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Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by Osascandyheart: 9:55am On May 07, 2015 |
l will like to ve u as my friend n i will be glad to be among ur ashebi girls. 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by tete7000(m): 9:56am On May 07, 2015 |
sassygal: No problem. We are all in the world to learn. Nice encountering you, might be nice to meet you someday. |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by popiong(m): 9:57am On May 07, 2015 |
shirazlova: my advice is: take to the advice of sambarry on his advice on separating privacy from isolation keep private matters away from your friends and only isolate yourself from friends that you're certain are enemies of your progress and friendships learn to be accommodating because we all make mistakes you'll know a good friend some day when you overlook the errors some may make today and such ones come to fill your need for a true friend's help or support tomorrow HML 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by tobilinoP(m): 9:57am On May 07, 2015 |
go to unilag , and get those girls that do ushering job, get like for and pay their fee, chikena!!!!# |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by bobbyluis(m): 10:02am On May 07, 2015 |
Chinoble:yea...the wedding must hold |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by ozodigboo(m): 10:02am On May 07, 2015 |
Whats the OP saying ? My sis just got married Apr 29. Only Chief bridesmaid. No bridal train. She's 30, so most of her friends are already married. At the wedding it was agreed dt d groom should not have groomsmen, only bestman. Normal wedding, nobody gossiped. You can do same. Why do you need a loooong bridal train ? As for d preparations n running around, don't your fiance have sisters, cousins etc Dont you have ? 2 Likes |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by Nobody: 10:03am On May 07, 2015 |
I understand you perfectly......send me an email..... |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by bobbyluis(m): 10:03am On May 07, 2015 |
BTT:bless u too 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by championeh(m): 10:09am On May 07, 2015 |
Go hire one naw |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by goldmine(f): 10:12am On May 07, 2015 |
NosoChic: My thoughts exactly. No law says bridal train is compulsory. I didn't have any during my wedding. Not because I didn't have friends anyway. But the really close friends I would have loved to use were still in university(in different parts of the country) and only one or two make it down. I also didn't want to use people I wasn't close to and didn't want to postpone the wedding to when they all would have been available. So I made do with my sister as my maid-of-honour and a Page boy and little bride in addition to the best man. The wedding went well. 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by precisionindepth: 10:13am On May 07, 2015 |
interleukin:its not compulsory to v bridesmaid. d most important is ur traditional and court wedding. A friend f mine who got married recently just had church blessing. t was arranged like D's did engagement in d morning after d engagement Pple were directed to go to d reception while dey changed to dere wedding gown and suit and went to d pastors office with d parent on both side and one friend of d bride and groom and dey signed d marriage , pastor prayed for dem took pictures and went to the reception d wedding was so simple and cute no wahala, no stress d marriage is 2 months old now no paparasi, no dancing into church and all dem preaching in church, and bridestrain wahala God bless their marriage 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by InestamablJewel: 10:23am On May 07, 2015 |
shirazlova: I UNDERSTAND UR PLIGHT DEAR BRIDE TO BE, WUD LIKE FOR US TO HOOK TO HELP AS AM ALMOST IN SAME DELIMA WITH U RIT NOW. DONT KNOW HOW TO GET TO YOU PRIVATELY COS DONT WANT TO DROP MY CONTACT HERE. WE COULD HELP EACH OTHER.. WE CAN NEVER GET PERFECT FRIEND, REALLY FRIENDS CAN BE SUCH A PAIN IN THE NECK, SO MUCH FAKE FRIENDS AROUND, HARDLY HONEST, ONLY SMILE WITH YOU BUT HARDLY AROUND WHEN YOU NEED THEM... YOU CAN ONLY KEEP THEM AT BAY, BUT NOT COMPLETELY COS YOU MIGHT NEED THEM SOMEDAY, BUT THEN AGAIN, WHO SAYS YOU CANT DO A WEEDING WITHOUT TRAIN, ANCO AND ALL THAT STUFF, FOR ME ITS EVEN STRESSFULL, IF I CAN I WUD AVOID IT, THERES SO MUCH TO DO TO START WORRYING ABOUT TRAIN, FAMILY CAN HANDLE YOUR WEDDING PREPARATIONS MORE THAN MOST FRIENDS, FRIENDS CAN DISAPPOINT YOU JOOR, SO HAVE A BLAST AT YOUR WEDING |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by ogehomes(f): 10:33am On May 07, 2015 |
I thought I was the only one in this.. |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by edlynnoel: 10:45am On May 07, 2015 |
dont worry dear its a good tin u r not keeping friends,its normal n u r not d only one ok.b4 my marriage,do u know I did a chief brides maid for a lady i dont know n hv never met b4? but only know her younger sist.Dis was hw it all happened-she let her younger sist know she doen'nt hv friends n no one to brides maid her,so her sist told her not to worry dt she can get for her n I was not even close to her sist sef,but like wat she said-she has always admired n loved my kind of person anytime i pass dere house to wok,dt was how she beged me n I did it for d lady 5yrs again. So dear,u can ask anyone around u dt u admire or tell ur brothers to help u out n i bet u dey wl gladly do it for u. if i was still single,wud hv done it for u.Where r u base? if its not too far,can ask my pretty younger sist to do it for u n she wl gladly do it ok. 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by krystal101(f): 10:48am On May 07, 2015 |
If you're still interested PM me. A friend of mine is a wedding planner + she has girls for ushering. |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by librangyps(f): 10:50am On May 07, 2015 |
OP, I was once in your shoes, what I did was to let them know I'll pay for the clothes and in a twinkle of an eyes, 11 girls were available, I had to shortlist the list to 7 girls to save cost... the girls ranged from school mates, my sister's friends, neighbours and sisters of my male friends. If u can afford to, you can do same and let the word out, you would be amazed at the feedback you get. HML in advance 2 Likes |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by CastingCrowns(f): 10:59am On May 07, 2015 |
Believe it or nt I can totally relate to the OP...I hate having or making frends....a real loner...dis is an eye opener... 2 Likes |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by mcdokwe(m): 11:03am On May 07, 2015 |
chimkaire:don't get you |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by Nobody: 11:05am On May 07, 2015 |
that is the life of a lone ranger... |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by bukatyne(f): 11:09am On May 07, 2015 |
ferhyntorlah: We all have different preferences I was doing it once and liked all the glitz and glamor within our budget. |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by Springz(f): 11:11am On May 07, 2015 |
Op, are you having a big wedding? If its not then you don't need all those army of bridesmaids some people have, make it just one bridesmaid and surely you can get at least one relative to do that? |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by osigwemomoh: 11:22am On May 07, 2015 |
Please go and hire bridesmaid for your wedding. |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by MrSplurge(m): 11:38am On May 07, 2015 |
But Tinuade my Inamorata, we have already discussed this issue.. you don't need to come here and tell Nigeria about our problem. Nike and her friends would be more than glad to help and you already agreed, why then come here to rant. I'm thinking about calling off this wedding because from the look of things, we aren't ready for this. |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by JayJustus(m): 11:38am On May 07, 2015 |
when and where is the wedding?? hope you have pepper snail on the menu...I can bring all my sisters from Jamaica 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by SAMBARRY: 11:38am On May 07, 2015 |
Gbam popiong: |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by SAMBARRY: 11:40am On May 07, 2015 |
interleukin:yes pastor will still join you. Whatever rocks your boat anyway. If you want less gbo gbo ero no problems. What matters is your happiness |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by SAMBARRY: 11:44am On May 07, 2015 |
booqee:they only assist, they don't do the work of caterers. Caterers can't do everything. So they only give minor assistance and support my dia same with friends of the bride
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Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by dabrains: 11:47am On May 07, 2015 |
Get a Wedding Ringer |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by Nobody: 11:53am On May 07, 2015 |
Lol! And I have too many friends. Op, don't be hard on yourself. People are different. Try getting in contact with female cousins or relations to assist with the wedding. Making friends ain't easy! Honestly most of my friends now are friends from secondary school, we've known ourselves for years and we just get along pretty well. Making friends isn't something you just rush into, people can be wicked. Be careful! You might actually be better off without friends. 1 Like |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by SAMBARRY: 11:54am On May 07, 2015 |
Mariecakes:yes you're right about that and I don't blame bridesmaids for that because some guests especially some women at parties never like minding their business. They like over sabi and are very overbearing. For example I've gone for a wedding where I eas a guest and a woman sitting not too far from me was yelling at a total stranger who happens to be one of the brides maid to help serve the guest. The way she was shouting at her was just too rude . and even if the bridesmaid wanted to help she won't help because her approach was very lousy. To the extent that the way she was yelling at her she almost wanted to push my baby sitting to the ground accidentally. That was when I became mad and shouted at her to respect herself and mind my baby .If she knows how to do it she should stand up and join the caterers instead of shouting. That was how the bridesmaid was able to escape till I left there she didn't say a word. |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by MoNickk(f): 12:00pm On May 07, 2015 |
kilode100:no o. Please we are very innocent |
Re: No Friends To Use As Bridesmaids For My Wedding. I'm Deeply Troubled :( by SAMBARRY: 12:02pm On May 07, 2015 |
ferhyntorlah:yimu too.i didn't say bridesmaids is compulsory but it's necessary. How can you say you don't have friends. Na so your character bad reach? Haba. Not even like 3dependable friends office colleagues school friends ex class mates roommates or few church friends. Abeg slow down joor. If that's how everybody lived their lives who will you see to be there for you to help you hug you confide with jist with shop with or pray with before your husba came along. Which kain life be that one. The point is friends have a role to play in every man and woman's life. The bad friends give us experience and lessons and the good ones give us memories. Both are important to make us more resilient when life throws stones at us 2 Likes |
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