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Re: Broken- Advice by SAMBARRY: 12:43pm On Aug 12, 2015
wisdomiskey:
yezz ma.
console thyself kiss
those are facts, they're not consolation grin


Meanwhile direct your kiss to your pit latrine grin



next grin
Re: Broken- Advice by SAMBARRY: 12:47pm On Aug 12, 2015
grin grin grin

abeg don't waste all your energy typing for little insolent adolescent grin


when they grow up they'll be wiser grin

go and eat that vegetable soup before it gets cold. Childishness dey worry them grin
cococandy:
Lol. Try and find a way to blame her for it.

Have you denied him sex?
Are you neglecting him?
Re: Broken- Advice by TheSonOfMark(m): 1:03pm On Aug 12, 2015
wisdomiskey:
lolz
yuh will die alone
nd wura will become a lezzbian kiss

Erm, please you can insult the woman as much as you want and her parents even but I am just a little uncomfortable with cursing her child.

If we all had to pay for our parents' errors, we'd all be dead by now.

You can continue to attack her though.
Re: Broken- Advice by KanwuliaJara: 2:11pm On Aug 12, 2015
SAMBARRY:
No I'm not in any way endorsing or supporting cheating but does she want to claim she didn't see symptoms all because she wanted to win the Mrs Grammy awards
E-heeehn!
OP! Ova to you! cheesy
Re: Broken- Advice by scarletmoon: 3:10pm On Aug 12, 2015
FrancisTony:
She's actually a dude handling yorubadelta/Lolaredvelvet and probably the fresh whatever.
how jobless can a person be to run so many alt accounts at the same time?
His case is not even joblessness anymore, its mental problems.
Re: Broken- Advice by scarletmoon: 3:13pm On Aug 12, 2015
@op,
go and dry clean your red pant and bra and wear it.
Osisor, time is wasting or don't you know many fine girls can take your place if you slack?
Re: Broken- Advice by MRBrownJ:
chizzy86:
hey dear. You just have to talk with him. Giving him the silent treatment may not really help matters. He has no right to do what he did. MrBrownJ you were auite harsh with your reply. How would you feel if your woman did that to you?
if my woman gave me the silent treatment let her understand how childish this "silent treatment" nonsense is. how can she solve anything if she doesnt communicate?!?!?!?!?!? should he read her damn mind?

vouriotp:
He is my husband and we go through each others phone once in while, you don't call dat snooping I guess u r in the category of men that pretend.mteeeeeew
just because someone let you handle their phone doesnt mean you have to check each and every messages there. if you do, then thats snooping.
furthermore, what does PRETENSE got to do with anything?!

innervoice:
Would you have given her the same advice if she was the husband?
whats good for the goose is good for the gander, NO gender discrimination here!

Kimoni:
Bullshit
you are entited to your opinion, just as i am entitled to mine.
Re: Broken- Advice by Chillis: 9:24pm On Aug 12, 2015
Nigerian women and suffering .

Say yes to feminism and All your problem will go away grin.

This small problem you no fit solve.
I trust my feminists , they would have gotten answer to this without even blinking.

Anyway, op.. just keep praying.

Miracle is on thé way.
Re: Broken- Advice by BluStreak(m):
Chidoks:
I read through all the comments and wondered why some women talk in razz manner.like seriously? your husband baby factory is a public property?? what does that make your own? you accuse decent women of praying & fasting,plus making excuses for their husbands yet you liken their( and your) most private property to a stairway.this is not the will of God o! you people should learn to fear God.don't go about confusing and corrupting young ladies and newly married women
** If you are about to marry or are newly married please disregard most comments here.be humble.a good wife is not the one that jumps out of marriage at the slightest provocation.a good wife is that one that takes the pain , makes the sacrifices to be meek, humble and submissive.my people the kind of beating this 'open-eye' women receive on a daily basis from their husbands and even strangers no get part two..the truth is that if you cannot keep one man, you cannot keep the next.
** Op talk to him.let him know you feel disappointed.he's yours , you know how to reach out to him.continue loving him.look inwards too.could there be anything that is capable of putting him off? address such.it may not even be your fault.it could be psychological.the poor man may not have come to terms as to how a head could pass through 'there' .may God grant you the wisdom you need.(amen)
I just keep loving this woman. It was this mentality that made our mothers and grand mothers grow old with their husbands and saw grand and great grand children.

Hold tight to your virtues sweet one. It is priceless. Let the chest beaters be wallowing in perpetual misery.
Re: Broken- Advice by GodnGold: 9:45am On Aug 13, 2015
Well done chidoks and Blustreak. At least some people still remember how it USED to be.Call me old fashioned or outdated but I still love how our parents handled their marital issues.We have a saying in my place;"ONYE bu mmadu uzo sibe ite n'ebu uzo enwe mkpo- mkpo ite".I will explain...if one starts cooking before another ,the former will have lots of cracked pots before the later.Seek counselling from decent old couples.They know a lot and have being through a lot. It's a secret I adopted.When I have issues with my sweet and I tell my mum she quickly takes sides with my hubby and it annoys me so much and on one occasion i asked her and she gave a priceless answer."You are my daughter and if I take sides with you,that is pouring fuel to a burning coal and it burns more, I don't want fire in your home".After that talk,I can't remember the last time I had serious issues with hubby.For the unmarried,before you fall head over heels in love and marriage,ask for your parents opinion,they are important basics we have forgotten.That,is #myhumbleopinion.
Re: Broken- Advice by Nobody: 5:48pm On Aug 13, 2015
[color=#990000][/color] grin :DThanks to everyone that took out time to give me good advice, may u all never lack help and guidance kiss. And to those dat spewed rubbish well.......you know d rest.
Re: Broken- Advice by thorpido(m): 8:09pm On Aug 13, 2015
vouriotp:
[color=#990000][/color] grin :DThanks to everyone that took out time to give me good advice, may u all never lack help and guidance kiss. And to those dat spewed rubbish well.......you know d rest.
Have you had a talk with him?
Re: Broken- Advice by Abiababe(f): 9:38am On Aug 14, 2015
My dear, ur lucky ur husband just had one dirty chat and he's guilty about it. There are others that do it frequently and its now a thing to overlook its no longer considered as anything. Ur lucky
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