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babyosisi:
The delta born Facebook suicide guy said it online and was found hanging
No one believed him.

Ovie! Don't even remind me of him. We were coursemates briefly before he changed schools. If only someone had offered a helping hand. But as is the naija custom he was mocked and laughed to scorn.

chival:
Not cool Ify. Never ever mock a suicidal person no matter how silly their reason(s) may seem to you. Until you have been down that road, you probably will never understand.

@OP: I have nothing to say to you that hasn't been said already. I will be praying for you. God loves you and he will make a way if you can just trust. I know you've tried before but try again. If you are in Lagos, I've got a book that WILL help. Its not a motivational or self help book, and its free.

God bless you. Hold on my brother. God has not forgotten you. The hymn below has been of help to me in dark times.

God is known in loving kindness
God, the true eternal good
Never will he forsake you
Trust his father/motherhood
Can a mother leaver her children?
Can unchanging Love forget?
Though all earthly friends betray you
Lo, his arms enfold thee yet

My dear, YOU don't get to tell me what to type or not. Just offer your advisory and move it.

I have seen people in worst scenarios but not once have they thought suicide. Heck, visit the jobs/vacancies section and see graduates with good degrees looking for even a 20 K job. The OP wants to kill himself cos he's not " Rich" yet. Who gets " rich" overnight? Which sort of crooked mindset is that?

You can hold his hand for all you want, your perogative. Just get off my mention. Cheers

rofemiguwa:
When I read this thread, the first tin on my mind was greet my grandma when u get to the other side, tell her I miss her and her orridge soo much and I love her.

But as I scrolled down. I saw op was serious. Dude take a chill ppill biko!!!
It can't be that bad. For startersget help! Talk to a pastor! Then find what else ur hands can do
And. Invest ur time in.
Money no dey fall from heavn

Unless queen yachkka is after u
Den u r on your own

You have a beautiful heart and I'm pretty sure someone like you will be beautiful on the outside as well... yes?

mystiqueDZ:
Awwww poor darlingg...
Please do send your account number....can help you with 1000 cefa

am in Benin republic.saw the cefa comment.can I Av ya whatsapp number here mine +2347065965051

OluMighty01:
I HAVE...Over and over again. Visualization, affirmations, think big, think positive, have a positive mental attitude, focus on your goal, have a definite purpose in life, persevere, persist....Plan...stay prepared...I guess my case is a serious one. Thanks for taking your time to comment. Just go on with your life and have a great one. As for me, I am determined to end mine this weekend.

are you still alive

ifyalways:
My dear, YOU don't get to tell me what to type or not. Just offer your advisory and move it.

I have seen people in worst scenarios but not once have they thought suicide. Heck, visit the jobs/vacancies section and see graduates with good degrees looking for even a 20 K job. The OP wants to kill himself cos he's not " Rich" yet. Who gets " rich" overnight? Which sort of crooked mindset is that?

You can hold his hand for all you want, your perogative. Just get off my mention. Cheers

This is a faceless free-for-all forum. I don't get to tell you what to type? Great! But you also don't get to tell me not to quote you. If you don't want anyone quoting you, then keep away. The quote button is there to be used by all forumites.

I still maintain my stand- until you walk a mile in the poster's shoes, don't judge! We all decry cyber bullying and condemn its awful effects, especially since that online suicide thing a few years ago, yet we go ahead to do the exact same thing. What do you think you are doing by mocking a suicidal person?

People get suicidal for many reasons, some of which are ludicrous, but the fact remains that they are suicidal, period! If you can't find anything encouraging or nice to say, move along. That is the lady-like thing to do.

A pleasant Sunday to you.

chival:
This is a faceless free-for-all forum. I don't get to tell you what to type? Great! But you also don't get to tell me not to quote you. If you don't want anyone quoting you, then keep away. The quote button is there to be used by all forumites.

I still maintain my stand- until you walk a mile in the poster's shoes, don't judge! We all decry cyber bullying and condemn its awful effects, especially since that online suicide thing a few years ago, yet we go ahead to do the exact same thing. What do you think you are doing by mocking a suicidal person?

People get suicidal for many reasons, some of which are ludicrous, but the fact remains that they are suicidal, period! If you can't find anything encouraging or nice to say, move along. That is the lady-like thing to do.

A pleasant Sunday to you.

Please. Shut up and learn to talk like someone who is civilized abeg she already told u the truth if u are not fyne or down with wat she has said go hug a transformer u can find one close or in d middle of ur street happy sunday.

jayedu108:
Please. Shut up and learn to talk like someone who is civilized abeg she already told u the truth if u are not fyne or down with wat she has said go hug a transformer u can find one close or in d middle of ur street happy sunday.

I neither have the time nor the inclination to descend to your level. Have a blast down there!

chival:
I neither have the time nor the inclination to descend to your level. Have a blast down there!

Big fool am too big for u so u dare not thread words with me cos am nt ur class neither ur category going forward pls stop derailing this thread cos to me it seems u being a nuisance here as I said go hug the transformer!least I forget were u able to find one?

mcheew

@op are you dead yet, and if you need any service for tour burial plz pm me

this op Gbefun still never die? Friday don pass na! Abeg I wan come chop burial rice!

OluMighty01:
I am still alive.

I have learnt a lot from this thread. ONE- There are a lot more devils in this world than there are saints. TWO- Some of the devils have shitty lives, and it would make them feel better to know there is someone worse off than them. THREE- Whether it is one in a million, be patient, the saints are always out there. FOUR- No one is responsible for making you feel better when you are depressed or suicidal...you are On Your Own. FIVE- Nigerians are very bad at handling people with suicidal tendencies.


So, let me really talk now. Before I go on, let me say I REALLY WAS SUICIDAL, but I really wanted to be talked out of it. Instead, I felt like really ending my life for real. The reason I have always held back from ending my life was because I always thought of the stigma I would live my family members with, and the fact that I know that if I could live through all this harsh times, I would be one of the greatest men of my generation (you don't know me personally, so you can go ahead and laugh at that statement).


So, after reading a series of very discouraging comments on Wednesday, I made up my mind to go through with it. I had already planned how I was going to kill myself, so I didn't have to go through any major planning or anything. My plan (for about ten years now) had always been to jump off the Third Mainland bridge, this is why I never learnt how to swim. I would drown, and the Govt would carry my body out or leave it to rot. So, I left a note with my username and password on my laptop and left the house. My house is close to Oworonshoki, so it took me about 20 minutes to get to the foot of third mainland bridge. But when I got there (around 9:30), there was still traffic on the otherside...and my mind that was made up at 100% had come down to like 70%...coupled with the fact that people were looking at me weird from the cars on the other side. Well, maybe I was just paranoid, and they weren't looking at me.


Anyway, I just couldn't get myself to jump. I know now that If I had a GUN at the time I was ready to end my life, I would have pulled the trigger without hesitation. So, I din't jump, but I did something afterwards that night...I don't want to bore you with that. But I didn't go back home till yesterday night.


In closing, I want to speak on another reason why I started this post.


I actually had a friend that was Bipolar like me. I met him on Nairaland. He was always talking about killing himself, and if i was in the right frame of mind, I would talk him out of it. So, one day last year...I think in April or so, I can't really remember...he put up a PM that he was going to kill himself. He said and I quote- "I am not going to be the first, and neither will I be the last." That day, I was with a girl (doing that thing), and I just brushed off his message like one of his bluffs. But when I contacted him after my guest left, he didn't reply. A couple of weeks later, a girl started using his BBM. When I asked her about my friend...I found out she was his sister, and she told me they found him hanging from his room fan the day he left that message on bbm. TRUE STORY. I felt so bad.

My friend SHUT THE FUC.K UP and be a MAN! Go and hustle hard and spare us this your pathetic pity party! Crap!

@olumighty01, are you referring to pim'p as the bipolar nairalander?

OluMighty01:
I am a graduate...But I am into business. I have tried everything...offline business, online business...I have been GOOD, hardworking, persistent, positive minded, but nothing seems to come out of all these for 7 years now. I don't have a girlfriend cos no girl wants a broke guy as a boyfriend, even though I am good looking. My family members are tired of me, and I am frustrated cos I can't take care of my aged parents.
Sighs!!! LIFE IS SO HARSH!!!

Life is very harsh, but as long as there is life, there is hope..ssoo hold on n have faith

ifyalways:
@Odunnu,its possible he sent friends request to people before the unfortunate incident.If you send out friend request,the day whoever u sent it to accepts it reflects on your profile as recent activity.

@Topic very sad!
The economy is terrible.No job or future for alot of youths.Our society only recognize the affulent,the rich flaunting and flexing in the midst of the terrible poverty in the land.

Go to the Island and the in-thing now is young boys going to Malaysia to sell their kidney for 10M.horrible!

@chival, abeg ignore them. And the hypocrite was here showing sympathy when a similar scenario that started as a threat played out and here she is spewing some bullshit. Whats special about your mention? Is it used to collect money at the counter. Mtcheew!! www.nairaland.com/834710/another-nigerian-commits-suicide#9859054

quest003:
@chival, abeg ignore them. And the hypocrite was here showing sympathy when a similar scenario that started as a threat played out and here she is spewing some bullshit. Whats special about your mention? Is it used to collect money at the counter. Mtcheew!!

What is this one saying?anither yaba left candidate trying to seek attention!

jayedu108:
What is this one saying?anither yaba left candidate trying to seek attention!

get a life bro

quest003:
get a life bro

@op u beta stand on ur feet and hussle like ur mates out there dat the best advice I can give to you notin gud comes easy,as for u @quest003 it seems a brain reset is wat u need.

see as one mumu dey mention people way nor even give am attention

quest003:
@chival, abeg ignore them. And the hypocrite was here showing sympathy when a similar scenario that started as a threat played out and here she is spewing some bullshit. Whats special about your mention? Is it used to collect money at the counter. Mtcheew!! www.nairaland.com/834710/another-nigerian-commits-suicide#9859054

Thanks for digging that out. Again, let us all be careful how we think, speak and act. No one knows tomorrow. May we always find help when we need it. God bless one and all.

@OP: where are you? I hope you are feeling a lot better now. Please let us know.

chival:
Ovie! Don't even remind me of him. We were coursemates briefly before he changed schools. If only someone had offered a helping hand. But as is the naija custom he was mocked and laughed to scorn.

Really
Chai
I read the story it broke my heart
It wasn't until he actually killed himself that people realized he was crying out for help for real

OluMighty01:
I am still alive.

I have learnt a lot from this thread. ONE- There are a lot more devils in this world than there are saints. TWO- Some of the devils have shitty lives, and it would make them feel better to know there is someone worse off than them. THREE- Whether it is one in a million, be patient, the saints are always out there. FOUR- No one is responsible for making you feel better when you are depressed or suicidal...you are On Your Own. FIVE- Nigerians are very bad at handling people with suicidal tendencies.


So, let me really talk now. Before I go on, let me say I REALLY WAS SUICIDAL, but I really wanted to be talked out of it. Instead, I felt like really ending my life for real. The reason I have always held back from ending my life was because I always thought of the stigma I would live my family members with, and the fact that I know that if I could live through all this harsh times, I would be one of the greatest men of my generation (you don't know me personally, so you can go ahead and laugh at that statement).


So, after reading a series of very discouraging comments on Wednesday, I made up my mind to go through with it. I had already planned how I was going to kill myself, so I didn't have to go through any major planning or anything. My plan (for about ten years now) had always been to jump off the Third Mainland bridge, this is why I never learnt how to swim. I would drown, and the Govt would carry my body out or leave it to rot. So, I left a note with my username and password on my laptop and left the house. My house is close to Oworonshoki, so it took me about 20 minutes to get to the foot of third mainland bridge. But when I got there (around 9:30), there was still traffic on the otherside...and my mind that was made up at 100% had come down to like 70%...coupled with the fact that people were looking at me weird from the cars on the other side. Well, maybe I was just paranoid, and they weren't looking at me.


Anyway, I just couldn't get myself to jump. I know now that If I had a GUN at the time I was ready to end my life, I would have pulled the trigger without hesitation. So, I din't jump, but I did something afterwards that night...I don't want to bore you with that. But I didn't go back home till yesterday night.


In closing, I want to speak on another reason why I started this post.


I actually had a friend that was Bipolar like me. I met him on Nairaland. He was always talking about killing himself, and if i was in the right frame of mind, I would talk him out of it. So, one day last year...I think in April or so, I can't really remember...he put up a PM that he was going to kill himself. He said and I quote- "I am not going to be the first, and neither will I be the last." That day, I was with a girl (doing that thing), and I just brushed off his message like one of his bluffs. But when I contacted him after my guest left, he didn't reply. A couple of weeks later, a girl started using his BBM. When I asked her about my friend...I found out she was his sister, and she told me they found him hanging from his room fan the day he left that message on bbm. TRUE STORY. I felt so bad.

Where there is life there is hope
Don't give up

jayedu108:
Big fool am too big for u so u dare not thread words with me cos am nt ur class neither ur category going forward pls stop derailing this thread cos to me it seems u being a nuisance here as I said go hug the transformer!least I forget were u able to find one?

oga,stop disrespecting urself.

quest003:
@olumighty01, are you referring to pim'p as the bipolar nairalander?

Nope!

chival:
Thanks for digging that out. Again, let us all be careful how we think, speak and act. No one knows tomorrow. May we always find help when we need it. God bless one and all.

@OP: where are you? I hope you are feeling a lot better now. Please let us know.

Yea I am great. Thanks. I don't come back to this thread much cos every time I do, there is a new negative comment from someone. I want to try and stay positive and have my eyes on my goal. Thanks once again.

OluMighty01:
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Yea I am great. Thanks. I don't come back to this thread much cos every time I do, there is a new negative comment from someone.

if that will keep negative energies at bay, its fine. Cheers!!

OluMighty01:
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Yea I am great. Thanks. I don't come back to this thread much cos every time I do, there is a new negative comment from someone. I want to try and stay positive and have my eyes on my goal. Thanks once again.

StAy positive
Don't give up
Never give up
Surround yourself with positive people and people who will lift you up
When you eventually succeed,there are still people that will seek to pull you down,ask God for wisdom
Wisdom will not only make you succeed ,it will keep you On that path of continual success

babyosisi:
StAy positive
Don't give up
Never give up
Surround yourself with positive people and people who will lift you up
When you eventually succeed,there are still people that will seek to pull you down,ask God for wisdom
Wisdom will not only make you succeed ,it will keep you On that path of continual success

I love you

fwwins:
I love you

i mean, I don't know what to say about her.

OluMighty01:
I am still alive.

I have learnt a lot from this thread. ONE- There are a lot more devils in this world than there are saints. TWO- Some of the devils have shitty lives, and it would make them feel better to know there is someone worse off than them. THREE- Whether it is one in a million, be patient, the saints are always out there. FOUR- No one is responsible for making you feel better when you are depressed or suicidal...you are On Your Own. FIVE- Nigerians are very bad at handling people with suicidal tendencies.


So, let me really talk now. Before I go on, let me say I REALLY WAS SUICIDAL, but I really wanted to be talked out of it. Instead, I felt like really ending my life for real. The reason I have always held back from ending my life was because I always thought of the stigma I would live my family members with, and the fact that I know that if I could live through all this harsh times, I would be one of the greatest men of my generation (you don't know me personally, so you can go ahead and laugh at that statement).


So, after reading a series of very discouraging comments on Wednesday, I made up my mind to go through with it. I had already planned how I was going to kill myself, so I didn't have to go through any major planning or anything. My plan (for about ten years now) had always been to jump off the Third Mainland bridge, this is why I never learnt how to swim. I would drown, and the Govt would carry my body out or leave it to rot. So, I left a note with my username and password on my laptop and left the house. My house is close to Oworonshoki, so it took me about 20 minutes to get to the foot of third mainland bridge. But when I got there (around 9:30), there was still traffic on the otherside...and my mind that was made up at 100% had come down to like 70%...coupled with the fact that people were looking at me weird from the cars on the other side. Well, maybe I was just paranoid, and they weren't looking at me.


Anyway, I just couldn't get myself to jump. I know now that If I had a GUN at the time I was ready to end my life, I would have pulled the trigger without hesitation. So, I din't jump, but I did something afterwards that night...I don't want to bore you with that. But I didn't go back home till yesterday night.


In closing, I want to speak on another reason why I started this post.


I actually had a friend that was Bipolar like me. I met him on Nairaland. He was always talking about killing himself, and if i was in the right frame of mind, I would talk him out of it. So, one day last year...I think in April or so, I can't really remember...he put up a PM that he was going to kill himself. He said and I quote- "I am not going to be the first, and neither will I be the last." That day, I was with a girl (doing that thing), and I just brushed off his message like one of his bluffs. But when I contacted him after my guest left, he didn't reply. A couple of weeks later, a girl started using his BBM. When I asked her about my friend...I found out she was his sister, and she told me they found him hanging from his room fan the day he left that message on bbm. TRUE STORY. I felt so bad.

Am glad you you are still here. You gave me a scare.

jayedu108:
@op u beta stand on ur feet and hussle like ur mates out there dat the best advice I can give to you notin gud comes easy,as for u @quest003 it seems a brain reset is wat u need.

Come o,u be @ifyalways boyfriend??. How e dey do u for body...abeg park well