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Hello nairalanders..
As singles,u knw,wen we hear marriage talks everywhere,we get som kinda feelings.....
Somtimes good ,somtimes cold feet..
U hear som good tins dat com wit marriage and u ar like ...awww I can't wait to get there and u hear som oda part and u ar like... Gosh I don't like dat part...
For me I like so many parts..Like having kids,making love and som oda tins sha.
But wat I don't like abt marriage..
I hav to cook weda I like it or not cos society says its d mothers role ..or I get a help that mite kidnap my children..

I hav to b more careful abt d way I dress cos I'm now a mother... U knw? It sucks
So let's talk abt the tins u don't like abt marriage..

I can't hav privacy anymore

The fact that there is no break nor holiday it's annoying

Sex, I hate sex Gan.....

the part where my partner/woman becomes a " nagging celebrity"

Aminat508:
Sex, I hate sex Gan.....

Wow. Y

Aminat508:
Sex, I hate sex Gan.....

Someone obviously didn't do it right

Aminat508:
Sex, I hate sex Gan.....

Then remain single!

Don't make soneone's life a living hell.

The part that says a woman has to endure her cheating husband or else she becomes an object of mockery but the other way round if reverse is the case.

*Bite me*

None, I like every part of it.

darknez:
Then remain single!

Don't make soneone's life a living hell.

haba! Na so u hate me, make I remain singe lailai

Aminat508:
haba! Na so u hate me, make I remain singe lailai

It's not hate! You hate sex but want marriage? That's a huge contradiction.

darknez:
It's not hate! You hate sex but want marriage? That's a huge contradiction.

don't just like it all d time I mean....

Aminat508:
don't just like it all d time I mean....

Okay, now I understand. But it's necessary to be sexually compatible with any man you choose to marry. The sex life is often the grey area in a lot of marriages.

Aminat508:
Sex, I hate sex Gan.....

Maybe u too de ask for more

hate it when my once lovely and sexy wife starts losing shape and beauty and start nagging

when he gets too comfortable and starting farting around you. or does a bad stinker in the toilet and not use air freshner. disgusting lol. get comfortable but not that comfortable

The cooking part.

Chai
My marriage is just so different
I can't even think of what I don't like
All I know is both of us are just too good for ourselves
We both go with the flow anywhere it comes from
And everyone is happy
Very happy

ireneidiva:
The cooking part.

Hmmm...

I neva marry yet but I hate dat I mite love my wife and not rily love her family members.

I hate dat my wife's big boobs mite sag and she will have to do some pushups to make it form again.

I hate dat I wdnt be entitled to my 'me' time as often and as long as I want.

Finito.

the part where your youthful fantasies finally fade off and your like 'excuse me do i know you'

The monogamy part!
I am too 'metrogamous' a being o.
Hiaaaaahn!

*check out all the fine-fine married dudes with loaded pocket 'guns'*

Dyt:
Chai
My marriage is just so different
I can't even think of what I don't like
All I know is both of us are just too good for ourselves
We both go with the flow anywhere it comes from
And everyone is happy
Very happy

waoh.......I love diz!!!

FrancisTony:
The part that says a woman has to endure her cheating husband or else she becomes an object of mockery but the other way round if reverse is the case.

*Bite me*

some people's hair will be standing in anger o francis

KanwuliaJara:
The monogamy part!
I am too 'metrogamous' a being o.
Hiaaaaahn!

*check out all the fine-fine married dudes with loaded pocket 'guns'*

like this ones, abi?

the part where a man can cheat and he's real


but a woman
the part where a woman should let go her life(career and sorts) to open some shop
the part where you can't make decisions solely once in a while
the part where a man cheats and the wife takes the blame..(need to spice up, red pant/bra stuffs) the woman cheats, send her packing!!!

I hate everything about it.
Hate it entirely, head to toe.
Gbogbo e.

The part where you have two kids vying for your attention with little annoying cries here and there.

Gosh! Can't wait for them to grow up!!!.

....

Like someone said earlier, I don't like seeing the same face everyday. In marriage; no leave, no break, no public holiday. From the day a baby was born,it becomes a battle royale till the baby is up to at least; 4 years old

Before you make any decision, you have to consider your husband and children leading to compromises alot of times... . No longer a me me thing...

Don't know if this is negative though. .

Meanyl, the good part outweighs the not so good part.. And yeah, I will still choose to marry in my nxt world....