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Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:09pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
if a woman runs her mouth to the point of provoking her hubby to hit her, she deserves the beating. you cannot continue to hide under sėx equality and then turn round to tell us women don't deserve to be hit. what do men do when provoked by fellow men? do they not fight each other? why then should it be different from their reaction if the primary aggressor is female?
And for a man like you that runs your mouth like ukpaka,your definition of a woman running her mouth will be one whose mouth outruns yours
Hahahahaha
Oh boy
When she outtalks you,you strike abi
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:10pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
When they mention fraudster and scammer you start panting like mama nkechi on top oga driver. grin grin grin. Carry the rotten graveyard between your legs away from here. You are no longer relevant except to magas like shollypoppzz and a few other zombie asswipes in nairaland.
Stay mad! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 10:10pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
From the above study half of nigerian men hit their wives in front of their children and end up with the dinachis and coogars of this world
Hmm
Take note
Women
If he hits you,your children are likely yo hit and to tolerate hitting
Get out while you can
this is the kind of comment i would expect from a half-nakëd stark illiterate onion seller in nigerian villages.

you can take the pig out of the swamp, you cannot take the swamp out of it. if you have stayed abroad for so long and you still display the attitude of a slowpoke then western education didn't achieve much in nigeria.


babyosisi:
And for a man like you that runs your mouth like ukpaka,your definition of a woman running her mouth will be one whose mouth outruns yours
Hahahahaha
Oh boy
When she outtalks you,you strike abi
i wonder what this logic of yours says about a sadistic tribalist like yourself. you want to be treated like a woman while you spray saliva everywhere like an epileptic patient? you must be in la la land.

respect isn't given on a platter of gold.
you have not earned the respect you demand from the men on here. when you start carrying yourself like a virtuous woman and you act your age, then you will cop the respect.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 10:11pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Odiegwu
Obsession is not love

Btw,start a thread on verbal abuse if you really want to hear my opinion on that
I didn't want to lose focus on the societal ill of spousal abuse which is the focus of this thread
Okay.

I will do that one of these days.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:12pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
this is the kind of comment i would expect from a half-nakëd stark illiterate onion seller in nigerian villages.

you can take the pig out of the swamp, you cannot take the swamp out of it. if you have stayed abroad for so long and you still display the attitude of a slowpoke then western education didn't achieve much in nigeria.
If I was close enough and slapped you across your kpomo lips and carry ya face join for this stupid comment I would be justified abi?
Now you see how pediatric your reasoning is
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by bukatyne(f): 10:12pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
Celebrating physical abuse on nairaland. You just confirmed who you really are: Maga!
Now you are a complete joke!

You say verbal abuse deserves physical abuse.

You 'verbally' abuse her and she goes physical on you and suddenly she is celebrating physical abusehuh

You know What celebrate means?

You deserve that whooping (Following your theory)
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Chillis: 10:12pm On Mar 20, 2015
babygirlfl:
We see them everyday in nairaland.
Namely ...

Coogar
Dinach( this one need mental assessment )
Crackhaus
Pickabeau
Who again...
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:13pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
Celebrating physical abuse on nairaland. You just confirmed who you really are: Maga!
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Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 10:13pm On Mar 20, 2015
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 20, 2015
Chillis:
Namely ...

Coogar
Dinach( this one need mental assessment )
Crackhaus
Pickabeau
Who again...
Hahahahahahaha
And they are the same ones pointing fingers
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 10:14pm On Mar 20, 2015
bukatyne:
I read Some threads and step back.
That place is a no go area.
I dey thread carefully for that side. cheesy

The guys over there put 'sult' in the word 'insult'
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:15pm On Mar 20, 2015
Flytefalls:
grin grin

Total war declared in here, I ain't even trying to join in grin
LMAO! The spider-monkeys are hella pressed.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 10:16pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
If I was close and slapped you across your kpomo lips and carry ya face join for this stupid comment I would be justified abi?
not after you had confessed your parents had several boxing bouts in your presence. i went to school, i can read personal insults even when hidden cleverly like you did.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 10:16pm On Mar 20, 2015
bukatyne:
Now you are a complete joke!
You say verbal abuse deserves physical abuse.
You 'verbally' abuse her and she goes physical on you and suddenly she is celebrating physical abusehuh
You know What celebrate means?
You deserve that whooping (Following your theory)
bukatyne:
Now you are a complete joke!
You say verbal abuse deserves physical abuse.
You 'verbally' abuse her and she goes physical on you and suddenly she is celebrating physical abusehuh
You know What celebrate means?
You deserve that whooping (Following your theory)
Oh my God your brain is totally useless.I will advice you donate it for research on mumusification of some naira land females.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Mar 20, 2015
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:18pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
not after you had confessed your parents had several boxing bouts in your presence. i went to school, i can read personal insults even when hidden cleverly like you did.
I say it proudly
Thank GOD I had parents that modeled good behavior
Still married till date
Dad never laid a finger on mom
Not for one day
Our home was where people came to settle their marital issues

Many abusers had abusive parents sadly
You can change the dynamics if you want to by first acknowledging you need help and that you want to change
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by bukatyne(f): 10:19pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
Oh my God your brain is totally useless.I will advice you donate it for research on mumusification of some naira land females.
You are really dumb and daft together.

I just helped you interprete your posts and you are hyperventilating.

See who is talking of useless brains undecided
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 10:19pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
I say it proudly
Thank GOD I had parents that modeled good behavior
Still married till date
Many abusers had abusive parents sadly
You can change the dynamics if you want to by first acknowledging you need help
so where did you learn to be a tribalist if your parents modelled good behaviour? cheesy grin
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 10:20pm On Mar 20, 2015
Chillis:
Namely ...
Coogar
Dinach( this one need mental assessment )
Crackhaus
Pickabeau
Who again...
Rotten corpse, when are they burying you? Hard to believe you are able to lift up the layers of dirt and lies covering your eyes to see enough to type this. With you I am now suspecting that madness is transferable.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:22pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
so where did you learn to be a tribalist if your parents modelled good behaviour? cheesy grin
When I wouldn't let eediots like you speak ill of my people and get away with it
I learned to pay you back in your rotten coins with bigger more calculated blows
I don't start ish but I finish well when I am in a good mood
If that is tribalism so be it

Stick to the topic please
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Chillis: 10:23pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
Rotten corpse, when are they burying you? Hard to believe you are able to lift up the layers of dirt and lies covering your eyes to see enough to type this. With you I am now suspecting that madness is transferable.
Where did you steal this line from .
Mad fa.Ggot.

Have you seen the guy that molested you in the seminary?
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 20, 2015
Chillis:
Where did you steal this line from .
Mad fa.Ggot.

Have you seen the guy that molested you in the seminary?
Ha
They will soon lock my thread
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 10:24pm On Mar 20, 2015
bukatyne:
You are really dumb and daft together.
I just helped you interprete your posts and you are hyperventilating.
See who is talking of useless brains undecided
Now it becomes clearer. You represent that confounding idiocy found in the sheepish magas who ape the naira land accredited scammer babyosisi.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 20, 2015
TGIF

Rofl
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:25pm On Mar 20, 2015
dinachi:
Now it becomes clearer. You represent that confounding idiocy found in the sheepish magas who ape the naira land accredited scammer babyosisi.
How many females will you fight on one thread
Nwanyi ibe m
Have you no shame
Tufiakwa
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Talon05: 10:25pm On Mar 20, 2015
Ewuro4:
Honestly dear, besides walking away I don't know another method of de-escalating an aggressive situation like what you just described up there.

Reterliation in anger considering the fact that men are stronger ; may lead to worse physical damage or even death. undecided you don't want that do you?
Yea, I do not want that. I am against every form of abuse but I think you missed the part I wrote "the woman locks his shirt". In such a case, how do you think the man will get rid of the woman's grip on his shirt?
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Chillis: 10:26pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
Ha
They will soon lock my thread
The thread don die since na. Make we kuku lock am. cheesy

When Nigeria won't build rehab center for slowpoke dinachi.
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 10:26pm On Mar 20, 2015
babyosisi:
When I wouldn't let eediots like you speak ill of my people and get away with it

Stick to the topic please
you are a complete idïot....

people like me speak ill of your people? who are your people that aren't my people? trouble follows you everywhere. if you are not cursing yoruba people on politics section, you are being a religious bigot on the muslim threads.

i doubt you even had parents at all. if i have a family member that turned out to be you at your grandmother age, i would take her to court to disown her. you are everything that is wrong with the world today.

how can a woman be a religious bigot, misandrist, tribalist, etc all rolled in one and then claim she modelled her parents good behaviour. anyone that has seen your comments on this forum would not want to meet your parents.

you need help.....
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:26pm On Mar 20, 2015
Talon05:
Yea, I do not want that. I am against every form of abuse but I think you missed the part I wrote "the woman locks his shirt". In such a case, how do you think the man will get rid of the woman's grip on his shirt?
Is locking a shirt the primary reason women get hit?
Let's address that first
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:27pm On Mar 20, 2015
coogar:
you are a complete idïot....

people like me speak ill of your people? who are your people that aren't my people? trouble follows you everywhere. if you are not cursing yoruba people on politics section, you are being a religious bigot on the muslim threads.

i doubt you even had parents at all. if i have a family member that turned out to be you at your grandmother age, i would take her to court to disown her. you are everything that is wrong with the world today.

how can a woman be a religious bigot, misandrist, tribalist, etc all rolled in one and then claim she modelled her parents good behaviour. anyone that has seen your comments on this forum would not want to meet your parents.

you need help.....
My fellow woman
Carry on
Are you done?
How about the private parts when will that part come up
Oya
Hahahahahahaha
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 10:27pm On Mar 20, 2015
I remember It was the thread about the man that killed his wife.

As usual the case enter voicemail. I was just watching you insulting people's fathers.
It Is well. I'm not going to look for the thread.

You do realize that if I posted that comment of yours. It is the same as what happened in that mutter's post. Just using your own post to prove that you're speaking from both sides of your mouth. How's that an insult?
If I claim that I've never insulted anyone here before and someone brings my old post to prove me wrong, would I consider that an insult?
Nope.

Just know that you're equally guilty of verbal abuse without provocation.
If you admit that one, the matter don end be that.
But I know you won't so.... Moving on.

Let's agree to disagree on the issue of verbal abuse deserving physical retaliation.
We will never see eye to eye on that issue.


Just so you know, even if a fellow man insults you, he doesn't deserve to be hit.
That's why if it goes to court, that guy will go free and you will be penalized.
Same as if I hit another woman first because she insulted me.

So what does it have to do with equality? Nothing.

coogar:
go & dig it out for clarity sake....
you have your chance to prove me wrong tonight - take the chance! grin



no, it wasn't an insult.
the post was actually praising her. grin your hypocrisy would sink the titanic.



there's a reaction to every action....
if the males only resort to verbal abuse in retaliation then why would you expect me to blame them? you have to agree a lot of the women on here mistake kindness for weakness.



verbal abuse doesn't justify physical? cheesy



they are all classified under domestic violence.



such men are in the minority!
we have facts they say women start the problem in 70% of such cases.



if a woman runs her mouth to the point of provoking her hubby to hit her, she deserves the beating. you cannot continue to hide under sėx equality and then turn round to tell us women don't deserve to be hit. what do men do when provoked by fellow men? do they not fight each other? why then should it be different from their reaction if the primary aggressor is female?
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 10:30pm On Mar 20, 2015
SheMales like coogar wouldn't dare hit a fellow man
They won't go on such a suicidal mission
They know where to back off
Na only for woman body loud mouthed SheMales like him and dinachi get strength
They are not hard to figure out
That is a proof of their manhood
Sheediots
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