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dinachi:
Did I hear you say you are blessed? . How can I doubt that? The shit from those unwashed assholes you sucked and those you foursome guys who drilled you mercilessly like a newly discovered oil well only did their job too well!
Keep being delusional!
As for venting your frustrations you can beat on your flat chest as many times as you like, it still does not alter the fact that you are frustrated!

Guy, what part of I have repented completely did you not understand
My sympathies for your "situation."
E go better

harveyspec:
Firstly, I don't watch nollywood

Secondly, I ain't a minor, it's a far cry from it

Thirdly, if Emeka doesn't spill his escapades with the lady's husband then trust that he will spill it to his husbands circle of friends or at the husband whenever they quarrel just to spite him

I had great respect for you but with all of this, I will unfollow ur thread on "marital advice for newly weds & intending couples"


You are the type that can poison a man & watch him eating the food while petting him!!

Come to think of it, you were in a relationship with a man while at same time romping with azubuike!!

God save me from your type

PS: I'm aware my tone is harsh, no hard feelings o

This is the TRUEST post I have ever seen in this section!!

Spot on!!!!

Timbuktou:
Don't mind the promiscuous Aunty 4teelaw. She done fvck all her youth troway come carry tokunbo Grade7 give one mumu man wey no sabi say yansh dey tight. She's apparently trying to force-feed us the bvllshit that seeking to marry a virgin or woman of virtue is symptomatic of a childish mind. What effrontery.

Keep searching oooo! But you are definitely not marriage material with a mouth like yours. You are gutter material. Wise men have self confidence, self control and know a good woman when they see one. Body count or no body count.
The 'mumu' man has kept a family intact for 10 solid years, fed, clothed, financed, sheltered a family. If that makes him a mumu, bring it on! We are doing the mumu together!

kilode100:

Guy, what part of I have repented completely did you not understand
My sympathies for your "situation."
E go better

Why are you responding to kids in diapers? Real men would be at work right now, bringing in the cheddar.

zeb04:
If your past has no negative effect on the marriage please don't tell me.

I don't want to know how many abortions my husbandhas sponsored in the past.I don't need to enter m3riage with that sort of information.

My husband should only tell me when it affets our marriage one way or the other like if he has a child from his previous r/ship.

If I were a man, I would only take you to a hospital to know if you are able to bear a child for me nd not in the abortions you have commited such things are not a bother as long as I can see for myself your womb is intact.

Gbam
The risk in an forum like this is that many may be children,you can tell from their responses

babyosisi:
Hahahaha
Have you checked her nyash ?
Do giving BJs and getting fing.ered still qualify
Do you know there are traditional ways to tighten the V and she passes off as a virgin
You are still a learner
You sound very naive

I am yet to meet a grown man whose requirement for a wife includes virgin and I have done a few matchmaking
It seems like a dream of small boys

babyosisi, you are too corrupt!!

Which one be "have you checked her ynash?"

I do not care. As far as no d1ck penetrated there, its still GOLD!!!

kilode100:
Coming clean you say?... Who has it helped
It's only below average men that are interested in such nonsense.... What will it achieve to sit down with a man that there is no guarantee that he will be there till death do us part to tell him dirt's about my past...

Anyway the truth is that there is no man born of a woman that can handle my past.
1,I have sucked many unwashed ass holes...
2,I used to like been beaten before getting fhucked.
3,I love foursome a lot... I take on three guys at once..
4,I lost count of abortions but I ve two adorable kids to call mine now.
5,I ve repented completely.

Do you still think I should spill

@ Dinachi,
In case you missed it.
I am a new creature, old things have passed away and all things have become new..
You got nothing on me boy
You are just a bloody hater who's jealous because I'm Robust

4teelaw:
Why are you responding to kids in diapers? Real men would be at work right now, bringing in the cheddar.

Timbuktou:
Perhaps, tongues may wag and they may faced with the demands of the law. Scorned lovers have been known to do the most hideous things, you know? If I were a criminal, the fear of jail time would deter me from being honest. If all my history holds is sordid details of a romantic/promiscuous nature, I would be more than willing to disclose my indiscretions to someone who I'm sure loves me. After which I would hope for magnanimity, if I don't get it though, I'd blame myself not them, it was my fault, not theirs. Sayong if they can't handle it they can take a walk or calling them immature for inability to deal with my mess is disgusting and entitled, to say the least.

The difference is consent and lack of. Come on sis, stop trolling.

*i think you should leave a space between three and some. Didn't know what a party was till I had my reply ready and had to change it accordingly.

I am serious and not trolling...

Rape is lack of consent for the victim and not the rapist.

I guess the fear of the other party walking away also makes the person not to spill.

I doubt you will sing like a bird if you have a very sordid past to your wife; you might give an abridged version.

I would say people should mind what they do so they do not have a sordid past.

And for those who have a sordid past, goodluck to them as they decide to spill/not spill/spill little

4teelaw:
Y'all pause!
It depends on the parties in the relationship/marriage. I am a chatterbox, and I have spilled every secret in the box, without even knowing.
Av been with my man 10yrs now and he doesn't like to talk about his past relationships, cos he believes what is past is past. He also doesn't like to hear about my past relationships, so while blabbing uncontrollably, I may mention some guy I dated, and his countenance changes. He just doesn't wanna know so I don't talk about it. Any day he hears from someone something I did in the past, he would ask me and I will share the circumstances, because whenever I raise such a topic, I realise he is not emotionally balanced enough to receive such news. And he thinks I am also not emotionally balanced for whatever stuff he doesn't wanna talk about, so I leave it that way.

When we had fertility challenges, I asked him if he had impregnated a girl b4 and sponsored any abortions, he said maybe, maybe not. Some girls have come with that story, maybe they jst wanted to squeeze money out of him, and he never followed up. I wasn't dazed by that answer, but I was dazed when he told me he knew I had been through an abortion (I am not proud of this one bit). How did he know, I blurted it out one day in useless chatter (as usual) long ago b4 we even courted. Although we never talked about it again, but he never forgot and it's not a big deal we all have our past.

It's been 10 rocky but wonderful years. If he had ever cheated, he will never admit it, it's his way of protecting me, I have never caught him so he is innocent until found guilty. I have never cheated, mostly because I'm too devoted to him and if I cheat, will I tell him? I don't think so. I'm with babyosisi on this. I'll browbeat myself into order, repent and never repeat an episode. I know he can't handle it. He won't leave me, but it will kill his ego and emasculate him, thinking he can't satisfy and provide for me. That's what he fears the most.
So I won't cheat, because I don't want to emasculate him, it's a chore to make him believe in himself again, I'd rather not tow that line. And it's a bigger chore to stop feeling guilty about being the cause of his pain. It will just hurt two of us...

Thanks for this post and you are not alone,many women talk a lot and say things no one asked
And many men are like your husband,they don't talk much about mundane stuff
Forget the men running their mouths here,it's actually an aberration,most mature men are not that petty.
We live we learn
I bet you there are people who will read this and decide to do differently
Thanks for sharing

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Emaprince:
LWKMD bwahahahaha..

Honestly, I do not condem women that dated other men before marriage, but I hate it when non-virgins starts deriding the idea of men wanting to marry virgins. Its a thing of choice and every men should take pride in having that once in a life time opportunity of tieing the knot with a virgin- a woman that NO man have touched.

Deriding ke? If it's possible to find a virgin, by all means keep her! Bt going out of your way searching for a virgin in this age is setting yourself up for disappointment. You want a virgin, she may lie that she's a virgin, decieve you till wedding night and you find yourself inside konga! From that moment, the marriage is headed for disaster. How do you remedy that.
You find a true virgin, it's a bonus.

4teelaw:
Keep searching oooo! But you are definitely not marriage material with a mouth like yours. You are gutter material. Wise men have self confidence, self control and know a good woman when they see one. Body count or no body count.
The 'mumu' man has kept a family intact for 10 solid years, fed, clothed, financed, sheltered a family. If that makes him a mumu, bring it on! We are doing the mumu together!

Chai...
Daris godu o.

kilode100:
@ Dinachi,
In case you missed it.
I am a new creature, old things have passed away and all things have become new..
You got nothing on me boy
You are just a bloody hater who's jealous because I'm Robust

Please don't bother
Not worth it

4teelaw:
Deriding ke? If it's possible to find a virgin, by all means keep her! Bt going out of your way searching for a virgin in this age is setting yourself up for disappointment. You want a virgin, she may lie that she's a virgin, decieve you till wedding night and you find yourself inside konga! From that moment, the marriage is headed for disaster. How do you remedy that.
You find a true virgin, it's a bonus.

this is the best way to put it. I know its difficult and I'm not even searching for it. That's why I called it "once in a life time opportunity".

4teelaw:
Kids everywhere sha. You can't be married. Marriage is not for babies. If a small issue like marrying a virgin or not is making you sound like a baby who's lost his rattle, then taking care of a woman and kids will set you off a cliff.
You even need reading lessons, or is it comprehension? Who says a babe should sleep around? I'm saying you shouldn't set your mind on such issues. I didn't marry as a virgin, doesn't mean I didn't marry who I gave it to. I have an old friend who married as a virgin, and she's out on the streets right now? You know why? She had attitude problems, was totally irresponsible and a bad cook. Her hubby stylishly moved out and left her. Did her being a virgin make her a better wife?
There's more to marriage than body counts. What's in her past is in her past. If the future is bright, she completes you, makes you a better person, is full of love and compassion, by all means, carry on!

You certainly have a defiled marriage bed. Because if someone saying they would rather marry a virgin sets off your temper, one has to wonder what your history would reveal and the extent to your promiscuity, especially after your marriage.

I have a friend who married a known slut and, you guessed it, they're no longer together. While she was good in bed and could cook the tastiest meals, she couldn't resist the urge of diick-hopping. A biitch is a biitch. As the saying goes, you cannot make a hoe a housewife.

And while there's more to marriage than body counts, it is important to note that women lose the ability to bond with their mates through sex the more cocks they hop on. Then there's the issues of the feel of the puccy after time and diick have taken their toll on it. All the kegels in this world do not replace a naturall tempered puccy, I'm afraid. And how could I possibly let go of her past considering the past of someone like Kilode in here, who's stock in trade was shiit-chomping? You are in denial. Perhaps, you regret not fvcking to your heart's content before you met your husband and have become disillusioned. No matter, have it all now. You certainly are able.

babyosisi:
Please don't bother
Not worth it

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...and I was having fun o..

Emaprince:
babyosisi, you are too corrupt!!

Which one be "have you checked her ynash?"

I do not care. As far as no d1ck penetrated there, its still GOLD!!!

Me corrupt?
A woman of God
Goodluck in your quest
If you are a virgin,I hope you find one
If not you don't deserve one and I hope you don't find one
Iseeee

bukatyne:
Rape is lack of consent for the victim and not the rapist.

I guess the fear of the other party walking away also makes the person not to spill.

I doubt you will sing like a bird if you have a very sordid past to your wife; you might give an abridged version.

I would say people should mind what they do so they do not have a sordid past.

And for those who have a sordid past, goodluck to them as they decide to spill/not spill/spill little

There still is a lack of consent isn't there. Rape is theft.

Then they'd be best served being monks and nuns wouldn't they?

Well, kudos to me for having a wonderful past, eh?

Indeed, I agree.

Or spill lies!

We demand sincererity and honesty,end time marriage counsellors demand secrecy. The choice is yours. Whether you want to marry a stranger or marry someone you know. It is clear this women are only worried about hiding sexual histories! That tells you the kind of women they are!

Timbuktou:
You certainly have a defiled marriage bed. Because if someone saying they would rather marry a virgin sets off your temper, one has to wonder what your history would reveal and the extent to your promiscuity, especially after your marriage.

I have a friend who married a known slut and, you guessed it, they're no longer together. While she was good in bed and could cook the tastiest meals, she couldn't resist the urge of diick-hopping. A biitch is a biitch. As the saying goes, you cannot make a hoe a housewife.

And while there's more to marriage than body counts, it is important to note that women lose the ability to bond with their mates through sex the more cocks they hop on. Then there's the issues of the feel of the puccy after time and diick have taken their toll on it. All the kegels in this world do not replace a naturall tempered puccy, I'm afraid. And how could I possibly let go of her past considering the past of someone like Kilode in here, who's stock in trade was shiit-chomping? You are in denial. Perhaps, you regret not fvcking to your heart's content before you met your husband and have become disillusioned. No matter, have it all now. You certainly are able.

Bros, calm down. You're indirectly confirming what op wrote by referring to the confessions made by someone on this thread and using it against them. Just pipe low.
If you see a virgin ...marry her, happy that I am teaching mine everything she knows about xex, is good to be the first and probably the last but I ain't filling in the gaps or completing any sentences or trying to find nearest or opposite in meaning to any past that needs to be forgotten.

babyosisi:
Me corrupt?
A woman of God
Goodluck in your quest
If you are a virgin,I hope you find one
If not you don't deserve one and I hope you don't find one
Iseeee

why evuls?

Timbuktou:
You certainly have a defiled marriage bed. Because if someone saying they would rather marry a virgin sets off your temper, one has to wonder what your history would reveal and the extent to your promiscuity, especially after your marriage.

I have a friend who married a known slut and, you guessed it, they're no longer together. While she was good in bed and could cook the tastiest meals, she couldn't resist the urge of diick-hopping. A biitch is a biitch. As the saying goes, you cannot make a hoe a housewife.

And while there's more to marriage than body counts, it is important to note that women lose the ability to bond with their mates through sex the more cocks they hop on. Then there's the issues of the feel of the puccy after time and diick have taken their toll on it. All the kegels in this world do not replace a naturall tempered puccy, I'm afraid. And how could I possibly let go of her past considering the past of someone like Kilode in here, who's stock in trade was shiit-chomping? You are in denial. Perhaps, you regret not fvcking to your heart's content before you met your husband and have become disillusioned. No matter, have it all now. You certainly are able.

By the post you have proven to me that men who insist on marrying virgins lack in some way
Either in size ,performance or both
A man confident in his abilities will not care who the woman is,he can get anyone and she will come for more because he garrit
A man looking for virgins wants someone who has had no other experiences to compare with
Someone who can't differentiate an anaconda from an HB pencil and a dodge charger from a 404
Someone who will think a 2 minute performance is all there is
Someone who doesn't know there are men who know how to handle a woman and handle her with panache
Same reason some men like to Marry little girls
Real women can see their inadequacies,13 year olds don't know any better

Timbuktou:
There still is a lack of consent isn't there. Rape is theft.

Then they'd be best served being monks and nuns wouldn't they?

Well, kudos to me for having a wonderful past, eh?

Indeed, I agree.

Or spill lies!

Well telling your wifey you stole shouldn't be such a hassle.

Nobody is perfect and some people are unfortunate to have a lot under their belt... Like a NLer's signature..... This would have been me except grace (sure this is paraphrased)

Till the whole comes to an end, people will keep hiding their pasts or giving edited versions

I honestly do not see how many ex's your partner has had matters in a new relationship or marriage

Timbuktou:
And how could I possibly let go of her past considering the past of someone like Kilode in here, who's stock in trade was shiit-chomping?

Timbuktou:
You certainly have a defiled marriage bed. Because if someone saying they would rather marry a virgin sets off your temper, one has to wonder what your history would reveal and the extent to your promiscuity, especially after your marriage.

I have a friend who married a known slut and, you guessed it, they're no longer together. While she was good in bed and could cook the tastiest meals, she couldn't resist the urge of diick-hopping. A biitch is a biitch. As the saying goes, you cannot make a hoe a housewife.

And while there's more to marriage than body counts, it is important to note that women lose the ability to bond with their mates through sex the more cocks they hop on. Then there's the issues of the feel of the puccy after time and diick have taken their toll on it. All the kegels in this world do not replace a naturall tempered puccy, I'm afraid. And how could I possibly let go of her past considering the past of someone like Kilode in here, who's stock in trade was shiit-chomping? You are in denial. Perhaps, you regret not fvcking to your heart's content before you met your husband and have become disillusioned. No matter, have it all now. You certainly are able.

Set off my temper? You are the one ranting and too blinded to read my posts. What's d fun in sleeping around before marriage?Please quote where I advised sleeping around. And how does not being a virgin make you a slut? A woman dated a man that died b4 they got married, does that make her a slut? A woman dated a guy who cheated and she walked away, does that make her a slut?

Isn't it guys like you that deceive girls, get them into bed and dump them, does that make her a slut? You don't know me, you jst write rubbish about promiscuity, I chose to ignore you, the fact that I didn't marry as a virgin doesnt mean I didn't marry who I gave it to. Did you read my post where I mentioned av been with this same man for 10years this year? Does that make me slut? Maybe I am a slut for the 'mumu'. We are two peas in a pod!

VintageCocktail:
Bros, calm down. You're indirectly confirming what op wrote by referring to the confessions made by someone on this thread and using it against them. Just pipe low.
If you see a virgin ...marry her, happy that I am teaching mine everything she knows about xex, is good to be the first and probably the last but I ain't filling in the gaps or completing any sentences or trying to find nearest or opposite in meaning to any past that needs to be forgotten.

Congratulations, sir. However, the OP's opinions are of little consequence to me. Perhaps the thread should never have been opened in the first place. Now that it has, let's deal with its consequences.

babyosisi:
By the post you have proven to me that men who insist on marrying virgins lack in some way
Either in size ,performance or both
A man confident in his abilities will not care who the woman is,he can get anyone and she will come for more because he garrit
A man looking for virgins wants someone who has had no other experiences to compare with
Someone who can't differentiate an anaconda from an HB pencil
Someone who will think a 2 minute performance is all there is
Someone who doesn't know there are men who know how to handle a woman
Same reason some men like to Marry little girls
Real women can see their inadequacies,13 year olds don't know any better

This takes me back to "only a man with zero self esteem will be fishing around with hook and line for a virgin to marry, setting himself up for a marriage based on deception", then come back here and brandish women 'hoes' and all sorts of names just because he found out the woman lied, just to please him.

All these old hags like babyosisi and co who admitted their puccy was worn and torn before marriage should get it into their skulls that not everybody wants to use large tubers of yams to make love to their wives! If Azubuike had to use his legs and hands in there before you felt a thing, does not mean another man wants to be using his entire body in there before he makes an impact. Bottomine: end time marriage counsellors pls respect the choice of others.

4teelaw:
This takes me back to "only a man with zero self esteem will be fishing around with hook and line for a virgin to marry, setting himself up for a marriage based on deception", then come back here and brandish women 'hoes' and all sorts of names just because he found out the woman lied, just to please him.

Exactly
A man insisting on a virgin as an ambition has probably been ridiculed by many women
He is now looking for someone who has nothing to compare with
ROFL
YOu can read their pain in their posts

They forget that women are fast learners and within some time she will get bored and wonder if this is all there is
And ask her girlfriends only to find out they are being cheated

Emaprince:
this is the best way to put it. I know its difficult and I'm not even searching for it. That's why I called it "once in a life time opportunity".

I'm glad you understand my point. Please explain to that ill trained gutter boy so that he doesn't walk into a web he set up by himself. If you find a virgin, and you can prove it, what other honor does a man deserve? Also make sure she has other virtuous qualities of a wife and a mother, it's not all about sex. Sex is just 20% of marriage, a lot more matters. It's in pregnancy you will find out you are going months without sex cos madam is not in the mood.

4teelaw:
Set off my temper? You are the one ranting and too blinded to read my posts. What's d fun in sleeping around before marriage?Please quote where I advised sleeping around. And how does not being a virgin make you a slut? A woman dated a man that died b4 they got married, does that make her a slut? A woman dated a guy who cheated and she walked away, does that make her a slut?

Isn't it guys like you that deceive girls, get them into bed and dump them, does that make her a slut? You don't know me, you jst write rubbish about promiscuity, I chose to ignore you, the fact that I didn't marry as a virgin doesnt mean I didn't marry who I gave it to. Did you read my post where I mentioned av been with this same man for 10years this year? Does that make me slut? Maybe I am a slut for the 'mumu'. We are two peas in a pod!

Yet, you were the one who claimed I was insecure for virgin-seeking. Stop patching up your stories with escape routes, you're only digging yourself deeper. Sluts are by definition promiscuous, which means they chose to fvck around. All this talk about dead grooms is out of point. And for the one who lost a cheating boyfriend, she should have kept herself till marriage as has been prescribed through the ages. I guess this lends some credibility to the traditions, doesn't it? A man is a man and no about of new age feminist bvllshit will make up for the male instinct of keeping a woman to and for himself. You can start up a thread like this 3billion times and men will still prefer a low mileage woman. Deal. With. The. Truth.

And while I enjoy straffing beautiful women, I will respect a woman who claims to be a virgin and intends to keep it. If, on the other hand, your yansh has been burst open, my charms and game with dessicate your defences with ease, I will have my way and move the hell on. I'm neutral, deal with a slut like the slut she is, and a virgin accordingly.

You want me to respect your tales of marriage and chastity but you want to willingly ignore mine when I say I'm married? You need to lay off the weed, sweety. I'm not your husband, I don't have to be nice/soft with you. You have been with the same man for ten years and yet you still shop for diick all over? Get outta here.

4teelaw:
Does that place have a meter that measures Body count! If a woman doesn't tell you, you will never know. So why set yourself up for a big surprise?
Some things are not necessary. It's the 'I must marry virgin or low body count' school of thought that makes women lie about these things, and

Oh but it is necessary. A man with a fair approximation of his wife's number count has a fair approximation of the type of woman she is. He knows whether he is settling down with a real good girl or a reformed harlot. It is imperative that the man comes to terms with it at the beginning of the relationship, having it revealed later by accident is most displeasing. The only way he can have such information is to ask, the man should ask her.

The possibility that the woman may lie about such information is why men have been advised to multiply whatever number she states by 3. It then is up to him to decide if he can live with such a woman.

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Funny thing about N counts is that women tend to reduce their count while men tend to increase theirs. For men divide whatever number they state by 3 and for women multiply their number by 3


If a woman sleeps with four men who have Emeka in their names she counts all four as one.
If it was with twins she will count both guys as one.
If she was drunk that night and had sex, she won't count that night
If the sex lasted less than 5 minutes she won't count it.
If it was with a colleague who has left the company then that doesn't count too
Oral or ánal only? Sorry, she wont count that.
On a public holiday? No count.
The man was too small? NO COUNT



They will easily provide enough reasons why their number is lower than it really is or why all of this is unimportant. All of this is because the sexually liberated modern woman still innately senses that a life of promiscuity is actually bad