₦airaland Forum

1.) “Gay”
This word doesn’t mean ‘happy’ anymore.
It is more renowned as a word
synonymous with homosexuals. In a
society where it is already difficult enough
for these people to fit in, it doesn’t help
when the word ‘gay’ is now used to
describe a stupid or unfortunate situation.
Everyday we can hear people say: “I hate
this museum, it’s so gay.” When used in
the wrong circumstance, ‘gay’ can be
incredibly offensive especially around
homosexuals. They probably don’t
appreciate hearing that they are being
used to describe something boring or
underwhelm.

2.) “Never mind, you don’t get
it”
Nobody likes being left out of the loop,
and used in the wrong context, this can
make it sound like you left the person out
on purpose. Although you may have only
meant for it to be a quick dismissal of a
subject, it could come off as rude and
flippant, which destroys relationships
rather than maintains them. Next time try
providing an explanation, no matter how
brief.

3.) “You’re adopted”
There should be no good reason to use
this phrase in conversation with someone
obviously not adopted. It becomes an
issue when you use the phrase in
inappropriate situations. For example:
“You are nothing like your siblings. It’s like
you’re adopted or something.” A person
with a good sense of humor probably
wouldn’t mind too much, however some
people are less humorous and would
potentially be offended at this statement.
These kinds of assumptions, regardless of
intention, can be dangerous in
conversation.

4.) “You_____like a girl”
Girls around the word, especially feminists,
find this statement incredibly insulting.
Statements such as: “You walk like a girl”
are usually said with intentions to insult.
While it can be argued that it was meant
as a joke, especially towards a very good
friend or family member, it can also be
rude if used in the wrong situation with
the wrong crowd.

5.) “Black”
It is controversial, however while you may
have only intended to point out the color
of their skin, some people are sensitive
about the use of the word. They may feel
as though it marginalizes them into a
minority and it either offend them or
makes the, uncomfortable.
Rather than using the word ‘black’, it
might be more practical to label them by
ethnicity instead, for example, African
American.

6.) “I don’t care”
This is a very common phrase for
someone to say in a variety of situations,
and it is obvious that it can easily offend.
It is never nice to say that you don’t care
about something or someone, even in a
joking manner. To those who are a bit
more sensitive. they might take your
words more seriously than you think.
Altogether, it is best to assume that this
phrase is offensive in most situations.

7.) “You’re just confused”
Even if you are right, it is deeply
offensive if you make them sound stupid.
More often than not you might think you
know the whole story in a particular
situation, but chances are, you don’t. Be
polite to a person in a situation of crisis. It
might help maintain your relationship if
you offer your support rather than
dismissing their situation.

8.) “What’s the point?”
Although you may have asked this from a
viewpoint of curiosity, it is easy for this
statement to sound offensive. Depending
on the sensitivity or the person and the
circumstance, you might sound like you
are dismissing their explanation before
they even try explaining. It sounds rude
and there are many more polite ways to
ask about the purpose of an action.

9.) “You’re too uptight”
People have certain passions and motives,
and to imply they are ‘too uptight’ can be
extremely hurtful. If they feel strongly
about something and you don’t
understand why, it might still be better to
ask them why rather than unintentionally
suggest that it doesn’t matter.

10.) “Have you been living
under a rock?”
This is a very popular expression used
with people who are less aware of the
world around them than most. Keep in
mind that they are probably not aware of
this fact and implying that they are
ignorant, even in a joking manner can
come across are offensive. Some people
are more attuned to their surroundings
than most, however it is no reason to
criticize those who are less worldly than
you.

11.) “You’re not that stupid”
Although this is usually meant as a
compliment, certain situations can turn it
into an insult instead. For example, if
someone close to you wants to do
something you know is harmful, you will
be inclined to make a comment along the
lines of: “Don’t do it, you’re not that
stupid.” At this stage, it can be taken as
offensive, since it implies that they aren’t
smart enough to make their own
decisions. Overall, this phrase might do
more harm than good in most situations.

ADD URZ....

Hmmmm

so true, that "never mind" dey always pain me...

Nigga isn't an offensiv word nowadays.. Infact we just call our home boys nigga

nothing hurts more than when you are damn serious with what you're saying only for the babe to flip her hair, throw her left hand in the air, hiss and say "woreva!" (whatever)

Penssuwa:
nothing hurts more than when you are damn serious with what you're saying only for the babe to flip her hair, throw her left hand in the air, hiss and say "woreva!" (whatever)

lol,i tink say na only me e dey pain o, dats y i ignored it.

The one I hate most is [size=20pt]"WHATEVER" [/size]tell me that word and your head is gone



















The annoying thing is that some troublesome nairalanders will still mention me and say the word. Well you will deserve what will hit you once u say or type the word to me

ramdris:
The one I hate most is [size=20pt]"WHATEVER" [/size]tell me that word and your head is gone



















The annoying thing is that some troublesome nairalanders will still mention me and say the word. Well you will deserve what will hit you once u say or type the word to me

ramdris:
The one I hate most is [size=20pt]"WHATEVER" [/size]tell me that word and your head is gone



















The annoying thing is that some troublesome nairalanders will still mention me and say the word. Well you will deserve what will hit you once u say or type the word to me

See your senseless spacing? WHATEVER man!

Not all d words you listed hurt people generally
But it my hurt u .. @ Op doesn't mean it hurts ppl
Eg
Slow= wetin concern me .. Dat word dont hurt infact dis is the first im hearing if it
Nigga= depends who says it
No5 = lol never heard that .. Msyb nigerians use it alot * shrugs*

Cutehector:
Nigga isn't an offensiv word nowadays.. Infact we just call our home boys nigga

N it hurts to d point they start crying lols
It only hurts if used by the wrong ppl n hurt is serious ish .. Like if a white guy calls me nigga it wont hurt but he would get slapped or i just report him he go spend fee days in prison .. That doesnt hurt
It angers ppl because we know our history .. It doesnt cause pain .. We blive it does but its anger not hurt .

OK...next

LadyBoss1:
N it hurts to d point they start crying lols
It only hurts if used by the wrong ppl n hurt is serious ish .. Like if a white guy calls me nigga it wont hurt but he would get slapped or i just report him he go spend fee days in prison .. That doesnt hurt
It angers ppl because we know our history .. It doesnt cause pain .. We blive it does but its anger not hurt .

ah won't be offended if. A white dude calls me nigga... Dats his business...





Ftr(for the record), I did miss u

funlord:



See your senseless spacing? WHATEVER man!

See them. Smh.

These words may hurt alright but nothing hurts more than "Whatever". Trust me,I have used that thousand times to know its effect.
My ex fit talk for hours on top that " Whatever " and trust Sparks to use it always.

Another strong one is "Rubbish".
Though not as strong as " Whatever " but that has got me apologising to a number of persons a number of time.

Talk about bad mouth,guilty as charged.

Can't stand the word 'WHATEVER '



Brings out the serial killer in me

kinglekan:
Whatever!! Nevermind!!
The sound of it alone can make me order a coffin for the babe.
Arrant Nonsense!!

Whatever, dude
ooops... I just couldn't help it.

Op this your post. is Stuffy.

Cutehector:
ah won't be offended if. A white dude calls me nigga... Dats his business...
Ftr(for the record), I did miss u

Aww *hugs* was wondering where my baby went to

Yh most of the things listed doesnt hurt .. It can be irritating or make u angry but not hurt .. op should modify lol or else no Fp

kinglekan:



Don't let me send you to the morgue!!

*licks his eye*'

LadyBoss1:
Aww *hugs* was wondering where my baby went to

Yh most of the things listed doesnt hurt .. It can be irritating or make u angry but not hurt .. op should modify lol or else no Fp

ehen lala she u get lalasticlala connection... I go dey pay u make my topic dey enta front page, how u see am

The Last babe that told me 'Wharever' is Currently in 'ICU'

kinglekan:

Whatever!! Nevermind!!

The sound of it alone can make me order a coffin for the babe.

Arrant Nonsense!!

warefa

kinglekan:

Whatever!! Nevermind!!

The sound of it alone can make me order a coffin for the babe.

Arrant Nonsense!!

warefa

Davena:
warefa warefa

I don't want fresh blood spilled.

kinglekan:
I don't want fresh blood spilled.

u can't do anything to me [quote author=kinglekan post=35810918]

LadyBoss1:
*licks his eye*'

hmmm