds the man to love only the woman

Prove me wrong

Ontarget:
Mr I didn't say God made a man to cheat. All I am saying is God made the nature of man and however he behaves. If men love cheating then that nature is still part of Gods creation.

Ontarget:
It is in the nature of men to desire multiple women. God has a reason for making it that way. For instance imagine if a terrible war breaks out and a lot of men lost their lives in battles who will care for the surplus women available and restore the population? A lot of men die while doing risky things. I see it as nature of way of taking care of issues like this.

FrancisTony:
I agree that God made the nature of man but he didn't make man to cheat.

Stop nurting the notion that all men are cheat by the calibre of friends you hang out with.

Men and Women alike, decides to cheat willingly and nature never made them so.

TrishaP:
Cheating is a habit. It doesn't matter how interesting, beautiful, kind and loving the spouse may be. When one develop such habit then it's a problem except the person decides to change. To me I don't believe in all men are polygamous.. when someone starts seeing it that way then it'll start being a part of him.
Back to the topic, the problem is from the hubby. Confront him and ask some questions.. I know it might not still change the situation tho.

wristwatch:
Men cheat on ugly and beautiful wives. It takes self discipline to find a man who is totally faithful to his wife.

Men are polygamous in nature and enjoy tasting varieties while women love varieties in a place(a man).

Ontarget:
And where did I say he made man to cheat?

Ontarget:
It is in the nature of men to desire multiple women. God has a reason for making it that way.

Ontarget:
Mr I didn't say God made a man to cheat. All I am saying is God made the nature of man and however he behaves.

FrancisTony:
I agree that God made the nature of man but he didn't make man to cheat.

Stop nurting the notion that all men are cheat by the calibre of friends you hang out with.

Men and Women alike, decides to cheat willingly and nature never made them so.

bastien:
We men cheat for So many reason that we can't even understand why, we just wanna fuckkkkk nkechi, amaka and tolani Lol






Point me any guy wey no be virgin wey never cheat before and I go point u one virgin wit 3kids

missjenna:
The concept of cheating is a bit complex especially if the wife is pretty
Let me explain

First of all, men are naturally attracted to any woman they see that meets their criteria for "beautiful".
The fact that a man is married, doesn't mean that he won't find other women attractive. Now this is where the concept of self control comes in.

Every human being is born with the natural desire to want to explore. The innate desire to burrow into variety, either to differentiate, to understand, or just to satisfy cravings.

Whenever a man sees a woman who is attractive, that innate desire, fueled by lust, tends to emanate from within with a force so strong that it can only be withstood by love and self control.

Sex plays a crucial role in this also. Unlike women who their libido and general drive for sex reduce probably after child birth. The sex drive of men tend to stay at a high level.
Most women don't put that much effort into sex as before which could make their husband seek for a more sexually lively partner.
Most times prolly due to religious belief, most women don't take time to improve upon those little things that tend to build up a sexually active marriage.

But I believe the most significant reason why men cheat is the lack of total love and respect for the wife.
If a man respects the wife, the thought of cheating on her will be completely far from his thoughts. He wouldn't want to diminish her dignity in any way by going into bed with another woman.

Thanks

omegdeluxe:


The most annoying reason i have heard is 'Its in their nature'

5minsmadness:
Well said miss.

wristwatch:
Men cheat on ugly and beautiful wives. It takes self discipline to find a man who is totally faithful to his wife.

Men are polygamous in nature and enjoy tasting varieties while women love varieties in a place(a man).

irunoko:
Please stop painting men in a bad light. Speak for yourself and the men around you who lack self control please

irunoko:
Please speak for yourself and quit unfounded generalizations

jmoore:

A man cheats on his beautiful wife because he doesn't understand the meaning of marriage vows.
A man cheats on his beautiful wife because he lacks selfcontrol.
A man cheats on his beautiful wife because he thinks with his di**.
A man cheats on his beautiful wife because he is filled with insatiable lustful and selfish desires.
A man cheats on his beautiful wife because when he was a bachelor, he was busy sampling many women and carried the foolish behaviour into marriage.


"Ugly" or beautiful wife, a man who has a wandering di** will always cheat.

#TeamChastity.

jmoore:
I gave my reasons last year.

mirexxx:
Most men seem to think that if they can
find a woman who is attractive enough,
they will never stray. Well,why do
they do it, when they seem to have
everything at home?

its so sad

Emaprince:
can you tell us why women cheat on their rich and handsome husbands?

mirexxx:
Most men seem to think that if they can
find a woman who is attractive enough,
they will never stray. Well,why do
they do it, when they seem to have
everything at home?

its so sad

buygala:
1- No matter how sweet a particular Jollof rice is, it's just natural that one would get tired of it after consuming it too much or for a lenghty period. ... At this stage of saturation, one will happily trade the remainder of that sweet Jollof Rice for a less delicious, but newer meal ... Marriage doesn't make one blind to ostensibly better options


2- No matter how beautiful a woman is, there is always another woman who is way cuter than her... why stubbornly stick with your Camry when you have access to a Lamborgini .... Promises are after all, meant to be broken

3- Bodily Beauty isn't everything.... An ugly woman with a beautiful heart or the right attitude will in the long run, overshadow a woman with just bodily beauty and a gutter attitude...

All the peeps gushing here sanctimoniously about faithfulness, commitment, the Ten Commandments and shit are on their own... humans cheat when they are dating as well as when they are married...na so life be
This is also applicable to woman isn't it? Useless men and their useless ways of life, I pity your wife ooo

Ewuro4:
Everything ?? Don't be fooled my dear, Perception of Beauty is Subjective.

To some it's Submissiveness, looks , adventure buddy and to some it's Mind blowing sex. Once these attributes aren't fulfilled/met, knowing fully how narrow minded most men are, he will definately cheat (seek elsewhere). Then we read stories that touch.

That's why people should date and chose wisely before choosing 'the one'. There are many wolves out there in sheep's clothing. CHOOSE WISELY.

buygala:
[s]1- No matter how sweet a particular Jollof rice is, it's just natural that one would get tired of it after consuming it too much or for a lenghty period. ... At this stage of saturation, one will happily trade the remainder of that sweet Jollof Rice for a less delicious, but newer meal ... Marriage doesn't make one blind to ostensibly better options [/b]


2- [s]No matter how beautiful a woman is, there is always another woman who is way cuter than her... why stubbornly stick with your Camry when you have access to a Lamborgini .... Promises are after all, meant to be broken [/s]


3- Bodily Beauty isn't everything.... An ugly woman with a beautiful heart or the right attitude will in the long run, overshadow a woman with just bodily beauty and a gutter attitude...



[s] All the peeps gushing here sanctimoniously about faithfulness, commitment, the Ten Commandments and shit are on their own... humans cheat when they are dating as well as when they are married...na so life be [/s]

mirexxx:
know the kinda words 2 use pls
i am not fooled!

Ewuro4:
Huh?
Sorry my dear, I only said that in light of the statement you made ('Everything') .
I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
****
The same reason a reputable attorney chose & married a stark illiterate over his polished law firm colleagues.

bastien:
ok

missjenna:
The concept of cheating is a bit complex especially if the wife is pretty
Let me explain

First of all, men are naturally attracted to any woman they see that meets their criteria for "beautiful".
The fact that a man is married, doesn't mean that he won't find other women attractive. Now this is where the concept of self control comes in.

Every human being is born with the natural desire to want to explore. The innate desire to burrow into variety, either to differentiate, to understand, or just to satisfy cravings.

Whenever a man sees a woman who is attractive, that innate desire, fueled by lust, tends to emanate from within with a force so strong that it can only be withstood by love and self control.

Sex plays a crucial role in this also. Unlike women who their libido and general drive for sex reduces probably after child birth. The sex drive of men tend to stay at a high level.
Most women don't put that much effort into sex as before which could make their husband seek for a more sexually lively partner.
Most times prolly due to religious belief, most women don't take time to improve upon those little things that tend to build up a sexually active marriage.

But I believe the most significant reason why men cheat is the lack of total love and respect for the wife.
If a man respects the wife, the thought of cheating on her will be completely far from his thoughts. He wouldn't want to diminish her dignity in any way by going into bed with another woman.

Thanks