tolutweety:


Iffa hear


Over ready dey worry you sef


Happy day of the sun.

Jamean:


Lol! So why you never come do the needed

See green light ooooo...

I'm calling immediately to seal the deal.

eipreel:
Page 559 chai!too lazy to go through all the posts

Prinzofparis I had April9, 2016 in mind a long time ago but Lero15 refused my proposal

Jamean:


I will take this with a pinch of salt.

@ what if the tables were turned... You know the double standards that exists in this part of the world. most men don't look for true repentance, they actually want the situation to be reversed that it never happened. So they torture her.

When a wife cheats it's the ego of the husband that is majorly affected, when a man does it's the confidence she has in her husband that is affected.

That said, you can't conclude until you are in that shoe.

Jamean:


Yes. People need to be informed

eipreel:
Page 559 chai!too lazy to go through all the posts

Prinzofparis I had April9, 2016 in mind a long time ago but Lero15 refused my proposal

Jamean:


I won't forgive you

Prinzofparis:


Wow!!!
People need to be informed about your harsh generalization? And your dad, uncles and brothers(no offense)?......
Hmmmmmm.

Jamean:


No, I am not working on myself

beau49:




Now am blown away......lol


Ok....I am endorsing you as 'Husband Material'(whatever that means)


Jokes aside I admire that and I hope I get your level of understanding/tolerance especially concerning this issue. Because I can't bear the thought of my hubby with another lady Things might never be the same again after that.*yes I am jealous like that* lol

eipreel:
Page 559 chai!too lazy to go through all the posts

Prinzofparis I had April9, 2016 in mind a long time ago but Lero15 refused my proposal

tolutweety:


See green light ooooo...

I'm calling immediately to seal the deal.

Prinzofparis:

Lol, thanks....
Not like I won't be jealous, ofcourse I will be which is one of the reason why I will be pissed, the other reason being the fact that she went through and through with it without thinking back.

I'd be really angry and sad, I'd probably tell her I'm really angry and I need max of 3 days off where I will go be alone probably in an hotel so she can have time to reflect on her actions..... Doing this she will know she has hurt her man for real this time and if she's still the level headed lady I fell in love with, she will sincerely beg for forgiveness upon my return....then I'd forgive and together we will heal.

In truth, its not as easy as I write it out here, but its doable. It will take some time for the wounds to heal but they surely will heal if both parties want to be together. I've seen friends and distant family do it and it always turns out very very well for them in the long run.

What is forgiveness compared to a broken home, where kids spend the rest of their lives having to go through that trauma. Simply because dad refused to forgive or mom refused to be repentant?...
In my view, it could be me and I'd really wish to be forgiven too...by God, by my wife or anybody involved.


God help us when we get married.
Happy sunday to you too.

elnino2015:


Men that talk much, do LESS.

Ladies BEWARE!

elnino2015:


Men that talk much, do LESS.

Ladies BEWARE!

ilori1930:

You 'd better start now dear. The husband market is highly competitive

cc150615:


Bad belle alert...

Hollabesea:
Morning sir! happy Sunday... go to church ooo

eipreel:


thereal.adonye and adeaks i miss you guys too that place no jus allow una dey show face again



have a great weekend everyone

Jamean:


Yes I can't bear the thought either. What has been known can't be unknown.

I can't assure myself what I will do.

@ his level of tolerance. Let's face reality, when a wife cheats the in-laws carry it on their head like bag of rice custom officers seize and most times they influence the decision of the husband.

When it is the man that cheats the same people try to cover it up and even blame you for everything. Especially those tribes with female infidelity taboo.

Anyway, what is my own sef. Iz not like I want to marry him

cc150615:
Davide470

davide470:
Sweets.. Howdy?

Prinzofparis:

Hahahaha...its not easy....

I just had to ask this tho:

How on earth will I tell my extended Family that my wife cheated on me...there are stuffs you don't tell a third person if you want peace and continuity.
Even in ordinary dating self, if my GF cheats on me and I know there's a slight chance that I might forgive her and continue with her, then there is absolutely no way I will tell another human being about it.
Why will I seek other people's counsel People who don't know jack about my partner or my relationship, people who don't even know me as much as my partner..... I am my best advice in situations like this.

Lol....this issue is now sounding somehow...#bailing things

elnino2015:


Men that talk much, do LESS.

Ladies BEWARE!

MarvellousGod:
Still on this matter?
Una happy Sunday ooo

Jamean:
davide470 be viewing from a CCTV like the patriarch of the thread.

Hian!

elnino2015:


No be bad belle!

The guy sounds too sweet and perfect. I don't think any man of such exists, maybe in movies.

Prinzofparis:

Lol, afternoon dear, Church was awesome...hope you went to church/mosque/Parish/KingdomHall/shrine/etc etc

Jamean:


Yes o!
The matter tie gele