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aigjoey:
He wouldn't dear.. I may consider leaving the marriage. I think there is a motive to his behavior. He actually took me to the his doctor this last time for the baby to be aborted but I ran away.. To be candid with you I think my husband is a cultist.. am just thinking

Since your guts is telling you he is occultic, you better be steps ahead of him, be prepared for life without him and be prayerful because if he is really one as the signs around him says, he may make the pregnancy rough for you. If you abort this one, he may use it as an opportunity to strike seeing that you are getting wiser. The signs are all over and dont be decieved his silence means he has accepted defeat, save yourself now.

thorpido:
Women also can be selfish.How can a woman marry a man that takes her through six abortions?Can't she think?Doesn't she have a brain?
I hope enlightenment and empowerment of women will keep growing so they can make the right decisions for themselves rather than just being a house furniture.

I hope so too.

aigjoey:
He wouldn't dear.. I may consider leaving the marriage. I think there is a motive to his behavior. He actually took me to the his doctor this last time for the baby to be aborted but I ran away.. To be candid with you I think my husband is a cultist.. am just thinking

My dear, your life, your decision. Nobody can tell you what to do as you are an adult. I however pray you make the decision that is best for you this time. You deserve the best. Best of luck dear.

freecocoa:
This is either a joke, a lie or you are crazy.

What do you mean by he refused all forms of birth control?

...Honestly it isn't a joke.. I think i was stupid and now my eyes are opened.

GHoJes:
You are beginning to churn out meaningless posts, life was better when you laid low.
It is very possible for her to be irresponsible yet impossible for any man to be stupid.

Take your finger and remove the log from both your eyes before you face me.
Irresponsible is a mild way of putting it. Aborting is puting an abrobt end to a life.
And sorry I wasn't laying low...just too busy.

mutter:
Take your finger and remove the log from both your eyes before you face me.
Irresponsible is a mild way of putting it. Aborting is puting an abrobt end to a life.
And sorry I wasn't laying low...just too busy.

If she had come here to complain the first time she was asked to abort you would have told her to be submissive and keep her marriage. She has been submissive like you, now you call her irresponsible so that you can live comfortably in your world where man is god and blameless. Abortion is killing, yet the man that took her to his doctor for abortion is blameless because by you, no man is silly.

GHoJes:
If she had come here to complain the first time she was asked to abort you would have told her to be submissive and keep her marriage. She has been submissive like you, now you call her irresponsible so that you can live comfortably in your world where man is god and blameless. Abortion is killing, yet the man that took her to his doctor for abortion is blameless because by you, no man is silly.

A woman that is submissive to her husband is hopefully more submissive to the will of God.
If your husband asks you to sin are you helping him by sinning. ? No you are condemning both of you.
She could have involved the family.

aigjoey:
And also note that he had refused all forms of birth control I suggested to him

How's this even possible? Like if you went to get pills or injections he'd neutralise them from taking effevt in your body? So, you can't defy him and take contraceptives but you can defy him and decide to keep the baby?


Funny woman.

mutter:
A woman that is submissive to her husband is hopefully more submissive to the will of God.
If your husband asks you to sin are you helping him by sinning. ? No you are condemning both of you.
She could have involved the family.

She should, she could, she... If the man asked her to sin and she did, she is the one that condemns them both.
When you were advised submit in all things you didnt tell her some are sins, now you turn to blame her for irresponsibility. When you also blamed that girl her to be mil told not to sleep together with her fiance under her roof for not being discreet with her fornication, it was not sin, now submission has gone sour you remembered something called sin. My ish with you is absolving the man of any blame.
I just exhausted the time i have to waste.

GHoJes:
She should, she could, she... If the man asked her to sin and she did, she is the one that condemns them both.
When you were advised submit in all things you didnt tell her some are sins, now you turn to blame her for irresponsibility. When you also blamed that girl her to be mil told not to sleep together with her fiance under her roof for not being discreet with her fornication, it was not sin, now submission has gone sour you remembered something called sin. My ish with you is absolving the man of any blame.
I just exhausted the time i have to waste.

I am not absolving the mam of any blame but he is not the one seeking advice here.
You misunderstood me.
I meant no man would be silly enough to ask a woman not to do birth control and yet to abort. The man is trying to kill her or get rid of her. If she continue s at this rate she will be risking her life .
Hence I described her as irresponsible . The man for me is a killer.

Arent there any female contraceptives you could use or your husband said you shouldnt use contraceptives too?

All these sensational stewpid topics to create attention. Six abortion huh?? Maybe you're an slowpoke for him to be pushing you and dictating what you'll do with your body. Damn you stewpidfuccker!!!!!

aigjoey:
...Honestly it isn't a joke.. I think i was stupid and now my eyes are opened.

Thank Jesus!Now do you see clearly?Nne,do the needful.

LadyFiona:
All these sensational stewpid topics to create attention. Six abortion huh?? Maybe you're an slowpoke for him to be pushing you and dictating what you'll do with your body. Damn you stewpidfuccker!!!!!

I will not seek attention with a thing like this... these is real so real. You will not understand. I deserve all the insults any way. but pray for me.

LadyFiona:
All these sensational stewpid topics to create attention. Six abortion huh?? Maybe you're an slowpoke for him to be pushing you and dictating what you'll do with your body. Damn you stewpidfuccker!!!!!

All I want from u is ur prayer.. this is not a tale .. its real . wish u can feel my pain.

This is your health and life at risk here, I think you should go ahead and get a coil fixed up,it's even not too safe to use pills for so long and without medical supervision, and abortions could be life threatening too!

aigjoey:
Please advice a Friend
She got married 7years ago with a girl and a boy to show for it. It was the suggestion of my husband not to have kids again which I kindly oblige to. But after my last child I have had six abortion because he wouldn't want me to deliver the baby and now I am pregnant for the 7th time he still wants me to abort it. But I said no to him and he has threatened to throw me out of his house if I don't do as he had instructed. I think this is wrong and what do I do. Note that I will never abort this one. And also note that he had refused all forms of birth control I suggested to him. PLEASE I NEED UR ADVICE AS I AM SO CONFUSED.

Babe have you ever heard of tying of tubes
6 abortions ke...Married woman? Even single girls no do reach so.
Your husband obviously wants you dead! Una doh oh

men are wicked and selfcentered pls dnt abort d baby God hs been merciful dnt joke wit him pls kip d baby take him to court and press charges agaisnt him u are a unique personality like him u have ur life to live u didnt come wit him u met him by marriage so he is nt ur God dis child is a blessing keep him or ha

You need to be prayerful.. Move out, go back to your parents house or any of your sibling's and have the baby.
Try to join any powerful church, where you'll give your life to christ and repentt of your sins.. Keep praying for your hubby, I believe God will see you through and change (his heart)him.

It's your life. Mind you, if you die with this abortion of a thing, na hell fire straight. And the man you're trying to please will mourn you for a few months and eventually marry another.
He has nothing to loose.. Be wise!

OP, you have put your body through too much stress already. I will advice you to have the child. But, use birth control henceforth. There are other forms of birth control your husband doesn't even have to know if you use them.

Some of us just end up with the most ridiculous and extremely self centered of men who are still boys and yet some ppl who hear from you just rain insults or call the story fabricated.op it is well