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Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by Qualer: 2:09pm On Jun 28, 2015
firstEVA:
so why will he continue to give her when she doesn't really lack anything?

If she was someone who needed help, well maybe, but in this case, the guy is just sowing a seed which he hopes to germinate soon, u know what I mean.
send me your account number, dear!
Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by magaman: 5:53am On Jun 29, 2015
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firstEVA:
so why will he continue to give her when she doesn't really lack anything?

If she was someone who needed help, well maybe, but in this case, the guy is just sowing a seed which he hopes to germinate soon, u know what I mean.
there is some sense in ur analysis some how somtin is amiss. Notin goes
4 notin.
Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by Youngpo413: 6:51am On Aug 09, 2015
DatBossAssChick:
Don't know how to start this..

I know in this our society nothing goes for nothing.. I've know this man for a year plus, he is very friendly and generous to me, but he is married and I'm in a serious relationship which I have disclosed to him but he keeps insisting we keep this friendship as it is.

Of course man shall not live by bread alone, I'm working and I still leave under my parents roof and my parents still gives me enough money, so I'm very much comfy but most times I need more but not to the extent of borrowing or asking anyone for money. Ok!how he got my account number?!.. was when i was serving and i was kinda broke and i just passed the info to him jokingly and next thing was an alert! I was kinda shocked, happy and grateful at the same time. Since then it is now a regular thing which is becoming scary and I don't want to be blinded by these things.

I've tried to give this man enough distance but it isnt enough, he understands I'm trying to do that but still insist we keep. I keep wondering what one can do.. It won't be funny if my guy finds out that I keep receiving money from him and might not believe my explanations.

What can I do? Pls who else has gone through this before?

Pls matured opinions and critics pls don't criticize.
what's so special about sex sef?he is just a generous man that's all.
Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by DatBossAssChick(op): 7:38am On Aug 09, 2015
Youngpo413:
what's so special about sex sef?he is just a generous man that's all.
My thought exactly but it's far from that.
Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by Youngpo413: 7:41am On Aug 09, 2015
DatBossAssChick:
My thought exactly but it's far from that.
Then Guts over Fear
Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by deor03(m): 7:52am On Aug 09, 2015
Of course ,he wants to sleep with you.

He is saving up his goodwill, so that, when it's time, you will not put up too much resistance.

If you really don't want, close the account and open another
Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by DatBossAssChick(op): 7:54am On Aug 09, 2015
Youngpo413:
Then Guts over Fear
No avoidance it is.
Re: Advice Pls: This Married Man Sends Me Money But Doesn't Want Sex. by Youngpo413: 7:55am On Aug 09, 2015
DatBossAssChick:
No avoidance it is.
hmmm,this one don pass me o
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