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For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by Baddo101(op): 3:35pm On Aug 01, 2015
I dont know how to put this but let me start like this


Do you believe in bringing spirituality into play when choosing or selecting a spouse?

Isnt it better to start from the physical attraction first, character and others before looking into consulting pastors,priests,imams,alfa"s and herbalists etc for spiritual compatibility check?

For me i think spirituality should be at minimal level while the others should come first

For the Married, what made you convinced that this is d bone of my bone d flesh of my flesh?

Mature comments and life experiences are highly appreciated...
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by lekejob(m): 3:36pm On Aug 01, 2015
It all depends on ur background, what u believe n ur expectation. To me d level of ur spirituality'll help u even in choosing, and i can say there is no specific formula in choosing, so just follow ur hearth.
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by Baddo101(op): 3:50pm On Aug 01, 2015
lekejob:
It all depends on ur background, what u believe n ur expectation. To me d level of ur spirituality'll help u even in choosing, and i can say there is no specific formula in choosing, so just follow ur hearth.
Ok. Thanks
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by jamex93(m): 4:04pm On Aug 01, 2015
To keep woman for house na very serious issue o.... U need lots of prayers so going for pastor should d ur num1
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by Baddo101(op): 4:11pm On Aug 01, 2015
jamex93:
To keep woman for house na very serious issue o.... U need lots of prayers so going for pastor should d ur num1
What if ur pastor select one for u and u find out una no dey compactible characterwise or she get some odd perceptions that doesnt agree wth urs?
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by ArchEnemy(m): 4:14pm On Aug 01, 2015
Baddo101:
What if ur pastor select one for u and u find out una no dey compactible characterwise or she get some odd perceptions that doesnt agree wth urs?
ordinarily a pastor should not even select a wife for you

Always pray and ve your own convictions. ..we all need God for a healthy relationship...... physical attraction plays a role. But been mislead could ruin someone's destiny.
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by jamex93(m): 4:20pm On Aug 01, 2015
Baddo101:
What if ur pastor select one for u and u find out una no dey compactible characterwise or she get some odd perceptions that doesnt agree wth urs?
. . . . . . . . . . How pastor go select wife for u, its ur duty to select ur wife and pastors duty to pray
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by Baddo101(op): 4:21pm On Aug 01, 2015
ArchEnemy:
ordinarily a pastor should not even select a wife for you

Always pray and ve your own convictions. ..we all need God for a healthy relationship...... physical attraction plays a role. But been mislead could ruin someone's destiny.
Ok. thanks
Re: For Bachelors And Spinsters & Couples.... by Baddo101(op): 4:22pm On Aug 01, 2015
jamex93:
. . . . . . . . . . How pastor go select wife for u, its ur duty to select ur wife and pastors duty to pray
yea...
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