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I married my husband sometimes late last year and we have bin living our lives moderately,issue now is am almost due with our first child and since his a banker and not always at home incase I go into labour I was advised to go stay with my family which is just 2 streets away from ours,now am in my family house and last night I dreamt and saw mysef packing out of my husbands home,while there was a lady and daughter,I woke up and prayed about it,only for my husband to call me up now saying his dad wants his step sister whose a corper to come live with us,pls save my young marriage I really don't knw how to feel about dz.

Do you know this your husband step sister prior now, or she just came out from the Blues? Do your dream always come true, from your previous experience? Your hubby may actually mean well for you, he may just want his step sister to be around to take care of you at this stage of your pregnancy. I see nothing out of place in all these, only if there is something you know and we don't.

I only heard of her and how flirteous she has bin during a phone conversation btw her and her mum during my wedding,I don't even knw what she looks like till date.

[color=#000050]First things first. There is no need to worry, alright. You had a dream. It's just a dream. I know some times dreams tend to be revelations of things to come, but at times, it also a product of our fears and thoughts buried in our subconscious. But still, there is no need to get yourself worked up.

Look, if it wasn't a relative that is coming to stay with your husband, that would be another story, but in this case it is his sister. Come on, he won't cheat on you with his sister. Or is there something you are not telling us about this step sister of his?

That being said, I appreciate the fact that you value your marriage and you don't want any thing to come between it. Believe me, that's a virtue and may God bless you for that.
Please don't trouble yourself because of this matter. Remember you are pregnant and at the verge of delivery, so you shouldn't put any pressure whatsoever on yourself.

It's also good that you are prayerful, just keep on praying against the dream you had. Don't worry, your marriage is secure. You will give birth safely and you will go back to your matrimonial home and everything will be fine.

Wishing you safe delivery. [/color]

Why can't you remain in your husband's house and communicate with your family on phone?
Labour will not just start without giving you signs.
When you sense you are in labour, you put a call across to your people.
That dream was just a revelation as to what is about to happen, no need to be scared.
Have you agreed already that she should come over?

Lol take care of me is out of it,I don't knw maybe is because am still newly married but I don't just feel ok with it,if I was in the house nd not that of my parent I won't have a problem wit all dz,I don't just knw how to explain what I feel btw my dream always does come true unless I pray my way out of it.

modelmike7:
Do you know this your husband step sister prior now, or she just came out from the Blues? Do your dream always come true, from your previous experience? Your hubby may actually mean well for you, he may just want his step sister to be around to take care of you at this stage of your pregnancy. I see nothing out of place in all these, only if there is something you know and we don't.

nice question

When I say my husband step sister It actually like dz....her mom had her for her first husband before marrying my husband's father

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]First things first. There is no need to worry, alright. You had a dream. It's just a dream. I know some times dreams tend to be revelations of things to come, but at times, it also a product of our fears and thoughts buried in our subconscious. But still, there is no need to get yourself worked up.

Look, if it wasn't a relative that is coming to stay with your husband, that would be another story, but in this case it is his sister. Come on, he won't cheat on you with his sister. Or is there something you are not telling us about this step sister of his?

That being said, I appreciate the fact that you value your marriage and you don't want any thing to come between it. Believe me, that's a virtue and may God bless you for that.
Please don't trouble yourself because of this matter. Remember you are pregnant and at the verge of delivery, so you shouldn't put any pressure whatsoever on yourself.

It's also good that you are prayerful, just keep on praying against the dream you had. Don't worry, your marriage is secure. You will give birth safely and you will go back to your matrimonial home and everything will be fine.

Wishing you safe delivery. [/color]

thank u so much!

ejeh121:
Lol take care of me is out of it,I don't knw maybe is because am still newly married but I don't just feel ok with it,if I was in the house nd not that of my parent I won't have a problem wit all dz,I don't just knw how to explain what I feel btw my dream always does come true unless I pray my way out of it.

....... Well, i thought your hubby brought his step sister to assist you and he wanted you to come back to the house, when i talked about she 'taking care of you, i actually mean she assisting you.' Did your hubby talked about you returning home now, since someone will be at home to assist you? .....About your dream, I'll advise you to pray your way out of this one also.

ejeh121:
thank u so much!

[color=#000050]You are welcome.[/color]

You said she's a step sister right?Why don't you just confirm she is indeed family?
I don't think your hubby will marry his step sister.

It's okay to stay with your family since your hubby is not always around.It's important to have someone around when labour starts.Since you say your family house is not far from you,you can always get someone drive you there and back if need be.

Next time you have the kind of dream you have,just pray about it and exercise the believer's authority.Don't let fear rule your heart.

ejeh121:
When I say my husband step sister It actually like dz....her mom had her for her first husband before marrying my husband's father

.............. Okay, they are more like 'distant step brother and sister then'. I shared your assertion along that line.

Be prayerful, be viligant, be smart. As long as u are the woman in the house, always make ur husband satisfaction a top priority. Meanwhile, try discussing what you dreamt with ur hubby. I hope everything would be fine in nearest future... Safe delivery

Thank u all for the advices and AMEN to all your prayers!

From my experience dreams are good time messager don't ever toy with spiritual guide!
Moreso at this stage her hub nds staying closer ever than b4 to enable easy birth..Only the aged/ and the experienced can understand..Just ask well ooo!

You are being paranoid sis. Your dream has come to pass already. You packed out of your house because your EDD is approaching, your sister in law moved in probably because your husband is worried and kinda missed you, and requested for her help. Just get your loads back and let your sister in law who is even older than your husband to take care of you please.

In laws are not devils, just relate normally and do unto her as you will like her to do unto you shikena.!!!!

LadyFiona:
You are being paranoid sis. Your dream has come to pass already. You packed out of your house because your EDD is approaching, your sister in law moved in probably because your husband is worried and kinda missed you, and requested for her help. Just get your loads back and let your sister in law who is even older than your husband to take care of you please.

In laws are not devils, just relate normally and do unto her as you will like her to do unto you shikena.!!!!

R u married? Did u read the entire thread? U shouldn't just add a comment cos u want to be heard pls.

ejeh121:
R u married? Did u read the entire thread? U shouldn't just add a comment cos u want to be heard pls.

I don't need the entire thread to comment, I only need your posts which is what I am basing my write up on.
I refuse to join the bandwagon.
Yes, I've been married for close to a decade.

Anyway, I don't think you actually need any advice, you want to continue wallowing in self pity at the same time looking for people who will cement your fears. Good luck.

LadyFiona:
I don't need the entire thread to comment, I only need your posts which is what I am basing my write up on.
I refuse to join the bandwagon.
Yes, I've been married for close to a decade.

Anyway, I don't think you actually need any advice, you want to continue wallowing in self pity at the same time looking for people who will cement your fears. Good luck.

Now I pity who married u! Must be hell of a decade

ejeh121:
Now I pity who married u! Must be hell of a decade

Your husband is really having it bad with your attitude. Quit insulting and grow up.

I don't have to massage your ego and pet you with words. Just because your husband is not always around , you have to run to your parents 3 blocks away to be taken care of. Why not stay back and let somebody from your family stay with you or visit you? You have a preconceived idea of things/ motives of people that even dreams scares you.

I am a very practical person and I didn't complain about my marriage, you're the one living in hell already. Not less than one year of your marriage, you're complaining of things which shouldn't have been an issue.
Please, quit stressing yourself at this your last trimester.

I am telling you what I will tell my younger ones, and if you come at me with that bunch of bullshit and bullwhips again, you will be sorry!!!!!

ejeh121:
Lol take care of me is out of it,I don't knw maybe is because am still newly married but I don't just feel ok with it,if I was in the house nd not that of my parent I won't have a problem wit all dz,I don't just knw how to explain what I feel btw my dream always does come true unless I pray my way out of it.

Since going back to your husband's house will calm your fears, then please do.... You can always communicate with your people or get any of your relative to come over temporarily pending when you deliver. ... This is what you should have done at first even, why packing out?....

ejeh121:
When I say my husband step sister It actually like dz....her mom had her for her first husband before marrying my husband's father

Is her mum your husband's mum too? Or no blood connection at all??

Also, how long is she going to stay when she comes? This should be defined before she comes...

MarvellousGod:
Since going back to your husband's house will calm your fears, then please do.... You can always communicate with your people or get any of your relative to come over temporarily pending when you deliver. ... This is what you should have done at first even, why packing out?....


Is her mum your husband's mum too? Or no blood connection at all??

Also, how long is she going to stay when she comes? This should be defined before she comes...

tnx dear her mum is actually my husband step mum,but it all over now she has found another place to stay

LadyFiona:
Your husband is really having it bad with your attitude. Quit insulting and grow up.

I don't have to massage your ego and pet you with words. Just because your husband is not always around , you have to run to your parents 3 blocks away to be taken care of. Why not stay back and let somebody from your family stay with you or visit you? You have a preconceived idea of things/ motives of people that even dreams scares you.

I am a very practical person and I didn't complain about my marriage, you're the one living in hell already. Not less than one year of your marriage, you're complaining of things which shouldn't have been an issue.
Please, quit stressing yourself at this your last trimester.

I am telling you what I will tell my younger ones, and if you come at me with that bunch of bullshit and bullwhips again, you will be sorry!!!!!

LOLS why the heck r u sounding like you are the girl and am refusing your visit? U don't have to sound like patience ozokwor to be understood or heard nd if its in your nature take it elsewia!!!

ejeh121:
LOLS why the heck r u sounding like you are the girl and am refusing your visit? U don't have to sound like patience ozokwor to be understood or heard nd if its in your nature take it elsewia!!!

Laugh all you want, it is good for the unborn baby.

Wishing a safe delivery.

Now go and pack your delivery bag so you don't have to be caught unawares.