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limamintruth:
Well IMHO, home chores must neither be shared 'equally' nor restricted to a particular gender.

Hence, chores should be voluntarily carried out by the partner who has more free time in his/her hands & is not in anyway incapacitated by illhealth.

And even in instances where both spouses are home & not busy, its advisable that such chores be carried out together by them both(with the exception of cooking which is the wife's sole responsibility to do).

FrancisTony:
If she deny it, Ishilove, Lalasticlala and Obinoscopy can check her IP address.

Shollypopzz:
That's news to me, where did you get your data from?? BTW, what do you mean by chore equality?

FrancisTony:
1) She logged out 9.09pm.

2) She referenced babygirl's marriage on what she told me on another thread and I saw when she was viewing.

3) She was on babyosisi case when she wanted to deactivate.

Her moniker is E****.

Kimoni:
Bukatyne said something similar to this. My question is why exempt cooking? Why must cooking alone be restricted to females?

Kimoni:
Bukatyne said something similar to this. My question is why exempt cooking? Why must cooking alone be restricted to females?

armyofone:
The guys don't eat I guess.
How were they living before the ladies came into the picture ....quite puzzling.

oloyede252:
that the main POV of the op post.
chore equality in marriage and relationships.. what your thought about that.



about that stat,it was quoted in a new York times magazine article, you can Google it up

freecocoa:
Since I don't even know the genesis of the story, I will leave you to it, you are not a good ameboist btw.

You couldn't even break it down for me.

SirShymexx:
And some fvcking fugly owanbe sket said I was the one behind that handle.

A lot of folks need to be slapped on this forum.

bukatyne:
Chores can never be equally shared.
Everyone can pull their weight 100% though

oloyede252:
thank you.

Kimoni:
Bukatyne said something similar to this. My question is why exempt cooking? Why must cooking alone be restricted to females?

freecocoa:
Since I don't even know the genesis of the story, I will leave you to it, you are not a good ameboist btw.

You couldn't even break it down for me.

SirShymexx:
That's the homo and stalking shyte I abhor - these plonkers just can't keep my dyck out of their mouths, and they'll always drag me into everything.

I don't when I started giving a fvck about anyone, to start chasing and attacking inconsequential folks. I fight all my wars with my face wide open. Shyte, I can be discussing with 50calibre who is Igbo on one thread - and hit the politics section on a next thread and start fighting tribal wars with Igbos. I don't give a fvck.

Anyway, FrancisTony, you and Mynd44 need to find ya sexuality - both of you are fruity as the bottle of alize drink. Didn't mynd44 call himself a feminist a few days ago? - hahahahahaha. That guy just came out of the closet!

bukatyne:
I did not say cooking should fall on the women only.

However, each home is different and the couple should find out What works for them.

My hubby for instance 100% prefers I cook the soup and store in the freezer and the first person to get home makes dinner.

FrancisTony:
So, a male that supports equality of men & women is gay?

Pray tell, how many self-acclaimed male gays are feminist.
Lets start there....

SirShymexx:
That's the homo and stalking shyte I abhor - these plonkers just can't keep my dyck out of their mouths, and they'll always drag me into everything.

I don't when I started giving a fvck about anyone, to start chasing and attacking inconsequential folks. I fight all my wars with my face wide open. Shyte, I can be discussing with 50calibre who is Igbo on one thread - and hit the politics section on a next thread and start fighting tribal wars with Igbos. I don't give a fvck.

Anyway, FrancisTony, you and Mynd44 need to find ya sexuality - both of you are fruity as the bottle of alize drink. Didn't mynd44 call himself a feminist a few days ago? - hahahahahaha. That guy just came out of the closet!

Mynd44:
You shouldn't have brought my name up in this shymmex.

You shouldn't have at all.

Kimoni:
I know you said bulk cooking while he said and meant all cooking(I believe), just wondering why any chore should still be restricted to a particular gender if we are to accept chore equality.



Exactly! Is this rocket science?

SirShymexx:
1. The word feminist itself is self-explanatory. It means feminine(ist) and when you break "feminine" further down: you'll come up with, having qualities or an appearance traditionally associated with women.

2) Homos are more or less feminine and aligning with the ideology is natural for them if they decide to. So for a guy to say he's a feminist, he's definitely feminine (homo) and he's in his comfort zone

3.) You lot keep letting Chimanmanda who apparently has been suffering from acute depression for a long time (according to the Guardian UK, before she told them to pull the story down) to keep emasculating you with nonsense.

limamintruth:
It seems you didnt understand my post.

I never absolved the man from cooking as you put it. The man is expected to do the chores whenever he is the one home & the wife is busy, sick or not home.

And i also said that wherein both spouses are home together, they should endeavour to do the chores together. It should not necessarily be 50-50 though (so that it wont seem like a competition/challenge; thus no need for any measuring tape )

Note that the restriction on cooking which i made mention of in my other post arises ONLY in instances whe both spouses are home & free.

However, i admit that this is not a one cap fits all thingy cos what may work for Couple A might not be same as what works for Couple B.

dubylhover:
,not all females knw hw to do amebo na

freecocoa:
leave Francis alone jor.

He is every inch a man.

dubylhover:
,of cos nau..abi did i say otherwise?hw do yu even knw he is every inch of a man