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Shebarh:
Am not celebrating her.. A child is a blessing weather gotten out of wedlock or not...

Which blessing?
God did not bless that s.x and union. I cannot encourage and pay attention to wrong things because I did them in my past.

You are one of those people that wants us to candy coat what is wrong to accommodate wrong choices made by people, abi?? Having s.x before marriage and having a child before marriage is wrong and should be totaly discouraged, period.

Read this and think wisely if you are a christian

[b]Wisdom 3-4
https://www.bible.com/bible/431/wis.3

But children born of adultery or of a forbidden union will die an early death. 17 Yet even if they do live a long time, they will never amount to anything. They will not be respected in their old age, 18 and if they die young, they will have no hope or comfort on Judgement Day. 19 Children born of a forbidden union suffer a miserable fate.

It is better to have virtue, even if it means having no children. Your virtue will be recognized by other people and by God, and you will be remembered for it for ever. 2 Virtue provides an example for people to follow; when it is not there, they miss it. It has always been the finest prize a person can win, and it will always be so. It is the noblest of all the good qualities a person can have.

3 No matter how many children are born of a forbidden union, none of them will ever amount to anything. They are illegitimate; they can never lay a firm foundation for themselves, never take deep root. 4 Like trees with shallow roots, they put out leaves for a while, but they sway in the wind, and storms uproot them. [/b]

Fear your God and stop encouraging trash.

Open your eyes and look around you. Now how many people who were children of married parents have died an early death? Be honest to yourself, how many people are living a useless and disappointing life even though their parents are married? Speak the truth of what is happening around you and shame the devil.

Nobody is encouraging having children before marriage but that does not mean we should advocate abortion.

ammyluv2002:
What is cute? being a babymama? having kids outside wedlock and she's okay with it? C'mon! Let's not allow civilization take away every good values from us.

And you think your opinion can stop it?

chineloSA:
Which blessing?
God did not bless that s.x and union. I cannot encourage and pay attention to wrong things because I did them in my past.

You are one of those people that wants us to candy coat what is wrong to accommodate wrong choices made by people, abi?? Having s.x before marriage and having a child before marriage is wrong and should be totaly discouraged, period.

Read this and think wisely if you are a christian

[b]Wisdom 3-4
https://www.bible.com/bible/431/wis.3

But children born of adultery or of a forbidden union will die an early death. 17 Yet even if they do live a long time, they will never amount to anything. They will not be respected in their old age, 18 and if they die young, they will have no hope or comfort on Judgement Day. 19 Children born of a forbidden union suffer a miserable fate.

It is better to have virtue, even if it means having no children. Your virtue will be recognized by other people and by God, and you will be remembered for it for ever. 2 Virtue provides an example for people to follow; when it is not there, they miss it. It has always been the finest prize a person can win, and it will always be so. It is the noblest of all the good qualities a person can have.

3 No matter how many children are born of a forbidden union, none of them will ever amount to anything. They are illegitimate; they can never lay a firm foundation for themselves, never take deep root. 4 Like trees with shallow roots, they put out leaves for a while, but they sway in the wind, and storms uproot them. [/b]

Fear your God and stop encouraging trash.

Am not encouraging pre or extra marital sex... She had sex out of wedlock yh it is bad..but she is pregnant..Do u xpct her to abort the child

ok.

money121:

why ur own kiss. E concern u?

Shebarh:
Am not celebrating her.. A child is a blessing weather gotten out of wedlock or not...

Rain is also a blessing but we still use umbrellas..........SAY NO TO BABY MAMARISM

Shebarh:
Am not encouraging pre or extra marital sex... She had sex out of wedlock yh it is bad..but she is pregnant..Do u xpct her to abort the child

Exactly, why make a bad situation worse? If I were to accidentally get pregnant I would keep the baby and face the consequences. Why cry over spilt milk?

Besides Nadia may well be married and we don't know.look how big her stomach is and we are just hearing of her pregnancy.

londoner:
Exactly, why make a bad situation worse? If I were to accidentally get pregnant I would keep the baby and face the consequences. Why cry over spilt milk?

Gbam... You just said my mind.. why make a bad situation worse

ammyluv2002:
Nope! I don't but that doesn't mean i should celebrate her.

Hypocrite..are u not phocking?..u put super glue 4 der?...u chop comot ya own...she chop born her own..U NO HOLY PASS

IceDude:
Rain is also a blessing but we still use umbrellas..........SAY NO TO BABY MAMARISM

What part of the responsibility are you putting on the men?

Ontarget:
And you think your opinion can stop it?

Ain't we entitled to our opinions?

ammyluv2002:
What is cute? being a babymama? having kids outside wedlock and she's okay with it? C'mon! Let's not allow civilization take away every good values from us.

God bless u swt frnd, u r d type we need to teach dis modern gals wot it takes to b a virtuous woman

No time Jaaaaaaare!

Luckymay:
Another pregnancy or the one she already deliver?

ojeffo:
Hypocrite..are u not phocking?..u put super glue 4 der?...u chop comot ya own...she chop born her own..U NO HOLY PASS

Pls go to bed

ammyluv2002:
Pls go to bed

Nigerian men and hypocrisy....like bread and butter.

But I thought her mum is white?

Shebarh:
Am not encouraging pre or extra marital sex... She had sex out of wedlock yh it is bad..but she is pregnant..Do u xpct her to abort the child

Nope, I am not expecting her to abort. But society should discourage unmarried people flaunting their pregnancies as if its some kind of a reward, especially celebrities.
That does not give wise ideas to the younger generation.

If her mother kissed her tummy its their own baby, but flaunting it on social media, knowing exactly that she is a public figure and a model for some young people is absolutely wrong.
If she posted the pic now, why would she even post it when she has even delivered the babies What the purpose of her photo to her fans
Some younger people will think that it is a good thing to be pregnant before marriage and your mama should be rubbing your tummy.

Just like some people discourage same sex marriage, sex before marriage and kids before marriage issue should be equally given the same attention. Lets not be hypocritical.

ammyluv2002:
Ain't we entitled to our opinions?

Yes we are. But its pointless repeating such opinion several times whenever a thread like this comes up and its obvious such opinion cannot change anything.

chineloSA:
Nope, I am not expecting her to abort. But society should discourage unmarried people flaunting their pregnancies as if its some kind of a reward, especially celebrities.
That does not give wise ideas to the younger generation.

If her mother kissed her tummy its their own baby, but flaunting it on social media, knowing exactly that she is a public figure and a model for some young people is absolutely wrong.
If she posted the pic now, why would she even post it when she has even delivered the babies What the purpose of her photo to her fans
Some younger people will think that it is a good thing to be pregnant before marriage and your mama should be rubbing your tummy.

Just like some people discourage same sex marriage, sex before marriage and kids before marriage issue should be equally given the same attention. Lets not be hypocritical.

Now ah agree with you on this one

Ontarget:
Yes we are. But its pointless repeating such opinion several times whenever a thread like this comes up and its obvious such opinion cannot change anything.

Dude, it's my opinion not yours! I can chose to say it any time. And I'm saying it to change anything, i just want to air my views, it's a free world!

ojeffo:
Hypocrite..are u not phocking?..u put super glue 4 der?...u chop comot ya own...she chop born her own..U NO HOLY PASS

Just because some of us had s.x before marriage doesn't mean it was right and should now be made normal, please.

I don't think you would advice your daughter or younger sister to go around having sex before marriage. I always advice young people against it because I know better. That doesnt mean I am " HOLY''

You are a hypocrite.

Shameless People, If my Sister bring Home Pregnancy before getting married, no matter her age my other Will Slap her to the man's house. She kissing her tummy

All this Fake Nigerian Celebrities trying to make baby mama and baby daddy cool. Imagine someone saying Cute.

chineloSA:
Nope, I am not expecting her to abort. But society should discourage unmarried people flaunting their pregnancies as if its some kind of a reward, especially celebrities.
That does not give wise ideas to the younger generation.

If her mother kissed her tummy its their own baby, but flaunting it on social media, knowing exactly that she is a public figure and a model for some young people is absolutely wrong.
If she posted the pic now, why would she even post it when she has even delivered the babies What the purpose of her photo to her fans
Some younger people will think that it is a good thing to be pregnant before marriage and your mama should be rubbing your tummy.

Just like some people discourage same sex marriage, sex before marriage and kids before marriage issue should be equally given the same attention. Lets not be hypocritical.

To be honest nobody is discouraging sex before marriage. In fact there are a few vices especially in Nigeria that has taken root long before Nadia.

We all know how many kids Tuface had before he married all but one of his kids with three women. Do we not know that Wiz kid and Davido have children? Even Timaya.......what was said against them even Peter of Psquare had his son outside of wedlock. Did we call their children b.ast Ards or do we create threads here about which one has more swag?

Whether it is the issue of childbirth, marriage or divorce.......it is only the woman that is seen negatively. Let there be a stigma on men too and let's see if trends don't change.

Oboy d mum still young oooooooo

dapsonlou:
Shameless People, If my Sister bring Home Pregnancy before getting married, no matter her age my other Will Slap her to the man's house. She kissing her tummy

I don't doubt, but what if it is you that got a woman pregnant? What would you folks do to you?

ammyluv2002:
What is cute? being a babymama? having kids outside wedlock and she's okay with it? C'mon! Let's not allow civilization take away every good values from us.

I tire. As much as I wount encourage abortion baby mama tin don dey turn fashion o! N most ladies are tagging along. Na wa ooo!

londoner:
What part of the responsibility are you putting on the men?

"Woman wey dey find pikin nor dey wear pant sleep". Dem leave dia kpekus open base on free to air tins nai make baby show.......If i come visit u, i knock ur door u nor open for me how i wan take enta ur house?

IceDude:
"Woman wey dey find pikin nor dey wear pant sleep". Dem leave dia kpekus open base on free to air tins nai make baby show.......If i come visit u, i knock ur door u nor open for me how i wan take enta ur house?

I ask again what responsibility are you putting on the man? It's a simple enough question.

Let them make a law that pregnancy is actually marriage, we will soon see a reduction of pregnant women to the bare minimum.....overnight.

londoner:
To be honest nobody is discouraging sex before marriage. In fact there are a few vices especially in Nigeria that has taken root long before Nadia.

We all know how many kids Tuface had before he married all but one of his kids with three women. Do we not know that Wiz kid and Davido have children? Even Timaya.......what was said against them even Peter of Psquare had his son outside of wedlock. Did we call their children b.ast Ards or do we create threads here about which one has more swag?

Whether it is the issue of childbirth, marriage or divorce.......it is only the woman that is seen negatively. Let there be a stigma on men too and let's see if trends don't change.

I am not sure if we are members of the same Nairaland. But this Nairaland has always discouraged both man and woman celebrities who had babies before marriage.

The same Tuface you are talking about has been mocked countless times and given a name "Father of all Nations" etc before he settled with Annie. P Square has also counteless times been an object of riducule on this forum. The Davido and Wizkid have also been mocked and discouraged on this forum.

Society should jump at any opportunity to discourage behavior projected by celebrities who are influential in our societies. This Nadia girl is seeking attention, relevance and fame and she doesn't care about society and youth that she is influencing. Meanwhile if you are a parent with an 18yr old daughter, this will ruffle your feathers.

On the issue of stigma, I can say society stigmatize and focuses on woman because they are the ones who get pregnant and are left with babies. No one want this for their daughter or son, regardless of who gets the stigma.

Hmmm, with the way things are going, very soon all unmarried women will become baby mamas. You will hardly get a non baby mama to marry. Na waooooooooo