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Its like a regular and common notion for young guys and ladies opening up different threads to bash the so called "desperate ladies" on nairaland...some will even give lots of instance of ladies coming out for prayers for husband at different churches or fellowships but the truth is most of the people writing those crap are either still young,student in school or in a comfortable relationship in that period of time.

Well the reality Is that 80% of school lovers dont end up in marriage and there's no guaranty for u that after a few years u wont belong to those circle of the so called "desperate ladies"

You may be in a serious relationship at the moment,feeling fly as if u own the world but how are u sure ur partner has any future plan for u...

No lady plans to become desperate at 28 or 32 but sometimes life kicks us in the butt,it sucks alot...I saw a thread where someone wrote that marriage shouldn't be counted as an achievement or feat but the honest truth is that its more than that...finally settling down with a man or woman that u can actually call ur own,with all hopes and gurranty that he/she will always be there with with u thru thick and think,cold and warm rich or poor,all life trials Is more of an achievement than building a house or all all the world degrees...marriage is also a gurranty that u are no more alone

Branding ladies that are ready to settle down or get married ain't right cos who knows u may end up been one of them...that comfortable relationship that u think u are secured may end in a blink of an eye after u may have invested ur time,hope,life and money in it...so remember u ain't better than those called desperados...just be thankful of what u have

Remember not all ladies spent their youthful years sleeping around...some will definitely say they were feeling pompous when they should have dated one of the guys asking them out...yeah some cases are true but that's kinda a lil percentage ..i believe every lady have a picture of what they like and who they are comfortable with...u don't have to settle for what is below u due to the fear of been single.a happy lady lady is someone who values and respect herself inregardless of what others think....

Always put God first and things will workout fine

kallmemrB:
Its like a regular and common notion for young guys and ladies opening up different threads to bash the so called "desperate ladies" on nairaland...some will even give lots of instance of ladies coming out for prayers for husband at different churches or fellowships but the truth is most of the people writing those crap are either still young,student in school or in a comfortable relationship in that period of time.

Well the reality Is that 80% of school lovers dont end up in marriage and there's no guaranty for u that after a few years u wont belong to those circle of the so called "desperate ladies"

You may be in a serious relationship at the moment,feeling fly as if u own the world but how are u sure ur partner has any future plan for u...

No lady plans to become desperate at 28 or 32 but sometimes life kicks us in the butt,it sucks alot...I saw a thread where someone wrote that marriage shouldn't be counted as an achievement or feat but the honest truth is that its more than that...finally settling down with a man or woman that u can actually call ur own,with all hopes and gurranty that he/she will always be there with with u thru thick and think,cold and warm rich or poor,all life trials Is more of an achievement than building a house or all all the world degrees...marriage is also a gurranty that u are no more alone

Branding ladies that are ready to settle down or get married ain't right cos who knows u may end up been one of them...that comfortable relationship that u think u are secured may end in a blink of an eye after u may have invested ur time,hope,life and money in it...so remember u ain't better than those called desperados...just be thankful of what u have

Remember not all ladies spent their youthful years sleeping around...some will definitely say they were feeling pompous when they should have dated one of the guys asking them out...yeah some cases are true but that's kinda a lil percentage ..i believe every lady have a picture of what they like and who they are comfortable with...u don't have to settle for what is below u due to the fear of been single.a happy lady lady is someone who values and respect herself inregardless of what others think..

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