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Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by raayah(f): 12:43pm On Jul 14, 2015
Adufetohposh:
There is no way they won't have kids, d lady @ 32 is desperate to be a mum hence her reason for pushing for marriage despite knowing the guy is not financially stable!



Op frustration will set in, Regrets and all.... But I'm not GOD so I can't tell d future, but I will advise u to get a job first.
You are right. @32, A woman is reaching menopause.

OP Is in a tight spot.
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by stinggy(m): 6:11pm On Jul 14, 2015
chimkaire:
angryWhy is SHE not working sad
Some ladies are wicked oooooo sad.
It beats me why they bundle a guy into marriage jobless and remains jobless only for the guy to slave to spend on her slobby *ss embarassed
Anyway, na guy wey gree for that kain nansense I go blame, I kukuma no dey pity such guys. Mtcheeeeeeeeews.
OP, ntooooooor tongue tongue tongue tongue
grin grin grin cool
Shebi na y me wan marry u b dt. Cnt help to av a parasitic home-sitter undecided tongue
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jul 14, 2015
stinggy:
Shebi na y me wan marry u b dt. Cnt help to av a parasitic home-sitter undecided tongue
grin for you, I will be a para..... Home-sitter cheesy

Daddy wa, kosi ata n'le angry undecided
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by stinggy(m): 6:40pm On Jul 14, 2015
chimkaire:
grin for you, I will be a para..... Home-sitter cheesy

Daddy wa, kosi ata n'le angry undecided
D disappointment wey mommy wa go experience ehnnn lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Na made-in-heaven cry
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jul 14, 2015
raayah:
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you can both go to court or church to get married. No spending. Just you and your girlfriend. She is aware of your situation and still wants to marry you. Do it the easy way and cheap way.

She will come to live with you and maybe you can work/ find jobs together.

The only advice i have is for you not to have kids until you are financially stable. You dont want to bring your kid into this world to suffer.
OP....if you know what is good for you...if you want to marry your girlfriend....do this
Exactly the way it is said here
Thanks
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jul 14, 2015
stinggy:
D disappointment wey mommy wa go experience ehnnn lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Na made-in-heaven cry
...lmao!!! K'osi owo ounje mo sad
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by jossy26: 12:26am On Jul 15, 2015
@op, please postpone your wedding till a later date while you hustle like theres no tomorrow, you really need to be stable financially to have a successful home, theres no way you wont procreate unless you have issues so get out there make some money and marry your woman. The lord is your strength, better still relocate to lagos you will find something to do
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by Phboy1(op): 7:02pm On Aug 06, 2015
Thanks everyone that took time to reply to my post. I finally cancelled the marriage because i could see anyway i can make it happen with my little resource.
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by dahmie2013: 8:50pm On Aug 06, 2015
Op, ur situatn is quite unfortunate. But 2 tell u d blatant truth, marriage shudnt be in ur plans now. @ ur age u shud know dat thing called "love" is a farce. D reality is Money & more Money. Even myself, I cannot marry without a job. I tell my friends, d man dat will tell me not 2 work has not been born.

In short, were are all dese ladies rushing 2? Tiwa was 34 when she married & 2day she has a child. What is dis unnecessary pressure? After d wedding u start suffering & smiling.

Op, u're d man here o! Don't allow a woman dictate 2 u how u run ur life. What's d worse dat can happen, she leaves&so what? Bro, life goes on.
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by Phboy1(op): 11:51pm On Aug 06, 2015
@ dahmie2013, thanks for ur candid comments.
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by KanwuliaJara: 3:37am On Aug 07, 2015
Rubbish!

MY MEGHAD FOR NIGERIA get wife and 2 kids!
Dem dey manage well-well!

DUDE! You have no excuse to keep PHOCKING without commitment!

Thank you! kiss
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by Acidosis(m): 3:56am On Aug 07, 2015
Go and get married. For how long will you keep "hustling"? Till 40? 50?

By the time you get rich at age 40, married at age 41, driving your kids to write JAMB at age 68, you will hate yourself and blame none except you for waiting till 40 before settling down.


It is not the N100k/monthly stuff that will make your marriage work; but how well you and your wife manage the little/or big amount you have.
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by raayah(f): 6:04am On Aug 07, 2015
Phboy1:
Thanks everyone that took time to reply to my post. I finally cancelled the marriage because i could see anyway i can make it happen with my little resource.
OP, I am very sorry. I hope that you get a Job and everything works out for you.
Re: Please I Need Your Candid Advise Can A Marriage Survive Without Money? by awa(m): 4:55pm On Aug 07, 2015
Dear Sir,

You took a very big risk but may God see you through because he who find a wife find a good thing and obtain favor from the Lord.
All the best
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