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As a matter of truth Love is the greatest force in life.. It is more like a driver, it pushes you to do the things that you wouldn't try to attempt naturally. But the misconception about love today especially amidst the youth is quite alarming and this is because love itself is more of actions than in words.. The action partt of love is the most misused because of ignorance but it would be of great importance to say that the actions of love amidst married couples should be different from the actions of love between courting partners.. In the successive paragraphs i would be sharing few points on pointers to the fact that its true love your partner has towards you... Critics, corrections and kudos are welcomed as it is a personal write up...

YOU KNOW ITS TRUE LOVE..

* When you feel safe with him/her.. Everyone needs to be protected physically, mentally, financially, emotionally, all wise. So when you feel safe with your partner with no fear of heartbreaks and so on not because he/she is perfect but you just chose to feel safe then its true love..
* You feel connected [ heart to heart]. Only true love can makes you feel so connected, you just seem to have so many things in common even if you are both from a different world. Barbie and the castle is quite an example,
* When you can spend a whole week, month or year with the person and no single thought of sex crosses your mind. This holds only for unmarried partners. Sex is the ultimate action of love and is not meant for everyone.. Yes, it is meant for married couples alone. You know its true lovewhen you can be with your partner for a great while and not think of sex because it is not what brought you together but rather, the unique bonding.
* When you see their good sides and forget their faults.. Even Jesus practised this. While we were yet sinners He died for us because He truly loved us.
* When you can sacrifice anything for them without hesitation. Even God Himself that is LOVE did this in John 3;16. Love cares so love gives.
* When up and downs don't affect the bonding. Just like our behaviours don't affect God's love towards us. True love is not affected by up and downs.
* When you can keep yours needs aside to take care of theirs.
* If their happiness is more important to you than yours. Our happiness was so important to Jesus that He endured the cross.
* You are not afraid. 1 John 4 vs 18 says ''There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love''. That says it all.
* You can die for the person.. Although that sounds unrealistic but is a sure sign of true love..
* You experience peace when with them.
* You are patient..

Thanks for reading this far.. Contributions are welcomed.. McLANNY

yea all your points are valid. kudos

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macville2:
yea all your points are valid. kudos

Thanks alot...

MykLANNY:
As a matter of truth Love is the greatest force in life.. It is more like a driver, it pushes you to do the things that you wouldn't try to attempt naturally. But the misconception about love today especially amidst the youth is quite alarming and this is because love itself is more of actions than in words.. The action partt of love is the most misused because of ignorance but it would be of great importance to say that the actions of love amidst married couples should be different from the actions of love between courting partners.. In the successive paragraphs i would be sharing few points on pointers to the fact that its true love your partner has towards you... Critics, corrections and kudos are welcomed as it is a personal write up...

YOU KNOW ITS TRUE LOVE..

* When you feel safe with him/her.. Everyone needs to be protected physically, mentally, financially, emotionally, all wise. So when you feel safe with your partner with no fear of heartbreaks and so on not because he/she is perfect but you just chose to feel safe then its true love..
* You feel connected [ heart to heart]. Only true love can makes you feel so connected, you just seem to have so many things in common even if you are both from a different world. Barbie and the castle is quite an example,
* When you can spend a whole week, month or year with the person and no single thought of sex crosses your mind. This holds only for unmarried partners. Sex is the ultimate action of love and is not meant for everyone.. Yes, it is meant for married couples alone. You know its true lovewhen you can be with your partner for a great while and not think of sex because it is not what brought you together but rather, the unique bonding.
* When you see their good sides and forget their faults.. Even Jesus practised this. While we were yet sinners He died for us because He truly loved us.
* When you can sacrifice anything for them without hesitation. Even God Himself that is LOVE did this in John 3;16. Love cares so love gives.
* When up and downs don't affect the bonding. Just like our behaviours don't affect God's love towards us. True love is not affected by up and downs.
* When you can keep yours needs aside to take care of theirs.
* If their happiness is more important to you than yours. Our happiness was so important to Jesus that He endured the cross.
* You are not afraid. 1 John 4 vs 18 says ''There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love''. That says it all.
* You can die for the person.. Although that sounds unrealistic but is a sure sign of true love..
* You experience peace when with them.
* You are patient..

Thanks for reading this far.. Contributions are welcomed.. McLANNY

i wanted to attack you when i saw this thread, i thought it was about dating or relationship ish, i would have opted for you to carry such trash and feed them to those vultures wasting their lives at romance section.
So when i read the whole of your write up, i had to commend you for youre such a good writer. Keep it up

ProphetUdeme:
i wanted to attack you when i saw this thread, i thought it was about dating or relationship ish, i would have opted for you to carry such trash and feed them to those vultures wasting their lives at romance section.
So when i read the whole of your write up, i had to commend you for youre such a good writer. Keep it up

thanks alot.. God bless u