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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by beyoncausme: 12:58pm On Jun 24, 2015
well truth your husband is wrong,but questions have to be asked about u....
what did u do that made ur husbands attension go far from you...I tink u should just be the same person you are in the social media's to your husband in reality...

Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jun 24, 2015
@OP This siyuation would have been better handled if shared with people aho has the experience,theis should be shared admist married men/women and not teenagers/adults still keeping boyfriend/girlfriend I hope you get what am saying sha...May God mend the broken home,and give the wife the wisdom to sort it out...thanks

Don't be surprised when people give you replies based on a movie they watch sha...
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by susanwilliams: 12:58pm On Jun 24, 2015
Me and my husband have been trying for a baby for over three years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 8 months before somebody told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email arewaspecialistttemple@gmail.com I copied the email and I sent him a mail he replied me and I told me all my sorrow is over, but after three years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr Dahiru, Because his pregnancy spell cast put us at ease, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done, he then told me that I should wipe my tears with such comforting words he told me to buy some items that his going to use to cast the pregnancy spell I did and he made the spell for me and told me when next I meet with my husband I we conceive,at first I thought it was a scam but I just followed my inner mind and I sent the money for him to buy all the items after some months I went to check with my doctor and I was 4weeks pregnant, thanks to Dr Dahiru spell temple,I want to use this medium to tell everyone having similar problem. contact him via email: arewaspecialistttemple@gmail.com if you are trying to get a baby or want your lover back. he has powers to do it, he has done mine,
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by whoisuche: 12:59pm On Jun 24, 2015
michaelobinna:

Please this story isn't about me ,a female shared it and I decided to share here..

I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting my hubby’s attention over the years has been very difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’ basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from worse to worst.

I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body parts as the display/profile picture, especially on facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and he keeps falling more and more.

NHW, you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to him every morning and if you see how excited he gets. Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me. He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I try that…the relationship will be over.

Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now locks his phone, as if…

NHW, I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a husband. What do you think?

Should I continue or should I stop?

This will not bring happiness in your home. Pray and sought out things with him. do things that make him happy physical not on facebook.
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by luvly101: 1:00pm On Jun 24, 2015
michaelobinna:

Please this story isn't about me ,a female shared it and I decided to share here..

I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting my hubby’s attention over the years has been very difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’ basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from worse to worst.

I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body parts as the display/profile picture, especially on facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and he keeps falling more and more.

NHW, you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to him every morning and if you see how excited he gets. Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me. He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I try that…the relationship will be over.

Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now locks his phone, as if…

NHW, I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a husband. What do you think?

Should I continue or should I stop?

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin This got me rolling "Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’!"

Well...let's just assume it's not you like you said grin I think you need to complete your script by eventually letting him meet his supposed girlfriend soon.

If he really fell for those things you've been sending him every morning, I see no reason why he won't still fall even after the truth has been revealed.

What i think is the problem between you guys is lack of communication and flirtation wink. You both should better channel your energy In-house and not the way it has been.

Good luck!!!
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by dantobi: 1:01pm On Jun 24, 2015
Don't call that lady that advice u of such a friend what kind of wicked friend is that
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Pastev1(m): 1:03pm On Jun 24, 2015
Madam,
You have done well. But you better be wise at once! "Risk Nothing Reap Nothing" you can look for the book with that title and read.
My advice is any day you gain his mind very well online, tell him to call your that line, give him the time frame that you both will be at home...and when is 3-5 mins to the time just leave his presence and when he call the line start talking with a nice tune at the same time walk in to his direction as a surprise chat, play and joke with him till the point he will play and take you to the chamber where all the past matter shall be resolve...make sure your do your part well both oral and direct entry! Understand?

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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by funlord(m): 1:05pm On Jun 24, 2015
davedave1:
am sure u did not read the content of d story hence u won't cm here to abuse people....people forming I too know end up disgracing themselves'
grin
davedave1:
am sure i did not read the content of d story hence i cm here to abuse people....people forming I too know like me end up disgracing themselves'

Listen KID! Why don't You READ the 3rd comment by "buygala" on the 1st page of the thread next time before you come and display your "late commenting foolishness" on my mentions in the future? Now kindly GET LOST! Ode!
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by davedave1: 1:09pm On Jun 24, 2015
funlord:
grin

Listen KID! Why don't You READ the 3rd comment by "buygala" on the 1st page of the thread next time before you come and display your "late commenting foolishness" on my mentions in the future? Now kindly GET LOST! Ode!
don't worry, I won't stoop so low to exchange abusive words wit u....next time, tk ur time to digest any post bfr spewing thrash....cheers man
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by deavicky(m): 1:11pm On Jun 24, 2015
U will end up destroying ur marriage completely. Cos u are giving him an opportunity to ve the tot of another woman in mind thereby thinking less of u.
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by eyeon(m): 1:15pm On Jun 24, 2015
misspicy:
Op,u mean u flirting on fb with only ur husbad?
lie lie op
As in eehn. LIARS MULTIPLYING LIKE SANDS.
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by MAYOWAAK: 1:15pm On Jun 24, 2015
susanwilliams:
Me and my husband have been trying for a baby for over three years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 8 months before somebody told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email arewaspecialistttemple@gmail.com I copied the email and I sent him a mail he replied me and I told me all my sorrow is over, but after three years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr Dahiru, Because his pregnancy spell cast put us at ease, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done, he then told me that I should wipe my tears with such comforting words he told me to buy some items that his going to use to cast the pregnancy spell I did and he made the spell for me and told me when next I meet with my husband I we conceive,at first I thought it was a scam but I just followed my inner mind and I sent the money for him to buy all the items after some months I went to check with my doctor and I was 4weeks pregnant, thanks to Dr Dahiru spell temple,I want to use this medium to tell everyone having similar problem. contact him via email: arewaspecialistttemple@gmail.com if you are trying to get a baby or want your lover back. he has powers to do it, he has done mine,

Go and open a new thread.Hopefully you will make frontpage that will impress mugus like you.

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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by EBOLAD(m): 1:15pm On Jun 24, 2015
Jaftee:
You are the problem, can't you see?
He is in love with the same person, u said it yourself that you act now the way you did then and that makes him fell in love with you. He is bound to fail your test, stop changing his mode to flirting mode, stop that rubbish and make him fall in love with you again.
Once flirting mode is activated... Hahaha... You know the rest.
words.I love dis,do d same tin U re doing online wen U are togeder now and save ur home back
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jun 24, 2015
DEIFIED:
Shoro niyen.
Your husband must be a slowpoke to be losting after someone who he cant see her face.

Yea, he must be a damn ju man
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Spells(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2015
Ghen ghen....Op u b olofofo ni? Shey ur friend tell u make u share her paroz for n.l? U no wan gree use ur sense. Husband wey dey Facebook, whatsapp n bbm go must b Nairalander...am sure he has read this stuff or will surly do...and uve just alerted other husbands to cross check e'm other concubbines to make sure it ain't e'm wife
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by chigoizie7(m): 1:20pm On Jun 24, 2015
Don't blame him one bit.
What u don't know should not kill you.



Meanwhile, make we all align by 9am tomorrow. For agarawu23

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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Orikinla(m): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2015
Is women in general or Nigerian women?
Their insecurity is their undoing.
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by percyoats(m): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2015
Let me first say, that her husband must be dumb. In truth it is always difficult to say but no woman on a social media would exhibit such traits without an ulterior motive which he ought to have debunked before given in to her persuasiveness. I say this not on theoretical fact but out of fact of what it is today. quoting her word "flirted with him badly".

Now on to the level of him not recognizing HER Pseries grin... I honestly do not see how that's impossible. In truth it may seem weird. But if several Ds where put together for her to pick which belongs to him it might seem the most difficult task ever. Not to mention. He didnt even recognize any of her initial pictures of body parts not to now mention her Private part.

On whether you should continue with this... I'd like to ask, what was the motive for which she started? to get attention, get laid or get money out of him. whichever, she would still eventually come out on this. Just how she does is what I can't say.
PS
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by ITbomb(m): 1:27pm On Jun 24, 2015
wharlzywee:
funny... After showing him ur toto did he penetrate thru fone? u beta find a way of gaining his attention back instead of dat childish play.
I wonder how people gets excited by such pix, for me it is one of the ugliest thing to look at, rather disgusting. I prefer to touch it than to see it

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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jun 24, 2015
Finally, maturity has nothing to do with how many years you've spent on earth...

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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Bonapart(m): 1:28pm On Jun 24, 2015
INTERMAN:
That's what u wld all get. Shebi u want a tall,dark and handsome man ni. A lot of ladies would suffer in their marraige.
you miss one thing
6 packaging
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Richy4(m): 1:29pm On Jun 24, 2015
I thought i read something like this last year.

On a social media or was it on NL?

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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jun 24, 2015
He will divorce you if he finds out! Nonsense childish play....


I was pissed with my girlfriend when she called me with a new number nd started flirting with me on the phone like some secret admirer, she got me all giggling on the phone nd all angry.... Then she called me ashewo angry imagine....

Ladies stop all these nonsense play very unfair.

Plus the ladies don't know its not only the honey we enjoy but the personality carrying the honeypot.... Your husband fell in love or lusting with the girl not exactly her vjay uno.

#better know
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by misspicy(f): 1:31pm On Jun 24, 2015
eyeon:
As in eehn. LIARS MULTIPLYING LIKE SANDS.
lol cheesy
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by BornnAgainChild(f): 1:38pm On Jun 24, 2015
michaelobinna:

Please this story isn't about me ,a female shared it and I decided to share here..


I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me.

This simply means you started tying wrapper and probably you were unkept thats why he had to channel his attention elsewere cos i see no reason why you wouldnt do what you know attracted him to you in the first place at least to keep your marriage intact and not that fake relationship you having right now
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by peedeeasobie(m): 1:40pm On Jun 24, 2015
She lives in a fools paradise!

"in 6 months if you see how much he has sent..." that is the only gain she has!
Which means her major concern is the money!


You called him 'silly' yet you are still 'befriending' him on social networks.
Who told you there aren't other ladies in the same social networks that he's befriending?

Your marriage is in shambles, go and sort it out and stop deceiving yourself!

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Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by DozieInc(m): 1:41pm On Jun 24, 2015
nice one, he didnt even recognise the punny? keep it up.
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by talk2bity: 1:41pm On Jun 24, 2015
Did u though of wat will happen when he finds out?Think about ur children and stop that game of ur.
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by jpphilips(m): 1:43pm On Jun 24, 2015
michaelobinna:

Please this story isn't about me ,a female shared it and I decided to share here..

I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting my hubby’s attention over the years has been very difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’ basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from worse to worst.

I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body parts as the display/profile picture, especially on facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and he keeps falling more and more.

NHW, you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to him every morning and if you see how excited he gets. Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me. He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I try that…the relationship will be over.

Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now locks his phone, as if…

NHW, I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a husband. What do you think?

Should I continue or should I stop?


Funny but true, men hardly remember the organs of women they slept with not even their wives
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Eberex(m): 1:43pm On Jun 24, 2015
undecided

Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by Pesuzok(m): 1:46pm On Jun 24, 2015
this your story, your husband cannot recognize your body after 8 years
Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, Whatsapp & Bbm And He Does Not Know It by PStacks(m): 1:51pm On Jun 24, 2015
michaelobinna:

Please this story isn't about me ,a female shared it and I decided to share here..

I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting my hubby’s attention over the years has been very difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’ basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from worse to worst.

I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body parts as the display/profile picture, especially on facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and he keeps falling more and more.

NHW, you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to him every morning and if you see how excited he gets. Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me. He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I try that…the relationship will be over.

Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now locks his phone, as if…

NHW, I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a husband. What do you think?

Should I continue or should I stop?


Its not the man's fault, atimes you get wound up and choked in marriage so much so u need space for new adventures.

You see, man was never ment to be pinned down in marriage.

These concepts have been sold to us and hold us bound since time immemorial.

One religion says u can marry 4

Another religion says you marry only 1

Can't you peps all see we are all confusing ourselves.

As for what it is, just seek to put a spark to the marriage, come out from playing pranks and own up to your game and u people should just be managing yourselves and enduring yourselves.

I can't beat that concept of "for better for worse till death do us part"

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