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Chillisauce:
Wow, FrancisTony and blackleopard. Who are you guys

Yall sure you are Nigerians

I dontbelieve.

Pls stop engaging these cherehwhereh messed up dudes we have here . They will so bring you down to their levels.

Most of them don't even have any partners to start with. The keep fighting gender wars Year in year out.

Just pass across your points and ignore the frustrated jobless rats here.

time engaging them, you might use for something more beneficial.



Dem no dey tire. I pity the miserable women in their life's.

TWah
No time .

cococandy:
Gosh I'm just seeing this post.
So 'real' men whose wives work 8-5 don't find them attractive?
That would make millions of men out there who aren't finding their wives seductive anymore.

Jeeeeeeeez! Bro. No offense. Are you high? no offense pls I beg.

Where do you live That the men are all so rich their wives can afford to work 8am - 12 noon everyday?

You think a woman having a career or a job she does to support her family or does simply because she loves it is about power hunger?

I shake my head for you bro.

Make sure you don't educate your daughters so that none of them will make the mistake of trying to be a doctor or nurse or lawyer that would require her working even more than 8-5.
You know so they won't pay for such 'foolishness' in future.

#i thought I'd read it all

Timbuktou:
All the "Family Section men" are not responsible for your unfortunate childhood and upbringing. Perhaps, you were rejected by both parents, perhaps, you lost them to death; fact is you lack/lacked the benefit of a male influence growing up. The "Family Section Men" is not to blame for that. You can't come and tell us what your grandma taught you about men, when we had brothers, uncles, fathers and grandfathers in our lives.

Watch and learn boy.

TV01:
Morning T, perhaps we should offer to mentor FrancisTony - he's a real danger - mostly to himself - if left unschooled in the arts of manliness. Maybe informally? Coogar, Crackhaus, Pickabeau1, Njokusboy, Kabonic etc. perhaps the occassional pointer when he's fumbling !

@FrancisTony; never whine. It demonstrably unmanly. You ran to the mods. Thats so "entitlement princessy" or plainly speaking a beesh move . If you can't take the heat or haven't the appetite for the fight, simply bounce (Shollypopz does that so well ). Pick your battles - count the cost as the bible would say. All you've done is introduce rancour into the thread - Todays lesson.


TV

FrancisTony:
^^
I'm too big for an online fight.

No thanks; only cowards fight online.

Shollypopzz:
Are there any feminists that aren't self proclaimed feminists?? Explain yaself

Shollypopzz:
1.) Bullsh1t! Except you are trolling and you are taking equality to an insane level where it has to be tit for tat with an obsession for recording who gives and takes. I consider my relationship to be egalitarian.

Shollypopzz:
2.) Link!

Shollypopzz:
You always talk with both sides of your mouth. *Let me pretend I have no issues with the Alpha and Beta bullshit in a civilized society and bite*

If a man is supposedly superior to a woman based on her gender alone; then why can't an Alpha male deal with an Alpha female, Is he scared? You are making Alphas look like men with really fragile egos who can't take a lil competition from an "inferior" gender.

Timbuktuo:
Well, TV, I don't know if FrancisTony will be receptive to mentorship at this stage in his life. He's probably friendzoned on so many levels. People like him need that life-altering experience to begin to see life for what it is. Then will he be able to appreciate the wisdom we distil so generously in this section.

lezz:
And here it comes. i know this thread is going to lure out a horned she-devil, i just wasnt sure when. let the devil take your soul.
the only thing your type appears smart enough to do is lay on your back and spread your legs.
it is funny how your only contribution here is cheap vulgarity, depicting you as the resident lunatic.
your brain elasticity cant stretch beyond 2cm. and reading most of the post here is too much mental exertion for you, resulting in your mental fatigue. so you you resort to a cheap, courtessan's language to stay relevant.
you are as intellectually hollow and daft as a dumb, a-dime-a-dozen whorre, whose most sophisticated clientelle are buss-conductors and teenage street urchins .
your aggressive and raging approach to intelletual debate depicts you as a frustrated lovelorn.
you, my dumb ass feminist , are as worthless as the waste in a sewer pipe. you arent even smart enough to pull off this apalling feminist rubish. you are an embarrassment to the feminist, a huge 0 to womanhood. THAT SUMS YOU UP AS A WASTE OF HUMANITY.
You obviously swapped your school pen for a diick while in school, howelse could you be this classless and totally lacking in style.
If you aren't gifted by God with an UNCOMMON BEAUTY TO OFFSET YOUR UNCOMMON LACK OF GRACE and COUTH, you are going to end up as a thoroughly sucked out orange.
now, biitches like you do not bother me except if you want more.

coogar:
he would likely end up a terrorist.
he has similar characteristics with farouk abdulmutallab. francistony is beyond redemption!

liquidmetall:
[s]What is this??
Please you are not a feminist
Feminism is not all about coming online to shout I am a feminist
Or curse people or saying people are useless
Chimamanda's work spoke for her,,she stood out from the crowd, she was a standout performer
An award winning writer
That was y people even took her serious
If you want to know me chill and cool down you will be surprised on who you met here

Feminism should be least of your worries at 17
Please u neva even start journey self and you are not up to a matured age self
Your bones are still developing just cool down make a good grade, stand out in your career, get married have kids,just like adichie did

Then you can shout feminism, then some people will take you serious
Please don't tell me you are christian nd yet a feminist [/s]

5minsmadness:
I like this statement. It is very true also for feminists and the feminist movement. The dictionary meaning is so not at par with the behavior of so called feminists of today. Hence the bitterness and angst towards them.
They think men don't want them to be empowered and yet they forget that it was the men that pushed the first wave and enacted laws that empowered women in the first place. You see a poster coming here to say that it was because of feminism she got an education meanwhile her father never heard the word but sent her to school anyway and her mother was never uneducated. Their sensationalism and hypocrisy stinks to high heavens and is beyond irritating.

Pardon my french, but if you see a naked person walking down the road with a dick swinging between the legs, what will be your first assumption? Male or female?

A madman slaps a woman and a madwoman slaps a man, who are you going to assist first?

Who has a higher muscle mass?

Who has higher testosterone and aggression levels?

Are all these socially conditioned as well?

Have you watched the movie "The Blue Lagoon"?
Two children stranded on an island in the middle of the ocean, one male, one female. Total abscence of the guidance or restrictions of society. Both grew to adolescence and eventually adulthood together. The boy naturally took on the leadership and protection and hunter role. The girl naturally took on the carer, nurturer and home-maker role.

It is movements like feminism and gayism that is forcing us through societal, legal and political pressures to perceive them as normal when we all quite clearly know they are not. If i ask if you are gay you will deny it yet in a bid to be politically correct you will immediately add that you see nothing wrong in it and they (not you) are free to express themselves however they see fit. Anyone who makes an anti-feminist statement is called a misogynist and if he holds public office he/she is called upon to publicly apologise or possibly risk not being re-elected. It goes on and on.


Man is the head.
Woman his helper.
Child their responsibility.
Society their legacy.
End of story.

BlackLeopard:
I haven't viewed it that way either, yet how we as individuals view something doesn't change the notion in majority group of anywhere.



Those laws were long overdue. It's a shame they weren't there sooner, that it had to be this long to even get laws in effect guaranteeing basic human rights. So your statement 'it's the men who enacted the original laws' could surely be viewed as men doing a favor of sorts to women... but if you look at the larger scope, guaranteeing any minority group basic rights they have as fellow PEOPLE, it's really not doing any sort of a favor, but very belated apology after years of that other group's inmesurable suffering.


But look at the next many women who don't for instance even hear of having any rights, who whole their lives just hear to suck it up, it could have been worse somewhere. That sort of logic doesn't get us anywhere; it's always worse somewhere. I thought the goal is getting be better.

And what desperate people do to get their voices heard is I don't think up for judgment of those not sharing that despair. It's as simple as that. It's not hypocritical to require respect however (preferably legally) available.



Neither. My first thought would be there's a naked person, who is walking, and depending the style of the walk and ocassion, it's either not my business, or my business to ask that person if they don't need an assistance, because a naked person in the middle of a street when it isn't a march specifically meant for that is surely experiencing a mental distress they better get addressed, and is requiring a medical attention.



The hurt party. The slapped person.

Individual. I can't respond to that with generic idea, there's multiple men who don't have that muscle mass and women who do.


Ditto, it's still individual.

The interpretation of those signs as masculine x feminine, is. We could well be simply talking of X trait, as required for Y activity, or as suitable Z activity instead of something else. We could be talking about bodies in a different way than label gender and the informational value woulda be the same, if not greater.

I haven't - thank you for the movie recommendation and I will ammend that as soon as possible, it certainly sounds as an interesting movie to watch.

However, that some people are inclined to do this or that role, still doesn't speak about biological determinism, more shared cultural values passed through genetically, if something, but the beginning of that division was still cultural, somewhere along the way, and then deciding it works out just well, let's do it repeatedly.



You're entitled to your views, but you're still owing fellow people a basic respect, and a way for them to not feel threatened around you. Which spreading hate everywhere one goes, indeed isn't. This isn't just about being politically correct. This isn't about rhetorics. This is about lived feeling of safety. About being a decent person to fellow people. You don't have to adapt the same mindset, values, lifestyles. But to restrict people's right to live their lives in peace, with who they are happy with? Yeah, I do see an issue with that.

Stillfire:
Crying more than the so called bereaved is what they call it.

I repeat African man MUST wash plates!
You must partake in house chores!
If you want your wife to 'strike a balance' between career and family, you must help with the house chores. Hahahaha

Vickybee:
Moses escaped being a rebel?

But he died shamelessly in the wilderness.

Rebellious Pharaoah, Herod etc ended the same way. You say?

lezz:
cococandy; your moniker is sweet, you also are intelligent and knowledgeable but you do not have wisdom.

A man or woman going to school isnt about making money or necessarily practicing what you had read. Education is about enlightenment, having a better world-view and taking a positive and critical apprpach to life. if you crave money, then get into business.

alright, that being said, let me equip you with this facts

the office only takes 2nd place to social media in infidelity-----FACT.

A wife working 8/5 is part of the moral decadence and decay in spciety today. a wife goes off to work and spemds 9 solid hours of her most energetic and productive time working for the government or private firm. she comes home after the day's work sweaty and mentally and physically fatigued. mean while junior and princess came from prep/nursery/primary school is 12pm and they are either left with a nanny or neighbour till mother or father gets bwck from work.

you ever wonder why the rate of female infant rapë is on the increase? mom is chasing after money like dad.


When a man comes home from work battered, sweaty, exhausted and tired or even angry, the best gift anyone can give to him is the hospitality in his own home, by his own wife. never the house help.

When the man and woman leaves home by 8am and return by 5pm tired, you realise they both are spending the most viberant and energetic part of their days apart and in company of colleagues.

the woman only begins to realise when she stands at the threshhold of menopause and old age that family upholding is her first ministry.


nb.... do not resort to subtle insults and cover them with lame appologies. i can give as good as i get as a swift glance over my posts will reveal.

let's keep it inpersonal.

FrancisTony:
My name everywhere.
Now playing - GODWIN!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWrVSpaxJQ8

hahn:
I agree with this. Most times I watch my wife do home chores and honestly its not easy. From sweeping to washing plates, cooking, cleaning, washing clothes etc, women really need men to assist in the house. If we really are stronger than women as we claim then we should be able to handle having a job and still assist with the home chores. I believe the main problem is most guys aren't taught how to take care of themselves. I've lived and squatted with a lot of dudes and most guys can barely cook, clean or take care of the house. Its always war trying to figure out who'll take the responsibility of cleaning or washing plates.

Women should also endeavour to teach their sons how to do basic home chores. If every man is able to do that, it will be easeir to become involved in the house chores during marriage

cococandy:
You're right.
You can also help teach your boys because boys tend to emulate their dads more.
If you only watch their mom do stuff without helping out, if she tries to teach them, they may not be so open to learning.

lezz:
And here it comes. i know this thread is going to lure out a horned she-devil, i just wasnt sure when. let the devil take your soul.
the only thing your type appears smart enough to do is lay on your back and spread your legs.
it is funny how your only contribution here is cheap vulgarity, depicting you as the resident lunatic.
your brain elasticity cant stretch beyond 2cm. and reading most of the post here is too much mental exertion for you, resulting in your mental fatigue. so you you resort to a cheap, courtessan's language to stay relevant.
you are as intellectually hollow and daft as a dumb, a-dime-a-dozen whorre, whose most sophisticated clientelle are buss-conductors and teenage street urchins .
your aggressive and raging approach to intelletual debate depicts you as a frustrated lovelorn.
you, my dumb ass feminist , are as worthless as the waste in a sewer pipe. you arent even smart enough to pull off this apalling feminist rubish. you are an embarrassment to the feminist, a huge 0 to womanhood. THAT SUMS YOU UP AS A WASTE OF HUMANITY.
You obviously swapped your school pen for a diick while in school, howelse could you be this classless and totally lacking in style.
If you aren't gifted by God with an UNCOMMON BEAUTY TO OFFSET YOUR UNCOMMON LACK OF GRACE and COUTH, you are going to end up as a thoroughly sucked out orange.
now, biitches like you do not bother me except if you want more.

TV01:
[s]In the sense that the ones here claim they are, but are clearly not. Other possible qualifiers, Crypto, Pseudo, Ersatz, Bogus !
Someone regardless of sex usually "wears the pants" in a relationship - In a Lesbian relationship with two "nurturing, empathetic and low-testosterone women", you'd expect it to be an atmosphere of mutual support and supplication - total peace. But no, not only are they the least enduring of relationships, they are also the most violent.
"Your relationships" - not to be unkind - are mostly of the transitory kind. Those are more likely to be egalitarian. You both satisfy a single need, no real pressure, demands or support needed. They are little more than feel good times. Like marriage with the honeymoon, but without the baby sick, bills, ill-health etc.
One of your problems is that you appear not to haven't engaged in a L/T commited relationship. For what is essentially FWB, you are looking for fitness based on 1 criteria. For a L/T relationship, a woman needs decidedly more. In general women will only couple L/T with a man they can look up to (higher status). Otherwise the attraction wanes and the woman is left feeling dissatisfied - ask Cococandy . Or ask your soi-disant feministas on this thread that are forming equality in marriage if their husbands are Alphas?
Men are not superior - they are equipped and wired for a complimentary - not a competing - role. Not to say there isn't a lot of overlap or that both can't be proficient in areas the others are more naturally inclined to. Todays lesson;
First, it's better to think of Alpha/Beta in a neutral sense (not perjoritively), and then as behaviours, not inbuilt characteristics or personality types (otherwise all hope would be lost for FrancisTony ). So any man can exhibit Alpha or Beta behaviours. And for a successful L/T relationship, men need to know how to blend the two.
Secondly A/B behaviours are not the same across sexes or even something that really pertains to women. Hence your first false assumption. Men don't view women in those terms or using the same criteria.
What you call an Alpha female is to a man simply another man. If he hangs with her at all, it's because she probably passes on other "fitness criteria".
An Alpha status male who has sufficient wealth/income is not looking for that as a fitness measure in a mate. I hear women wail al lthe time "I have umpteen degrees, a high flying career, my own place and car, subscribe to - insert name of trendy liberal rag here - have on-point conversational skills..etc. etc.
but I can;t get or keep a man - at least no tthe type I feel I deserve/want. Sorry y'all that's all secondary. If you are not "fit" with it, you are losing out to the giggling bimbo with the pretty face and the figure 8. Yes, we are that shallow ![/s]

Shollypopzz:
I wanted to reply you but I changed my mind.

Shollypopzz:
This has absolutely nothing to do with the argument of yesterday. When you have the time to reply my post, let me know.

TV01:
....

It's the internet - I know the rules, unlike some who post up in here !

cococandy:

Vickybee:
Crackhaus, stop making baseless claims.
You didn't provide any proof for all the trash you spewed there.
I dare you to provide a biblical proof of how Moses had the best burial ceremony.

Yes! Moses died shamelessly in the wilderness. Even Devil and Arch-angel Michael had to fight for his body.

Jude 1:9
Yet Michael the archangel, in contending with the devil, when he disputed about the body of Moses, dared not bring against him a reviling accusation, but said, The Lord rebuke you!.