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Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by 5minsmadness: 8:19pm On Mar 20, 2015
feeling sleepy. goodnight.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 8:20pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
I have quoted here before and don't have the time to find it now.you ate no one to speak on abuse when you are a culprit.
you must be hallucinating or the curses from your village have finally caught you.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
Rotten puccy, cursed skank! You still have the guts to spew your poison after your fake lifestyle was recently exposed. You have totally lost the capacity to feel shame! You are on a rollercoaster ride of lies and deception still thinking in your delusion that reasonable people believed you. grin grin grin. You and zubby goes on vacation? grin grin grin. Kai truth don suffer for your hand rotten puccy! Tell that crap to the marines. That your wussy of a cursed husband is not worthy to untie the shoes on my feet. When you marry a MAN then we can talk! As for the hell on earth you call marriage that is not the end of your curse until you run amok in the market place, a stark raving mad woman. I warn men and women about scammers like yourself who specialize in duping other people of the peace in their relationships with bogus lies and fabricated falsehoods. Your pain no go end as long as you keep deceiving people, I will keep exposing you! grin grin grin. Do us all a favor gather your life savings, buy a rope, locate a tree and do the needful. Stop being a perpetual curseto your generation.
Shebi this one is a woman too
Rofl
You do have it bad don't you
And freecocoa is talking about women and verbal abuse
It is a known fact that underachieving men usually have low self esteem are very short fused.
Hahahahaha
Punching your woman won't help you nna a
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 8:24pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
you must be hallucinating or the curses from your village have finally caught you.
Classic answer to a confirmed fraudster grin grin grin
The cursed OP will never make the mistake of sticking with the truth ever. Wicked and malicious deception is her hallmark.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 8:26pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Shebi this one is a woman too
Rofl
You do have it bad don't you
And fteecocoa is talking about women and verbal abuse
It is a known fact that underachieving end are very short fused.
Hahahahaha
Punching your woman won't help your case.
don't complain he paid you back in your own coin. no gender has the verbal abuse monopoly. you women start the initial jabs & when a man retaliates, you start looking for help. if you cannot take it, don't dish it out.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:27pm On Mar 20, 2015
Didn't I state earlier that batterers are often very verbally abusive
Have we not confirmed it here?
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by damiso(f): 8:29pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
So the women that reported that in an anonymous survey were lying?
You can argue that perhaps the demographics surveyed had something to do with it.
It says 1 in 5 in the USA,1 in 4 worldwide
Those are equally scary
I believe it
I never said they were lying.I just think sometimes surveys and researches are open ended and it depends sometimes on how the questions are worded.I still filled out a staff survey at work today and the yes,no,can't say answers can't really be a full picture of my thoughts on all issues that were touched on.


And like you say it depends on the demographic of people surveyed. if you survey 1,000 runs or aristo girls or people who don't think runs is a bad thing the evidence presented at at the end would most likely show that all women are materialistic.

Ok let me break down the why i find it difficult to believe that 2/3rd stat in the wider context or African society.It means 4 out of every 6 African women that you and I know are in a abusive relationship.Or in your circle of African female friends 2 out of every 3 are in an abusive relationship.

I know abuse sometimes is hidden and most times the abused covers it up but I sure as heck don't think 2 out of every 3 of my African female friends(note I am not even saying Nigerian) are in or will condone an abusive relationship.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:29pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
don't complain he paid you back in your own coin. no gender has the verbal abuse monopoly. you women start the initial jabs & when a man retaliates, you start looking for help. if you cannot take it, don't dish it out.
Its amazing you will tell blatant lies about your own actions.it is embarrassing isn't it?
Of course you didn't see the eediot addressed me first
How could you
Birds of the same plummage
Glad you now disocciate from that shameful act
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 8:30pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Didn't I state earlier that batterers are often very verbally abusive
Have we not confirmed it here?
babyosisi, look in the mirror....
you are the most verbally abusive woman on this forum - that is if we ignore the fact that you are also a flaming tribalist.

should we assume that you batter your husband too? grin

babyosisi:
Its amazing you will tell blatant lies about your own actions.it is embarrassing isn't it?
Of course you didn't see the eediot addressed me first
How could you
Birds of the same plummage
babyosisi, go to bed.....
you are starting to skip like a broken CD. you cannot continue to throw insults at people and then expect bed of roses.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 8:35pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
babyosisi, look in the mirror....
you are the most verbally abusive woman on this forum - that is if we ignore the fact that you are also a flaming tribalist.
should we assume that you batter your husband too? grin
Thank you very much for stating the obvious! I guess, the curse from her village is in full swing. A supposed married woman,no finesse, no carriage, no intelligence, nothing to offer just a confounded idiot with absolutely no sense of shame spewing falsehood that will make her parents weep in shame and agony for bringing an embarrassment into this world.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:35pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
babyosisi, look in the mirror....
you are the most verbally abusive woman on this forum - that is if we ignore the fact that you are also a flaming tribalist.

should we assume that you batter your husband too? grin



babyosisi, go to bed.....
you are starting to skip like a broken CD. you cannot continue to throw insults at people and then expect bed of roses.
Go to bed at 2?
It is quite obvious between the two of us who is the violent one.
I am shocked you haven't started talking about private parts.
See the company you keep here
A well known lunatic is agreeing with you and the topic is domestic violence.
Splendid
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 8:38pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Go to bed at 2?
It is quite obvious between the two of us who is the violent one.
I am shocked you haven't started talking about private parts.
See the company you keep here
A well known lunatic is agreeing with you.
Splendid
You are the worst lunatic in naira land. Idiocy sits well with you. Carry the rotten graveyard between your legs away from here.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 8:39pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Go to bed at 2?
It is quite obvious between the two of us who is the violent one.
I am shocked you haven't started talking about private parts.
you need the siesta.....
faced with the facts that 70% of the time, women are the culprits of non-reciprocal violence, you have started spewing baloney that has nothing to do with the numerous lies you have posted earlier.

madam, call it a day already.
you have been found out & shown up as a bumbling oaf. i would advise you to do your research properly next time before spreading falsehood on a public forum.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:41pm On Mar 20, 2015
cheesy cheesy grin grin cheesy
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:41pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
Thank you very much for stating the obvious! I guess, the curse from her village is in full swing. A supposed married woman,no finesse, no carriage, no intelligence, nothing to offer just a confounded idiot with absolutely no sense of shame spewing falsehood that will make her parents weep in shame and agony for bringing an embarrassment into this world.
Not even my enemy should end up with someone like you, couldn't even hire you to care for my dog.The saddest aspect is that this man is Igbo.I have never known igbo men to be this effeminate and with non existent self esteem..you are opposite of everything a man should be and I will continue to warn females of psychotic killer individuals like you.
I know that is your beef
Every description of a sick man is a description of you and you can't face it
Deal with it


Who did this to you?
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:48pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Not even my enemy should end up with someone like you.the saddest aspect is that this man is Igbo.I have never known igbo men to be this effeminate.you are opposite of everything a man should be and I will continue to warn females of psychotic individuals like you.
I know that is your beef
Every discription of a sick man is a description of you and you can't face it
Deal with it


Who did this to you?
Lmao.... @ igbo man....

A don die...
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 8:49pm On Mar 20, 2015
If there's was ever the professional teachers of snidery, it is NL dudes.

I didn't even know what that was until I got on this forum.

Dede leave talk.
Verbal abuse is rife among males.

I don't expect you to agree sha.

Why they attack a particular set of females? Is the same reason why the babes attack a particular set of males. It is not rocket science

Nobody can claim innocent in this matter. Especially not you.

I'm sorry I didn't come on NL to learn or imitate anyone coogs.
You don't see shyte flying and pretend you're ok with it so why expect someone like me to do same?

Why not learn from bellong, thorpido, lewstherin, Nashville etc etc? Do you see any of the particularly being attacked?
Abi you don pass to learn?

It goes both ways.
.
coogar:
you really think they would stand back and watch when you throw your snide remarks or when you curse them subliminally?



this is not true - they only call you out after you must have thrown a snide remark.



and yet you wonder why these guys only attack a particular sėt of women on this thread and not the others. show me when these unruly men with potty mouth have ever attacked chaircover, greatgod, damiso, etc. if you cannot provide any evidence then i should advise you to watch the company you keep or learn to behave yourself.



so why do women think verbal abuse is a natural feature of theirs & they can use it as they wish on their men?
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 8:51pm On Mar 20, 2015
Seriously, does every thread has to come to this? And you people are supposed to be adults? Na wa o.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 8:51pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Not even my enemy should end up with someone like you.the saddest aspect is that this man is Igbo.I have never known igbo men to be this effeminate.you are opposite of everything a man should be and I will continue to warn females of psychotic individuals like you.
I know that is your beef
Every disruption of a sick man is a description of you
Deal with it
Who did this to you?
You have no shame otherwise you would have hung your head and get out from here as fast as the rotten graveyard between your legs will allow you. You ceased to exist the moment you started peddling falsehood and malicious lie on naira land. I am on a self appointed crusade to rid nairaland of wicked vermin like you. Evil women who represent nothing but falsehood and deception, who will not suffer the self inflicted curses in their lives silently but insists on dragging everyone down with them. You are eternally cursed with the diarrhea of the mouth and the debilitating lunacy that has become your hallmark everywhere you go.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by edwife(f): 8:53pm On Mar 20, 2015
freecocoa:
Seriously, does every thread has to come to this? And you people are supposed to be adults? Na wa o.
That's why it is just best to watch and keep a distance.

Same old same old....
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 20, 2015
cococandy:
If there's was ever the professional teachers of snidery, it is NL dude.

I didn't even know what that was until I got on this forum.

Dede leave talk.
Verbal abuse is rife among males.

I don't expect you to agree sha.
Like in the case of freshdude right... undecided
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 8:55pm On Mar 20, 2015
freecocoa:
Seriously, does every thread has to come to this? And you people are supposed to be adults? Na wa o.
Na you cause this wahala tongue

The men on this forum disprove any theory that women have a more acidic tongue. All noise and no sense, NL remains the same.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 8:55pm On Mar 20, 2015
cococandy:
If there's was ever the professional teachers of snidery, it is NL dude.

I didn't even know what that was until I got on this forum.

Dede leave talk.
Verbal abuse is rife among males.

I don't expect you to agree sha.

Why they attack a particular set of females? Is the same reason why the babes attack a particular set of males. It is not rocket science

Nobody can claim innocent in this matter. Especially not you.
i am very innocent.
i dare anyone to say i deliberately picked on her without any sort of provocation. the women who get verbally-lashed on this section were asking for it.

it's as simple as that!

I'm sorry I didn't come on NL to learn or imitate anyone coogs.
You don't see shyte flying and pretend you're ok with it so why expect someone like me to do same?
the difference between you & me is that i give it back to those that attacked me first. as for you, you kowtow the coven witches(thank God most of them are now extinct) to throw snide remarks.

Why not learn from bellong, thorpido, lewstherin, Nashville etc etc? Do you see any of the particularly being attacked?
Abi you don pass to learn?
learn what from who?
you are the one crying that you get abused a lot by the men here. you can never see me complaining about whatever reception i get on here. cold or hot - i am suited to both.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:00pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
You have no shame otherwise you would have hung your head and get out from here as fast as the rotten graveyard between your legs will allow you. You ceased to exist the moment you started peddling falsehood and malicious lie on naira land. I am on a self appointed crusade to rid nairaland of wicked vermin like you. Evil women who represent nothing but falsehood and deception, who will not suffer the self inflicted curses in their lives silently but insists on dragging everyone down with them. You are eternally cursed with the diarrhea of the mouth and the debilitating lunacy that has become your hallmark everywhere you go.
On a mission on nairaland and you are proud to say so?
Pathetic
How old is this eediot?
I should be ashamed and the person telling me that is a flaming she male on naira land?
Kai
I don suffer no be small
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:00pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
i am very innocent.
i dare anyone to say i deliberately picked on her without any sort of provocation. the women who get verbally-lashed on this section were asking for it.

it's as simple as that!
Innocent shocked

I don hear an finish today.
Coogar you're a chief aggressor.

Before your opponent will even finish his or her sentence, you've insulted their village and academic achievement.

So Mr bend down and learn from the gentlemen on this forum
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Shollypopzz:
Na you cause this wahala tongue

The men on this forum disprove any theory that women have a more acidic tongue. All noise and no sense, NL remains the same.
It's really shameful o, even those days in the romance section wasn't this immature.

I no cause nothing o.cheesy
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Who is this dinachi person, and why the attack on babyosisi? All these hungry males acting like coked up rabid spider-monkeys......jumping around, throwing sh1t, and screeching all over the place.

Can't you have an argument without the unnecessary insults?
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Ewuro4: 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
freecocoa:
Seriously, does every thread has to come to this? And you people are supposed to be adults? Na wa o.
Thank goodness it's not me this time grin grin but hey, makes a good read. The statistics is just too bogus to take in. But hey, like someone earlier said , everyone is right on NL grin

By the way, I saw your your post about available land ikorodu .... Nah I jump pass grin
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
njokusboy:
Like in the case of freshdude right... undecided
I'm sorry do I know you? huh
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 9:03pm On Mar 20, 2015
edwife:
That's why it is just best to watch and keep a distance.

Same old same old....
I'm telling you my sister, it would even be better if they find new angles to come from.

This pattern is very old and tired.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:03pm On Mar 20, 2015
Coogar did you notice it was a male dinachi that started the insulting this time around?

Will you still say women are more verbally abusive?

Abeg both males and females are culprits. EOD
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 9:03pm On Mar 20, 2015
cococandy:
Innocent shocked
I don hear an finish today.
Coogar you're a chief aggressor.

Before your opponent will even finish his or her sentence, you've insulted their village and academic achievement.

So Mr bend down and learn from the gentlemen on this forum
thank feck you said before my opponent...... - which simply means i am a reactive aggressor. i always respect the rules of engagement. i don't pull the trigger before i am attacked.

cococandy:
Coogar did you notice it was a male dinachi that started the insulting this time around?
Will you still say women are more verbally abusive?
Abeg both males and females are culprits. EOD
don't pretend like there's no history between the two. think about it yourself - is it logical for dinachi to just attack a poster he has never had anything to do with?
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