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ammyluv2002:
Comments pls




Cc Sanchez01

I think it's hurtful when guys place emphasis on the physical than what is on the inside.

Guys who exhibit this act have the tendency to exhibit shallow-mindedness when the person they 'love' changes physically. For me, the physique is only a PLUS and never a necessity. For instance, what becomes of a guy who marries and loves a girl because she's spotless, only to see that the lady has chicken pox few months into the marriage and in turn the pox leaves her with spots all over. Would he still love her?

How about the case of a guy who loves a lady because she has the figure of a model only to see the same lady add weight after the pregnancy of their first child? Would he 'cope' all through the 9months or dissolve the marriage. ?

For thoughtful guys, it is never about what you possess on the outside because we understand that it is fleeting; the body cannot maintain its shape for ever. I didn't say the shape is bad though, just that it shouldn't be the reason for loving someone.

A man who says he no longer finds the wife attractive will obviously not grow old with such woman. He'll look elsewhere when time tells on the woman.

It should be about what she possess on the inside; the brains, the character, her patience etc, this defines a lady. The size of lady does not determine how attractive she looks. Again, the size, shape, etc are only a plus, nothing more.

Sanchez01:

I think it's hurtful when guys place emphasis on the physical than what is on the inside.

Guys who exhibit this act have the tendency to exhibit shallow-mindedness when the person they 'love' changes physically. For me, the physique is only a PLUS and never a necessity. For instance, what becomes of a guy who marries and loves a girl because she's spotless, only to see that the lady has chicken pox few months into the marriage and in turn the pox leaves her with spots all over. Would he still love her?

How about the case of a guy who loves a lady because she has the figure of a model only to see the same lady add weight after the pregnancy of their first child? Would he 'cope' all through the 9months or dissolve the marriage. ?

For thoughtful guys, it is never about what you possess on the outside because we understand that it is fleeting; the body cannot maintain its shape for ever. I didn't say the shape is bad though, just that it shouldn't be the reason for loving someone.

A man who says he no longer finds the wife attractive will obviously not grow old with such woman. He'll look elsewhere when time tells on the woman.

It should be about what she possess on the inside; the brains, the character, her patience etc, this defines a lady. The size of lady does not determine how attractive she looks. Again, the size, shape, etc are only a plus, nothing more.

debolly:
Let the guys do the talking.

NaijaOptimist:
the third girl can later becomes first, and the first can become the third.

Love goes beyond stature.

Sanchez01:

I think it's hurtful when guys place emphasis on the physical than what is on the inside.

Guys who exhibit this act have the tendency to exhibit shallow-mindedness when the person they 'love' changes physically. For me, the physique is only a PLUS and never a necessity. For instance, what becomes of a guy who marries and loves a girl because she's spotless, only to see that the lady has chicken pox few months into the marriage and in turn the pox leaves her with spots all over. Would he still love her?

How about the case of a guy who loves a lady because she has the figure of a model only to see the same lady add weight after the pregnancy of their first child? Would he 'cope' all through the 9months or dissolve the marriage. ?

For thoughtful guys, it is never about what you possess on the outside because we understand that it is fleeting; the body cannot maintain its shape for ever. I didn't say the shape is bad though, just that it shouldn't be the reason for loving someone.

A man who says he no longer finds the wife attractive will obviously not grow old with such woman. He'll look elsewhere when time tells on the woman.

It should be about what she possess on the inside; the brains, the character, her patience etc, this defines a lady. The size of lady does not determine how attractive she looks. Again, the size, shape, etc are only a plus, nothing more.

desertboom:
I like the middle girl.

No matter what, guys will always find sexy
Girls attractive

What you see will attract you first before getting to know the person.

masqot:
Sanchez, except you don't want to be realistic, there are characteristics you'll love and you would flinch each and every time you come across it. Though I agree with you that love is not solely dependent on the outlook, men are moved by what they see. Lest we forget, slim ladies get out of shape as well.